[dogstrogen]

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➢ lavinia/lavi, 22, she/hir. mixed black/first nations. tma. stud lesbian on e.

➢ no i'm not giving you my personal info, and no you cannot send me money. give it to people who need it because i do not.

➢ minors can follow but please dni with my nsfw posts (under #k).

➢ twerfs and mras can rot and die.

[axodisiac]

honey, did you forget that little ones like you aren't allowed to have secrets? that rule is in place to keep you safe and ensure that the grown-ups know what you need. that's why nothing involving you is hidden! privacy will only obscure your needs. i show you off to everyone for your own good.

yes, sweetheart, everyone is going to see your diaper! everyone is going to know when you need a change. everyone is going to see you get changed. they're going to know that you need to be cuffed down when you're getting changed because you're too squirmy. they're going to know that you need boosters in all your diapers because you're such a heavy wetter.

they're going to know that you get a little more excited than you can handle when your special parts get a bit of attention during your changes, and you get all leaky! they're going to understand that you're too little to have real sex, and what you're getting now is the closest you'll ever get. they're going to see how little satisfaction you're allowed to have without permission, instead getting safely sealed up beneath thick, adorable padding to make sure those sticky accidents (and all your other accidents) stay where they belong.

once you're all safely padded again, they're going to see how short of a time your diaper stays dry for. everyone's going to see what a good eater you are when you're strapped into your highchair and spoonfed all your vegetables because you can't be trusted to eat them on your own. they'll see you being fed a big bottle of formula on my lap to make sure everything runs right through you. i'll make sure they all know what's in it too, how it helps you use those pampers as often as you need to as a growing little one.

everyone is going to know about all those cute outfits i dress you in, since you're too little to dress yourself. yes, i know the skirt is too short to cover your diaper, lollipop. that's the whole point, everyone needs to be able to check you at any time. not that you'd be in a position to argue even if i didn't have a good reason for it. yes, we are going to go shopping like this. we need groceries, and you can't be left alone in the car or at home. yes, we are going to buy more diapers for you, and yes, we will have to ask the nice associate if they have your size.

ahh, i thought you might get fussy about it being made clear to everyone what a silly little baby you are. but it would be good to show everyone the solutions i have for that too, wouldn't it? whiny little ones get punishments that make them look as pathetic as they are. everyone needs to know that you're all bark and no bite, and you can easily flush out the bark with a good spanking and enema combo. you can fuss all you like, but it'll just make things worse. you're powerless. you're just a baby, and you don't get the privilege of choice unless i offer it to you.

i think last time you had a tantrum here we stopped by the hairbrush section for a new spanking implement, no? but we can switch it up this time and pick out a new belt instead! ahh, this one's nice and thick, perfect for a good bottom busting! once we're home, we'll make sure to show everyone how cute you are when you're getting an enema with a sore bottom. i'm sure they'll enjoy it as much as i do when you squirm as you try to hold it.

and yes, they are going to talk about the silly little baby to all of their friends! don't give me that look- the more adults that know about your needs, the better. after all, don't you want everyone around you to know how to take care of you best? no no, don't even answer that, i don't care what you want.

your opinions are one of the few things you can keep to yourself.

[maidslime]

*see post saying shinigami eyes is transandrophobic, intersexist, and a tool of radical feminism*

*scrolls the rest of their blog*

>post saying trans men aren't men and that trans women aren't women and trans women are evil radfems for not seeing that

>post that says transmascs should be allowed to assault trans women

>post where a someone sexually harasses a trans woman that's getting spread around cuz sexual harassment is funny actually

>post calling trans women slurs while implying they're hysterical for thinking transmascs can benefit from any societal oppression

>post that implies terfs sole point of existence is hating men and by such implying trans women are men

>post saying trans women talking about transmisogyny tend to be more intersexist than anyone else written by a deactivated intersex activist that irl got in trouble for using their position to harass, misgender and hold back transfems in the same field and had to delete their blog cuz their job found it and it was used as evidence of their bigotry towards transfems (this is real btw)

>"thank you for letting me know that post was written by a terf anon, I should start checking posts I reblog" x5

>post that defines tme/tma wrong intentionally to spread misinformation

>reblogging kiwifarms harassment campaigns

>mfw greentexting on tumblr dot com

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ok but seriously for a minute. it's wild how so many transfems ("transfeminists") were constantly talking about the pitfalls of shinigami eyes and hows it's got problems, but it's still a worthwhile tool that helps us keep each other safe, though we do need to put in a little extra work to verify it because some blogs do get mislabeled, just for this community of people to get marked red on it and claim it's wholly terrible with no worth and transfeminists are actually terfs and idiots and- wait what did that one tag say

ah yes, despite it all we're just letting a browser extension do our thinking for us, as if we don't go to these blogs marked red and the first post on their blog isn't some horrific transmisogyny every. single. time.

[morganitism]

Can we be serious

[morganitism]

Come onnnnnn

[dinocardida]

This is basically saying "rags-to-riches stories are basically the most anticapitalist thing you can do" but with feminism. It does not actually shatter capitalism/the patriarchy to move between classes, and using the privilege one gains from this "bulldozing" against the underclass you were once a part of (as most privileged people do, especially if they refuse to recognize their privilege) actually reaffirms it.

