The Journey

Caged by “wife” jerseygirlkeyholder

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I’m in my cage and panties today like everyday.

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And who does not?

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I edge my husband because...

(A great list, even though not written by me) I edge my husband because:

It’s what his body wants, whether his mind knows it or not

It’s more pleasurable for him to be edged and denied than for him to cum – simple biology

I can do this every day, and he’ll stay aroused and excited every time

He makes the sexiest noises when I edge him

I love watching his mind go numb with pleasure

He gets so stiff and hard for me, I can’t resist touching it, and I want him to stay that way as long as possible

He stays in a hypersexual state, always eager to pleasure me any way I want

It arouses me to see him lost in bliss

Edging him is so easy, and it gets easier every day I do it

I want him to be happy, and he’s obviously happy when he’s on the edge

I love that he trusts me with his most intimate, natural reflex, so I trigger it as often as possible (or almost-trigger it!)

He fucks me so hard after I edge him for a few days – he’s like an animal, I fucking love it!

He thinks of me all day and texts me the sweetest things

He works hard, doesn’t get enough respect, and deserves to “zone out” for a while in my hands or mouth

It makes him dream about me, so I’m part of literally every moment of his life

And more, and more… Source: http://healthysexymarriage.tumblr.com

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Every single reason on there is solid gold 🌟

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These are my wife’s reasons for edging me. They are all positive. Except I’m still struggling with not getting to fuck her hard.

I used to “fuck” endlessly back in 2015. Now she enjoys me as a “blast” that fires quickly. On December 5th, she let me take her. She had ruined me. But imperfectly. I had twitched in an abandoned orgasm but was staying hard, so she decided to give me a real climax to finish. Being inside her was too much. I lasted only 20 strokes. I nearly cried from the intensity.

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Every Chastity Caging Session is a Journey.  A Travel Guide to Keyholders

What makes Caging your man so special is the resulting energy dynamic between you.  The interaction is key for both partners, it is what enriches the experience and the relationship.  For the Keyholder to maximize the pleasure (both ways) and control (one way), it is important for her/him to understand what her sub is experiencing.

I think many assume that Day 1 is like Day 3 is like Day 7 is like….except more horny.  My experience has been much richer than that.  Like anything in life that takes days or weeks, a Caging session is a journey. Day 1 is different from Day 3 is different from Day 7 is different from Day 21….

My perspective includes a decade of Caging and Denial sessions of three weeks or more. Throughout these sessions I have noticed a recurring cycle of emotions and physical challenges that each one brought to me. I assume each caged sub experiences something similar and, as his Keyholder, your working to understand his unique cycle will significantly amplify the experience.  And every Keyholder wants her sub to crave being caged. 

In this blog, I want to highlight the mental and physical journey that each locked session brings to me.  I will summarize them by ‘Day locked’ number.  For me, it is a very similar sequence each time, with some minor shifting of transition dates.  It is my hope that I can inspire Keyholders to understand her/his sub a bit better and take full advantage of him.  

I will talk about where my energy focus is at each stage, as it shifts in my body.  There may be some correlation to the Chakras of Indian philosophy, which I know nothing about. 

Full disclosure, I am moderately submissive, nothing approaching Sissy.  But I find caging pushes me to a deliciously submissive state; it is why I love it.  If left alone, I have a ‘once every third day’ sex/masturbate schedule.  If your guy needs sex more frequently, i.e. daily, I assume that will alter his cycle significantly.  But I assume the sequence of the cycle, i.e the energy shifts,  will be similar.

Day 1.  A day of possibility and unknown.  Always exciting, always special.  That first lock click always brings a smile.

Day 3.  Day three is my ‘want sex’ day and the cage seriously multiplies that urge.  Horny.  And very centered in my crotch.  This energy and feeling increases through the first week.  I am revved up horny, my groin is screaming, I feel aggressive.  I am a walking, talking cock.  Go easy on him this cycle, be sexy, touch him a little, but give him time to cool down.

