butch, please.

yautja. 31. white. trans masc stone butch. they/him. taken by a wonderful femme. professional depp hater. bug & arachnid lover. terfs & minors dni.

[butchyautja]

this blog is:

trans inclusive.

nonbinary inclusive.

nonbinary lesbian inclusive.

ace/aro exclusive.

pan exclusive.

bi inclusive.

bi lesbian exclusive. 

this blog:

believes the split attraction model should only be used by ace/aro people. it’s the only time it makes sense.

thinks ‘genders’ such as ‘stargender’ and pronouns that are just random ass words are bs.

believes that being a gold star isn’t a bad thing. not going through the trauma of comphet SHOULD be celebrated. however, NOT being gold star doesn’t make someone less of a lesbian.

believes that biphobia exists. ‘pansexuality’ stems from biphobia. bi women especially deal with stigmatization, increased cases of intimate partner violence, etc. however, i don’t believe erasure or invisibility is on par with visibility when it comes to community issues. i also believe the bi community has an issue with lesbophobia, and often accusations of biphobia are used in an attempt to silence during disagreements.

is run by a nonbinary trans masc butch. trans masc doesn’t = man. nonbinary lesbians have always existed.

knows that trans men cannot be lesbians because they are men. men cannot be lesbians.

[bittlebarnes]

Still thinking about The Last of Us:

There's something about Ellie inheriting her gun from Frank that scratches the itch in my brain.

A baby queer inheriting something from a queer elder.

A queer elder who got to live passing down an object of protection to a baby queer whose superpower is that she lived

The mirrored role both Ellie and Frank play(ed) in Joel and Bill's lives.

Yeah. Itched scratched.

[butchyautja]

it’s okay to call them gay, you know.

[bittlebarnes]

It’s okay to make your own post too but here you are.

[butchyautja]

i just don’t understand why you feel the need to refer to them as queer when we KNOW one’s a gay man and one’s a lesbian. like it’s okay to refer to people by their actual identities.

[bittlebarnes]

Still thinking about The Last of Us:

There's something about Ellie inheriting her gun from Frank that scratches the itch in my brain.

A baby queer inheriting something from a queer elder.

A queer elder who got to live passing down an object of protection to a baby queer whose superpower is that she lived

The mirrored role both Ellie and Frank play(ed) in Joel and Bill's lives.

Yeah. Itched scratched.

[butchyautja]

it’s okay to call them gay, you know.

[queerstudiesnatural]

that’s literally supernatural

[headspace-hotel]

I saw this in the notes. Why do y'all just make stuff up? Not only can you just google it and find lots of movies that call the zombies “zombies,” there aren’t even any zombies in Marvel???

Anyway, “Don’t Say the Z Word” is a trope, and it’s not clear exactly why the trope is a thing but it’s probably either to set a particular book/movie/etc apart (our monsters are different), or to make it sound more “serious” or “realistic”

[memewhore]

[butchyautja]

p.s trans men aren’t lesbians and saying they can be is both transphobic and lesbophobic.

[butchyautja]

the person claiming to be SO pro-butch is on some trans men can be lesbians bs and i feel so vindicated lmao

[aidashakur]

I grieve for younger me.

You deserved better and you really didn’t know.

[forgivemediva]

[ollielephant]

[cumonthevoid]

none pizza with left beef

[the-chocolate-chip-pancake-blog]

It should be a rule of Tumblr to always reblog none pizza with left beef

[babymarkers]

ive missed you

[keepcalmandcarriefischer]

Posted Oct 9, 2012

[toastbutteregg]

theres too many i cant name just two

[wyldstallyn]

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[lipstickleatherdyke]

send this to anybody who says stone sex isn’t reciprocal

[lipstickleatherdyke]

actually i have a revision to make

[cowardly-bisexual]

Hayley Kiyoko is also just biphobic. Like she wrote an entire biphobic song with a biphobic video but if you try to talk about it you get told by non-bi ppl that it isn't serious lmao

Hayley Kiyoko writing a song called "Curious" about how dating bi women is uniquely traumatising because they will leave you for a man: no one can tell I hate bi women if i don't call it "bi-curious"

[slutauthority]

Also wanna just add that it was mentioned the partner she was speaking of was still closeted while Kiyoko was writing this song.

She wrote a whole song about DEALING with someone who is in the closet and brushed off their relationship with a man as something done to hide her real feelings.

