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healingchildhoodtrauma

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I will keep this post pinned and update it regularly as I find more relevant, helpful resources:

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving

Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship

The Emotional Incest Syndrome

You’re Not Crazy – It’s Your Mother: Understanding and Healing for Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

What Makes Narcissists Tick

(As always, the content of these books reflect the opinions and experiences of the authors. Every single idea or direction expressed will not necessarily apply to everyone.)

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it really pisses me off when adults sit there and drill it into kids’ heads that their youth is fleeting and tell them things like “enjoy your childhood while it lasts because this is the best it’s gonna get”. why are you telling children that adulthood is the worst thing they can experience? seriously what the fuck is wrong with you, why are you trying to make them feel like growing up is a fate worse than death? trying to convince them their life is over before it even begins? i’m tired of that shit. because tell my why my 12 year old cousin told me when she turns 30 she’ll be so depressed she’s just gonna cry all the time. what the fuck. kids don’t need to hear that their already stressful and overwhelming lives are never going to get better, that the abuse and lack of autonomy they face is apparently the highlight of their lives. they need to hear about adults who are happy to be alive and happy to have made it to their age. they need to know that growing up rules, it’s a gift and life does not have to suck for them, that they have a future that’s worth sticking around for. this rhetoric is so damaging mentally and i’m about to start hitting the adults who parrot it. i’m sorry you hate your life but you don’t get to dump your issues on these kids. don’t piss me off and leave these babies alone!