Day 7.  Day 7 +/- 1 day is my first transition point.  Suddenly the energy has moved into my head.  I am horny, but my crotch is calm.  My brain is excited, full of fantasies and lust.  This is a lovely time for cat and mouse play.  Play with his mind, not his cock.  Tease his brain with scenarios, stories, porn he likes, how you will take him, etc.  This is when you sink the hook.  This period lasts about a week or more for me.  It is very excited pleasure.

Day 14.  Somewhere around the second or third week, Days 14-21, the energy shifts again, this time to my heart.  This is the ‘I love her madly’ zone.  This is what you, as Keyholder, are aiming for.  In this phase, I will do anything to please her.  Anything.  With no expectation.  I am horny but calmly so.  This is when the horny becomes submission.  I have surrendered totally to her now.  Slow, physical teasing in this phase is incredible.  Every touch is amazing.  A few nipple twists later I am a puddle.  This is my sweet spot and I could live here forever. And for the Keyholder, this is when you get full and exqusite control.  Daily oral orgasms on are the menu.

Day 21 and onward.  Eventually the energy settles in my abdomen.  I am calm, happy, subservient, devoted, cooperative.  But now is when the physical limitations of denial creep in.  My balls get sore, my nights are interrupted with massive cage crushed erections.  It becomes a physical challenge.  Big time Blue Balls.  

To go further, you have to tough it out, hope for a wet dream or take charge of it.  Prostate massage is a lovely way to reduce the pressure without orgasm.  Getting carefully pegged can accomplish the same.  I still remember the first time I dripped, dribbled and, ultimately poured myself out on the floor while Mistress slowly pegged me from behind.  If you can solve the physical needs, you can ride the wave as long as you like.  

Happy to answer inquiries.  Good luck managing your boys.

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Chastity

Chastity is a curious fetish. It’s curious because it’s a fetish that morphs into a lifestyle with relative ease. It’s also a fetish that is just as addicting for the wearer, as it is for the key holder. The part that makes chastity the most curious however, is just how quickly it can change the mindset of the wearer and key holder. It doesn’t take very long at all to recognize just how powerful D/s can be. Chastity does however, have a few learning curves to it, but they can also be a part of the fun.

When starting out with chastity, it can take a bit of time to get the right fit. There’s a lot of components that need to fit together just right. Too tight can mean serious health consequences, where as too loose might mean the cage falls off without the key. Taking the time to figure out the right fit will beneficial for longer term wear, and putting an end to pinching, or chafing.

It’s important that the base ring fits snugly, just before it cuts off blood circulation. When you’re first starting out, you’ll find that over time, you’ll need to gradually move to smaller rings as the body adjusts.  When you’re just starting out with chastity, the male body is going to rebel against it for the first few weeks. In fact, the device will likely not be able to be worn overnight because in the middle of the night, nocturnal erections will prevent him from sleeping. Not because it’s painful, but because the penis is trying to push the cage away from the body. This causes the scrotum to pull against the ring causing it to stretch. This stretching makes him feel a burning sensation that doesn’t really hurt, but it’s a strong enough feeling to prevent sleep.

Don’t worry, with a few repeated attempts to wear the device overnight, the scrotum will stretch and the burning will cease until the cage can be worn all night long. All attempted erections can be slept through, and he will awake as a very horny locked submissive. Being able to stay locked for a full night is a milestone. The stretching/burning sensation will come back when attempting to do 2 - 3 or more nights in a row, because the body is still not used to it fully. Eventually all this will stop, and he’ll be able to stay chaste indefinitely, without losing any sleep.

Chafing is another concern, because it’s a device attached to a moving part of the body, the ring will tend or irritate the skin and cause it to go raw. One good way to combat this, is to use a clear diaper rash ointment which works like a lube, or remove the cage until it heals then try again. One good brand of ointment is Penaten daily clear protection cream, its on Amazon. This can also be used inside the cage, because it repels moisture. It prevents any kind of infections from sweat and daily use while also allowing the penis to slide around in the cage instead of sticking to the sides. It makes it much easier for him to go pee, without struggling to line his penis up with the hole.

Over time as the body get used to the cage, the skin will stretch, and jumping down a size in the base ring may be a good idea. The cage will often begin to pull forward after a few days of wear, making pullout very possible, if not tempting. Moving to a smaller ring at this point, is a good idea.