[cowardly-bisexual]

she also called it a “revenge” song like wow your gf struggling with coming out must be really hard for you...

also if you don’t want to date someone who’s in the closet just don’t date closeted people? have the emotional maturity to recognise you’re in different stages of your LGBT journey and are not compatible and just. don’t get involved. instead of pursuing a relationship you know wont work for you and then getting pissy about it

[butchyautja]

yeah, i don’t get this and it just sounds like bs reaching ngl.

lesbians dating other lesbians who aren’t ready to come out is a common issue, and many of said lesbians who aren’t ready to come out will be with men and have these women on the side until they’re ready to be who they are. and they’ll string these women who love them along for a long time in the process. it’s a genuinely common issue, and i wish bi people would stop making stuff like this about them.

[butchyautja]

and oftentimes it’s not as simple as just ‘don’t date someone who’s closeted.’

like what if you’re both closeted, you come out, and then they don’t? what if you don’t even learn they’re closeted until you’re already full on in the relationship? what if they’re out to their friends and others around them, but not their parents? being closeted isn’t a cut and dry experience and there’s plenty of times where being so could negatively affect your partner, without it being their fault.

[butchyautja]

like y’all will legit shit on a lesbian for making songs about HER OWN life experiences because it offends you. fuck off with that shit honestly lmfao.

[cowardly-bisexual]

Hayley Kiyoko is also just biphobic. Like she wrote an entire biphobic song with a biphobic video but if you try to talk about it you get told by non-bi ppl that it isn't serious lmao

Hayley Kiyoko writing a song called "Curious" about how dating bi women is uniquely traumatising because they will leave you for a man: no one can tell I hate bi women if i don't call it "bi-curious"

[slutauthority]

Also wanna just add that it was mentioned the partner she was speaking of was still closeted while Kiyoko was writing this song.

She wrote a whole song about DEALING with someone who is in the closet and brushed off their relationship with a man as something done to hide her real feelings.

[cowardly-bisexual]

she also called it a “revenge” song like wow your gf struggling with coming out must be really hard for you...

also if you don’t want to date someone who’s in the closet just don’t date closeted people? have the emotional maturity to recognise you’re in different stages of your LGBT journey and are not compatible and just. don’t get involved. instead of pursuing a relationship you know wont work for you and then getting pissy about it

[butchyautja]

yeah, i don’t get this and it just sounds like bs reaching ngl.

lesbians dating other lesbians who aren’t ready to come out is a common issue, and many of said lesbians who aren’t ready to come out will be with men and have these women on the side until they’re ready to be who they are. and they’ll string these women who love them along for a long time in the process. it’s a genuinely common issue, and i wish bi people would stop making stuff like this about them.

[butchyautja]

and oftentimes it’s not as simple as just ‘don’t date someone who’s closeted.’

like what if you’re both closeted, you come out, and then they don’t? what if you don’t even learn they’re closeted until you’re already full on in the relationship? what if they’re out to their friends and others around them, but not their parents? being closeted isn’t a cut and dry experience and there’s plenty of times where being so could negatively affect your partner, without it being their fault.

[cowardly-bisexual]

Hayley Kiyoko is also just biphobic. Like she wrote an entire biphobic song with a biphobic video but if you try to talk about it you get told by non-bi ppl that it isn't serious lmao

Hayley Kiyoko writing a song called "Curious" about how dating bi women is uniquely traumatising because they will leave you for a man: no one can tell I hate bi women if i don't call it "bi-curious"

[slutauthority]

Also wanna just add that it was mentioned the partner she was speaking of was still closeted while Kiyoko was writing this song.

She wrote a whole song about DEALING with someone who is in the closet and brushed off their relationship with a man as something done to hide her real feelings.

[cowardly-bisexual]

she also called it a “revenge” song like wow your gf struggling with coming out must be really hard for you...

also if you don’t want to date someone who’s in the closet just don’t date closeted people? have the emotional maturity to recognise you’re in different stages of your LGBT journey and are not compatible and just. don’t get involved. instead of pursuing a relationship you know wont work for you and then getting pissy about it

[butchyautja]

yeah, i don’t get this and it just sounds like bs reaching ngl.

lesbians dating other lesbians who aren’t ready to come out is a common issue, and many of said lesbians who aren’t ready to come out will be with men and have these women on the side until they’re ready to be who they are. and they’ll string these women who love them along for a long time in the process. it’s a genuinely common issue, and i wish bi people would stop making stuff like this about them.

[wherethereareoctobers]

If you could instantly be granted fluency in 5 languages—not taking away your existing language proficiency in any way, solely a gain—what 5 would you choose?