And this post so blatantly shows that transmasc misogynists do get it despite their unwillingness to acknowledge it. They clearly recognize that women are an underclass ("someone the patriarchy deems as lesser") and that they transition into a [higher] class ("bulldozing your way into a social class"). But they refuse to actually acknowledge this and instead cling to their AGAB, which just maintains the system of transmisogyny.

[plushie-sex]

rest in peace eryka caldwell. she was a 41 year old trans woman of color stabbed to death by her boyfriend. she had so much life left and yet it was cut short by this man. i hope the world can be better for trans women of color, sooner rather than later.

[dinsintegration]

[numbtotherhythm]

in my notifications

[thisurlwasnttakenbutnowitis]

[neechees]

[strangerfandomfiascos]

[airportrunwaymodel]

[c4ps3p]

[ivan-fyodorovich-deactivated202]

high comedy

[displeasedfrog]

[official-penis-posts]

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

you are so so so so cute. wowwwww nice

oh you have no idea

[mousidy]

do ciswomen really have to use our bathrooms

[mousidy]

the men's is right there

[dogstrogen]

i was that puppygirl once. i got thrown out and discarded just as that hateful screed disguised as transfeminist literature described. it would have killed me if i hadn't found safe people in time

protect your puppygirl. love your puppygirl.

[iridescsens]

hey be careful with that shit man, my cousin got hooked on doll pheromones too and he was never the same after that

[nacht---hexe]

she

[disjointed-doll]

it

[dogstrogen]

we need to bully intersex tmes more. you are not transmisogyny affected because you are able to say "well i'm not actually a tranny". tme/tma isn't erasing your experiences, i'm afraid you're just illiterate on intersectionality. you don't know what they mean and you don't care to learn because you think you exist in a vaccum. you're like the white people who claim to be targets of racism because they got called the n slur once

[morganitism]

There is no trans unity.

[morganitism]

There is no trans unity while you continue to shout over and ignore racialized trans people. There is no trans unity while you don't care about young trans people and how their resources get stripped away faster than any other trans person's. There is no trans unity while you don't let trans women have any language or resources to protect themselves from transmisogyny. There is no trans unity while you leave disabled trans people to fend for themselves. There is no trans unity while you can't acknowledge pay gaps and murder rates between different demographics of trans people. There is no trans unity while you let white supremacy fester in your spaces. There is no trans unity while you only care about trans people in the imperial core.

There is no trans unity when you only care about what benefits you.

[storyweavingspider]

If you are a white person in a racialized person’s life, especially as a partner or close friend, you should go out of your way to ask regularly “hey is there anything you have been holding on to that I did?” and critically both fix it and NOT DO ANYTHING TO PUNISH THEM FOR TELLING YOU.

As a white person raised in a white supremacist society, you’re gonna fuck up sometimes. That’s just a fact. But racialized people often aren’t able/comfortable speaking up when y’all do some shit because of the power imbalance/not feeling up to educating when you may be resistant/don’t think the “fight” will be Worth It.

Show initiative without making it A Struggle or playing the white guilt card. Show you actually care about them, their struggles, and the way you interact with them BEFORE they have to have a bigger Conversation with you, beyond when they need to yell about someone else being racist.

And for fucks sake if they’re making/showing you something from their culture fucking act like you realize the importance of that, that they’re showing you shows they grew up with or making you food they made with their families, that they’re letting you in and trusting you more than other whites in their life.

[mintendo96]

This would honestly be life changing for me. The idea came up because I feel so incapable of telling the people in my life when they do racist shit. And like furthermore, actually respond beyond just an I'm sorry. Like for the love of god actually internalize the shit the Black and Brown folks say to you.

[mintendo96]

I'm seeing a lot of tags from white people saying something along the lines of please tell me if I fuck up and like that really goes against the point of the post. Racialized people have to swallow so much racism on a daily basis and it's impossible to tell who is safe to confront.

Even close friends or partners are not necessarily safe. I have had partners dismiss accusations of racism just off hand, I have had partners treat me like a repository for knowledge on Muslim cultural practices despite the fact that *my family has been Christian since Jesus,* hell I have had a partner say I was overplaying my pain at the genocide to get sympathy.

Racialized people are constantly waiting for the other shoe to job. Constantly waiting for their "antiracist" white friend to decide they have learned all they need to. We need you to ask. We need you to care enough to be proactive literally at all. Stop asking us to trust you without doing any fucking work to prove you are trustworthy.

[storyweavingspider]

To emphasize

IF YOU ARE WHITE YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP OR YOU ARE JUST PUTTING MORE LABOR AND DANGER ON YOUR RACIALIZED FRIENDS FOR YOUR FUCKING COMFORT

Fucking reblog this each time you see it so that it gets drilled into other whites heads

[dogstrogen]

all boy bunnies except for salem wolfertinger are getting euthanized

[dogstrogen]

i love nanise morganitism and i will kill anyone who is mean to her ever

[bowserwife]

Wow bro that sounds really rough *gently places my hand on your cock* I want you to know if you ever need anything I'm always here for you

[analog-delight]

[decompose1]

what if we stopped making Ambiguously Brown Character and started actually thinking about the race and ethnic features of the characters we made? what if instead of drawing a character that looks like you painted a white character brown, we started varying noses, lips, eyes, and hair? just a thought