I do stuff, yeah.

They/He • 22 y/o • idfk man

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Horny thought but I have the head canon that while Lan Wangji doesn’t cuss normally, he ends up letting an occasional “fuck…” out during their *everyday is everyday* and it turns Wei Wuxian on soooo much.

Kinda like how girls go harder if their man moans in bed, Wei Wuxian goes harder if he gets Lan Wangji to cuss in bed.

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I don’t think we as a fandom really talk about this. Like, the only reason MXY was successful in summoning WWX and the entire cultivation world struggled to for 13 years, was because MXY used a spell that WWX himself created.

I genuinely want to know, what was the thought process behind WWX making a spell like that, considering it’s really the only thing he made that could truly be considered “evil” aside from (debatably) the Tiger Tally, and we at least know why he made that. Did he just decide to make that spell on a whim? Did he genuinely want revenge but didn’t think he could do it himself? Was it a failed attempt at making a different type of spell? Out of all spells he could make, why something like this specifically?

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How old is Wei Wuxian?

This is a question I’ve had for a while now and I need to know what other mdzs fans think, cuz Idek how to answer this. I realized that on the wiki Wei Wuxian doesn’t have a confirmed age and it go time thinking: “wait, there are like so many different ages Wei Wuxian could be.” I narrowed it down to like three main options I have for how old Wei Wuxian is by the end of the series:

Option 1: Going solely based on the passing of time since his birth. He’d be 36

Option 2: Going based on the passing of time since his birth, not including the 13 years he was dead. He’d be 23-24

Option 3: Going based on how old Mo Xuanyu was when he gave Wei Wuxian his body. We don’t have an actual age for him, but based on the story I like the hc him as being between 28-33 by then

So, which is it? Cuz I cannot wrap my head around which of these ages would make the most sense for Wei Wuxian.

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[daitheflu-mx]

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Thank God for face masks

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Me rn

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Being a romance favorable aromantic is weird.

Like I love romance and fantasize about being in a committed relationship with a woman, but I can't apply those feelings to people in general.

"I don't feel romantic attraction but I'm also gay af and I want to cuddle a women and raise a cat in a cottage together."

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Ace culture is being horrified when you find out teapot is used as an innuendo for female genitals.

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Is this fr?!

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Yo, I'm not even kidding, I had a dream a few days ago where this exact meme (the Barbies bff thing) played out exactly like this IN MY DREAM! ....... I think this is my minds way of telling me to start questioning my gender and I'm too scared to do that.

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So I (and most queer people) often run into the problem of constantly doubting your identity. Sometimes I feel like I'm just straight (or at least biromantic) and faking it for attention, then I try to imagine being with a man (romantically or sexually) and I physically cringe everytime. So it serves and a good reminder.

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A Day in the Life of a Baby Gay

I honor of pride month here's a quick little comic I made about what life is like for me as a baby gay. While I still deal with depressive episodes as a result of religious guilt and internalized homophobia sometimes, its been getting a bit easier now that I've starting be accept myself more. (Also in the 3rd panel, I know the song "Crush Culture" isn't specifically for Aros and Aces but it just gives so much aro and ace energy that we can claim it)

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HAPPY FUCKING PRIDE MONTH BITCHES!!!

This is actually my first pride month since I figured out my sexuality in late 2020 to early 2021. Probably cannot go to pride events but to those who can have fun, protest, celebrate and most of all do not forget to thank our black trans sisters for getting us were we are now.

But I will say this...

If I don't have a gf by the end of the month this whole month is homophobic.

Kay bye! 🏳️‍🌈

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Me: Why can't I get a gf?!

Also Me: Is asexual, Has no idea how to flirt or talk to girls, Sucks at making meaningful relationships, Has a lot of unresolved trauma, Has social anxiety, Cannot tell if someone is flirting or just being nice, hardly leaves my house, and is scared to talk to anyone remotely older than me online.

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Best Friend: OMG that guy's been checking me out. Isn't he so hawt.

Me Internally: Ew ew ew, that guy is so fucking annoying and he looks like a naked mole rat-

Me: ...Sure

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Asexual Lesbians only have 4 moods...

- Constant yearning for a gf

- Trying to fit in both the lesbian community and the asexual community

- Doubting one identity or the other constantly

- Calling yourself a lesbian because you don't want to keep lecturing people on asexuality

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I've been thinking about writing a story about a Japanese woman who works as a brothel waitress and falls in love with a newly recruited prostitute. Thoughts???

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I came out to my long distance best friend in early 2021. We've been close since middle school even after they moved out my state. I supported them when they came out to me (first as Trans and then as Non Binary). Sky if you see this, love you.