Ok so I’ve been noticing more and more threads in the rp world involving kinks and fetishes. Which hey thats cool! But one of the things I’m noticing is that sometimes people either don’t know enough about the fetish/kink they are writing or they know nothing.
this first post is going to be about DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl). I know I know, some of you are now going ‘Ew calling your S/O Daddy is nasty”. But guess what, in DDLG it’s not about incest (well it can be if you want it like that but we will get to that later) Because this is gonna be a long as hell post I’m gonna put it under a cut.
DD/MD- Daddy Dom/Mommy Domme
LG/LB- Little Girl/Boy
Little Space- Much like sub space this is the mind set of the little (submissive)
Age Range- The age in which the Little regresses to doing play
Big Girl/Boy games- This is used only for those couples who do have sex while in play
DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl. It is a subsection of the BDSM world. The ‘Daddy’ is a dom male or female partner while the ‘little girl/boy’ is the ‘little’ or submissive partner. All people involved are (or should be, please do not have relations with a minior of either gender identity folks! jail is no fun) of Consenting age, meaning they are adults. It’s considered a softer side to the typical BDSM community.
No. While some people who partake in this fetish can make it incestuous by agreeing a head of time to certain things, DDLG its self isn’t about incest. It’s about being taken care of, having structure and sure sometimes it can involve sex.
If someone has a Daddy kink doesn’t that mean they have Daddy issues?
Nope. Well sometimes, but most of the time those who partake in it don’t have Daddy issues. Or Mommy issues (yes there is Mommy Dom/Little Girl (Boy) ). They just happen to link this kink.
What is involved in DDLG?
That depends on the couple and their other fetishes/kinks. Like anything BDSM related, you have your soft and hard limits. But most mainstays in DDLG are:
Coloring
Cartoons (age appropriate which we will get to)
Age defined Clothing (Dresses, undergarments, pants, oneises ect.)
Food
Punishments (spanking, time out, washing out mouth with soap)
Chores (again age appropriate)
What does ‘age appropriate’ mean?
Many who partake in DDLG do so by age regression. Each person is different. Age ranges can be from 2-16. Depending on where a person has there little’s age set is how you determine what you do. Say someone has a little space age of 3. This means they may or may not like: sippy cups, toys made for that child age range, diapers/pull ups. If they do involve diapers or pull ups they may or may not like to use them. It is all based on a person by person. This can also go into ABDL (Adult baby Diaper lover)
Doesn’t that make these people pedophiles?
No. A pedophile is a person who wants to have sex with a child. People who are into DDLG or ABDL are people who wish to ACT like a child, or roleplay, but are still adults. The Dom in no way wants to have sex with a small child nor does the little.
What is ABDL?
ABDL is a subset to the DDLG (my god so many subsets!) And it stands for Adult Baby Diaper lover. This is a person who either loves acting like a baby/being treated as one, or someone who likes/loves to wear Diapers. Not all use them for their intended purpose. But many do. This can mean wetting and/or messing. This also means using things like Bottles, bibs, baby toys, a crib or playpen.
What about sex? How does that work?
Like normal. Well kinda. Like I’ve said before everyone is different and some people add in other kinks they may have. Spanking, choking, gags, bondage ect. Not everyone finds this fetish sexual and therefore you don’t have to involve sex with it.There are some terms that some littles and their Doms use:
Lolli- either Daddy’s penis or Mommy’s strap on
Kitty- the vagina
Big Girl/Boy games- Sex
Candy- ejaculation
everyone has their own terms. Find what makes you feel comfortable/feels right and go with it. As with anything be safe, sane and consensual.
When it comes to kinks everyone has something that makes them feel good. Judging some because their kink isn’t something you are into is never cool.
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