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Adonis | 22 | it/he | dumb butch transfem | extreme kinks no tags be warned | MDNI

[butch-kiddo]

Its been a while since I've posted about in on here, but Ring of Keys Leather is still going strong! I've got new designs, new colours, and a whole lot more experience.

Check out my website and Instagram for all the fun depraved stuff I have for sale, or info about custom orders!

I work mainly with kangaroo hide, which is cheap, comfortable, and ethically available here in Aus. Unfortunately that does make international shipping impossible because of customs shit but I'd still really appreciate a share from my non australian followers :3

[devoutdarling]

hi hi! it's doe again.. I got kicked to the curb for being too fun and adorable :( please reblog so I can find all my friends again!!

[deadeyed-dykething]

hey. shut up. i'm going to take care of you from now on. let me wash your hair for you. condition it. you have to leave it in for a while before you rinse. i'm going to take care of that. i'm going to brush your teeth for you. you don't have to worry about it anymore. i want to cook for you. you don't have to do anything. i know how hard it's been. you get to let it all go now. it's hard to pretend to be a person. i get it. i'll do all that for you. you don't have to-- stop, stop struggling. it's okay that it was too much for you. you don't have to try anymore. i can do it for you. i know you feel like you're supposed to feel bad about this but you don't have to. i'm making you, right? i'm forcing you to let me take care of you. you don't have to feel guilty. i'm forcing you. the personhood that never fit, that was too hard, i'm taking it away. you can just let it go. I'm going to take care of you. i'm going to take care of all of it. quiet. you'll get used to it. i promise.

[juniepuppie]

i want to emphasize this, anyone transfem or otherwise tma will get less respect in lgbt spaces and this goes even more so if they dont present as femininely, or god forbid if presenting masculine. i experienced this firsthand. there are points in my transition where i was still boymoding, where i was trying to be feminine and various stages of doing this better as i got used to it, and times when i did not want to shave or dress fem or anything so i didnt. there was a time i identified as nonbinary and then started identifying as a woman. throughout all of this, i was treated worse than my tme peers. this includes my transmasc friends who still presented femininely, who although by wider society would be observed as women, in these lgbt spaces (even those trans focused) they would have their identity respected. i cannot say the same for me.

they werent treated lesser, i was. they werent questioned on their identity, i was. they werent degendered constantly, i was.

the difference was like night and day no matter what i did.

the reason you do not see 'subversive' trans women as often like you do trans men, those trans men who are happy still wearing dresses and having breasts and wearing makeup, is because if a trans woman tries to do this same thing she will lose what little clearance she is given to a feminine identity. trans women often do not get to be gender nonconforming because the very notion of there being men who would choose to become women is already too radical for society

[unspeakablybea]

for pride month teach that tgirl she can cum multiple times (hands on style) and have water and chocolates and kisses and snuggles ready for her afterwards <3

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“I just need to learn how to seem more normal and they’ll leave me alone,” she thought, lacking any ability to understand why the boys they said were her peers seemed to hate her from the moment they met her

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Patriarchal society teaches boys to hate girls and believe it or not being a girl involuntarily sorted into boys spaces can very often mean being seen as an acceptable (and even deserving) target for that prejudice

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“Hello yes the boys you keep forcing me to be around keep attacking me on sight and the girls I find myself relating to and drifting towards have already learned that ‘boys’ are dangerous, which I don’t disagree with, but as a result they’re keeping their distance out of fear that I’m the exact sort of predator I’m trying to find refuge from, may I have some basic human kindness and connection, please?”

“That’s extremely selfish of you have you considered that maybe you deserve to be abused?”

“I had not! I’ll just internalize that now since it’s the only consistent message that anyone is sending”

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

I literally cannot stress enough the constant societal forces that work 24/7 to make even an unrealized trans girl think that her existence is fundamentally wrong and she deserves to be punished for it

Before I knew it was about gender I still knew that there was something ‘defective’ about me that justified the bullying and the harassment and the total lack of empathy from the people who billed themselves as figures of authority

[rabbitkinglune777]

tender bodies 💜🏳️‍⚧️

(she/her for Hitomi 😺)

(he/him for Hitch 🐁)

[yay-bunnies-world]

got banned. spread my bunny spores

[slimegirlboobies]

Hottest things a guy can say during sex:

Please stop

I don’t want this

You’re hurting me

Let me go

I’m scared

Why aren’t you listening?

[litterofbiscuit]

its interesting being a weird autistic tranny as a kid and letting yourself get accustomed to the idea that youre just some magically antisocial loser who is "introverted" and is happy being alone and then you grow up and realize that actually you love being social you love hugs you love going out and hate being alone you just hated all of the social opportunities available to you growing up so much you let yourself romanticize solitude as a slightly less miserable state than interacting with people

[analog-delight]

Sorry drag kings aren't as popular. I guess masculinity doesn't work that well as a costume to be mocked

[jessiewithaj]

sex, but instead of fucking you, we both get naked and i hold your head in my lap and forgive you for everything you think you've done wrong.

[posthumousprincessparts]

i'm sorry the doctor diagnosed me with "cute little sister" disease, the only cure is to let me cuddle you in bed while i wear only panties and a too big shirt i stole from your closet

[posthumousprincessparts]

i'm probably not old enough to be posting abt lesbian dads but that's ok cuz they love me and my princess parts

[procrastinationstationnn]

you could literally be using me to get off????tf

[uncut-feelings]

in the mood for sleeping lazily in someone's arms and them stroking my hair

[chaserba2t]

do any girls want to play hanging out and smoking weed in our underwear