-> genderfucked femme lesbian (he/they) (no fem forms of address pls!!!)
-> hornyposting & butchfemme zone & stone top lover
-> standard dni
-> i wont follow back (sideblog </3 feel free to ask for my main !) but dms & asks r open ! but mostly i just lurk. im friendly i promise <3
-> bottom leaning switch (allegedly) (unproven)
-> aspiring spoiled pillow prince and boywife
-> still figuring out what stuff i like but iâm mostly into: feminization/any kind of genderplay, objectification, free use, d/s, forced intox, etc. probably more but iâm shy . butches let me dress up for u <3
-> really interested in kink history and psychology !!
-> other interests include horror (bloodborne esp!!), classic lit, anything gothic or spooky, etc etc
while i do like the idea of the âbig strong butchâ trope that goes around here i canât help but think about all the butches (and femmes) that donât feel connected to the characteristics that are attributed to them on here.
being a strong butch shouldnât always be physical. a strong butch can also be someone who carries themselves with pride even when theyâre told to be less, to put themselves in a corner. a strong butch can be someone who deals with a disability or chronic pain but that still shows up for their community. it can be the closeted butches who push through and face their fears every single day.
i think we should all start to appreciate the people in our community for their emotional and mental strength too and not focus only on what they can offer you in terms of physical affection.
this is all to say, i love you all types of lesbian, youâre loved and appreciated just as you are.
making her undo my belt, unzip my jeans, pull my boxers down. instructing her. "slower, baby. take your time." comforting her when her hands shake, if she fumbles, stroking her hair and petting her and cooing at her, "there you go, hon. give it a kiss...." all nice and sweet until i'm fucking her face and ignoring her crying