Attempted erections over time will lessen to a degree. Not because he’s losing the ability to get hard, quite the opposite in fact, when he’s allowed to be hard, he’ll be harder than he’s ever been! However, his body will have learned that it cannot win against the cage, and will accept defeat. It will not try to get erect as often, which means, his penis will be flaccid most of the time.  If you look at the cage, and see where his flaccid penis is resting, it will likely be a short distance away front the end of the cage. This means, upgrading to a smaller cage would be beneficial.

The cage should fit around the flaccid penis so that it rests touching the end of the cage. Not straining against it. The object is not to cram the penis into the cage, so that even when its resting its backing up into his body. The cage should match his flaccid size, so that when he attempts to get hard, he’s gently denied. Causing him to squirm in frustration and submission.

One other important part to remember when fitting a chastity cage, is the space between the base ring and the cage itself. The gap should not be very wide, it should be wide enough to enable circulation. It should compress the scrotum, so that the balls are snugly held in place. If the gap is too wide, when he gets cold, or is active, or even sleeping, his testicles might slip through that gap, and that can cause pain or injury. Especially if one testicle can slip through and the other cannot.

It is for reasons exactly like that, that the submissive should have access to a chastity key at all times. It doesn’t mean he gets to keep a key on his key chain. But perhaps in a sealed, stapled and signed envelope, that can’t be opened without being noticed. It’s also something that can cause him to be extra horny, knowing the key is within his reach, but he can’t use it without his key holder knowing. So safety first, can be beneficial in more ways than one.

It can be a lot of fun to figure out the right size, and experiment with chastity, it’s really the perfect way to figure out if chastity is for you or not. Once you get past the fitting stages, and getting the body used to it, the real fun begins. It’s the point where, she truly gets to decide if and when, he gets unlocked.

A whole new psychological level unlocks with chastity. One very interesting aspect of chastity is that it’s often a male driven fantasy, but the benefits of it hit the female harder. After a few days of keeping him under lock and key, she often thinks about it throughout the day, and really enjoys the extra attention he’s trying to pour onto her. His puppy dog eyes, his eagerness to please, the housework gets done, dinner gets made and she just gets to relax. A few days of this, and she begins to feel his frustration. She can feel it like he feels it, but in a different way. She feels the power of it, where as, he feels the helplessness of it.

This power that she feels, makes her feel desired, while at the same time, having her own desire. It’s an exquisite mix of emotion that helps her to discover just how much power she has, which gives her the confidence to become a little more dominant. It doesn’t take her very long to realize she loves the idea of chastity. This is a realization that even the submissive hasn’t had yet. She’s leap frogged his understanding of chastity, and it has now become her idea and her fantasy, and no longer his.

It can actually take the submissive a substantially longer period of time to realize how powerful chastity really is. At first he may have been the one pushing it, trying to move faster, wanting her to be more dominant. However, once she truly gets it, she’s going to be taking control in ways he’s not yet comfortable with. Especially when it comes to sex, and realizing that he doesn’t actually get to even touch himself while pleasuring her. The intensity of that alone, can make a submissive realize what he’s gotten himself into!

This might make him become resistant, to be rebellious at first. He may even want out of the cage, just as an excuse to masturbate. It’s okay, if he seriously wants out, and doesn’t want to submit any further, let him out. Within a short period of time, a couple days, or a couple weeks, he’ll miss it. Once a submissive has had a small taste of chastity, especially well fitting chastity, it’s nearly impossible for him to ignore it for long. It calls to him. The feeling of being locked is a feeling that is so addicting, so powerful, that he’ll be begging to be locked again.

This time around he’ll understand more of what he’s gotten himself into, and will be more cooperative. Non sexual activities will become sexual for him. Every chore, will be an act of service, which he will hope for a reward from her. Everything he does, will be in hopes to receive an unlock. Going out for dinner and a movie, might get him feeling hopeful, until she teases him by saying she feels like a bath and a full body massage when they get home. He knows he’ll be locked all night, in service to her.

Eventually he’ll have the same epiphany she had, he will feel his submission take over his whole body. He’ll realize he’s not in control, that he’s surrendered to her, and he has no idea what’s going to come next. He will stop trying to be unlocked through good behavior, and realize good behavior was never why he was unlocked. He gets unlocked, only through obedience to her. It’s a pivotal shift in a female led relationship, where he suddenly gets what it means to be a submissive. That’s when chastity really begins.

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All of us shold be in this way.

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Of course

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Of course, twice.

Helen.

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Please

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Sex And Enforced Chastity

Almost everything blogged about male chastity discusses sex. It makes sense, since there are few interesting things to talk about when locked up with no stimulation. However, if you go by the various blogs and forums, caged males are getting a lot more sex than guys who are not into chastity. That might actually be true.

Be that as it may, the entire point of being caged is the transfer of sexual control to the keyholder. In many cases, the caged male ends up waiting for orgasms longer than he would if he could take things into his own hands. When I began my lockup, one of the things that surprised Mrs. Lion was that I had regularly masturbated throughout our marriage. Her libido has always been lower than mine and I “filled in” between opportunities to orgasm with her. Of course, now that I am caged, I can’t masturbate at all.

That brings me to the first sexual issue that a couple entering in a enforced male chastity experience has to confront. What is the appropriate amount of orgasms the caged male should get? This question is where the rubber meets the road between the male chastity fantasies, and the cold reality of long-term lockup.

Frequency: making him wait is power Most male chastity fantasies imagine few if any orgasms. The male is locked up and must spend the rest of his life sexually satisfying the keyholder while he never ejaculates again. Few males actually live out this fantasy. I certainly don’t and never want to!

Let’s go to the other extreme: daily orgasms. When we first started, Mrs. Lion reasoned that if she owned my penis and controlled my orgasms, then she could make me come every day. So, she tried that. One problem for me was that at my age I really don’t want a daily orgasm. Another was that my lockup was pointless. She was giving me more orgasms than I wanted so if she left me wild (out of my cage) there was absolutely no chance I would want to do anything sexual without her. She exercised her power by giving me more sex than I wanted.

I had to accept her reasoning. I did surrender sexual control to her. It’s her choice to decide what that means. The fact that it didn’t conform to my personal chastity fantasy had nothing to do with her power over me. I did manage to convince her that perhaps making me wait would be more in line with what I had in mind when we started. She agreed.

If you are new to enforced chastity, chances are very good that you are wondering how to use your lockup to best advantage. So the first point is that as keyholder, you want to instill in your caged male that if and when he orgasms is completely up to you. You also want him to understand that if you are not happy with him, he will not orgasm. To send this message, you have to make him want sex so badly that he will do anything to get you to make him come. For some men, particularly young ones, this can take a week (never less!). For older men, the wait may need to be two, three, or even four weeks. Whatever time it takes to make him desperate for release, that is how long he should have to wait. You will be surprised how many positive attitude changes these waits will produce.

Some males insist that after they orgasm, they revert to their former, inconsiderate selves. That is possible, but definitely curable. The obvious cure that he will almost certainly suggest, is to never let him come again. Oh boy! There’s that fantasy again. More practically, if after he comes, his behavior changes for the worse, just add at least a week to his wait. He won’t think it is a big deal if he had come recently. That’s ok. Just smile when he comments. As time goes by, he will begin to realize what a big deal it really is.

Remember, in terms of your power as keyholder, time is on your side. It may take a year to get it through his head, but your male will learn that he really needs sex and anything he does to make you extend his waits is just not worth the bad behavior.

Non-orgasmic activities Many males believe that they will always be horny. If you lock them up and ignore them, they think that their desire to get off will continue to grow. This is true up to a point, but the fact is that if a man or woman is not sexually stimulated, over time the desire for sex will diminish and eventually disappear.  That’s why regular, non orgasmic sexual activities are needed to keep him wanting.

It may seem cruel, but a key component of enforced chastity is to keep your caged male in a continuous state of heat. Every day without an orgasm should feel like it is lasting forever and he should grow more and more desperate for release. That, after all, is the real core of all those chastity fantasies. The way to do this is through regular non-orgasmic teasing.

Most keyholders become expert cock teases. They learn how to bring their males within millimeters of an orgasm and then stopping. This is a technique every new keyholder must develop. The most common, and easiest way, is by masturbating him. The setup for this is up to you. Some keyholders restrain the male’s hands during this activity. Most don’t. Males have to exercise self control.

Ok, you have him naked and on his back. Remove his cage. While its off, check for chafing or irritation. If you find any, consider leaving him unlocked until it heals. Once uncaged, masturbate him. Watch him carefully. If you want, tell him to let you know when he is close. You can tell him that if he has an “accident” he will stay locked with no teasing for a month. Get him to help you, but don’t necessarily believe him in the beginning.

Tease him any way you want. The objective is to get him close to orgasm without letting him get release. Getting him very aroused is just as good as bringing him right to the edge. While he may think it is for his fun, your real objective is to keep those hormones flowing and reminding his body of what it is missing. You can do this over and over as many times as you want. If you keep it up long enough, he will actually lose the ability to come for a while. Just remember, no orgasms until his release date!

When you are done, lock him up again, pat his butt and send him on his way. Or, if you like, lock him up and have him lick or finger you to as many orgasms as you like. Just be sure to lock him up first. He could be humping the bed to orgasm while he licks you.

Ruined Orgasms A ruined orgasm is when you stimulate your male just over the edge and stop. You will see him react strongly but appear not to orgasm. However, within ten seconds you will see semen dripping out of his penis. You have triggered his orgasmic physical reaction but haven’t given his body enough stimulation to complete all of the steps needed for a full male orgasm. The semen dripping out is caused by the fact that ejaculation was signaled, but you stopped before the stimulation needed to get his PC muscle to squirt it out was triggered.

A lot of males will insist this is not really an orgasm and they are as horny after having one as they were before it happened. Mentally this may be true, but physically it isn’t. One of the key contributors to feeling horny for males is the need to ejaculate. Physically and psychologically, ejaculation is the objective of orgasm. Mrs. Lion has given me quite a few ruined orgasms. They do not feel very good. I don’t like the sensation at all. But I can also feel that they do “reset” some of the urgency I was feeling before I ejaculated. This is true of all males. Some may insist it isn’t true, but physiologically it is.

There is a place for ruined orgasms. If you want to assert your power very graphically, instead of a full orgasm on his next release date, give him a ruined one, then lock him up again for his waiting period. This is massively frustrating for the male. He will hate it. But it will remind him that he is completely dependent on you for sex of any kind; even ruined orgasms.

I’ve been asked how to give a male a ruined orgasm. It’s not difficult. Start by masturbating him until he gets very excited and appears that he is close to coming. Stop. Wait a full ten seconds. If no semen appears, masturbate him again until he seems ready to come. Wait ten seconds. Repeat and add a few strokes. The ten second wait assures that if he does start to orgasm, you won’t accidentally give him a full orgasm. Even if he wasn’t ready to come, starting again only ten seconds later will drive him closer and closer. If at any point he seems to be coming. Stop stimulation immediately and wait. If semen drips out, you are done. It’s that simple.

Based on my experience, I suggest you reserve ruined orgasms as substitutes for full ones. Don’t use them in place of teasing. No semen should be produced until you decide he has waited long enough. Here is a video that demonstrates how to give a ruined orgasm.

Sex for the keyholder As keyholder, all this male sex and teasing may make you horny. One of the best benefits of having a caged male is his interest in providing you with lots of orgasms. His wish to do this is driven by two powerful forces: One is his desire to convince you to get him off. In his mind, giving you an orgasm might put you in the mood to give him one. The other reason is more subtle; giving you orgasms is sex and even though he doesn’t get to come, he can still experience the pleasure of giving you orgasms.

Regardless of his state of waiting, feel free to have him provide you with sexual attention whenever you want. But, don’t let him push you into getting more attention than you desire. A lot of males will try to deal with their frustration by convincing their keyholders to orgasm frequently. Take sex from him when you want, not when he wants.

One tricky subject is intercourse. Up to now the only male stimulation we have talked about is using your hand to masturbate him. There is a good reason for this: Any other form of stimulation is very difficult to control and will likely result in an unplanned “accident” for him. So in the beginning, any non-orgasmic sex for him should probably be restricted to your hand.

Some keyholders train their males to hold back orgasms. They do this by having their males penetrate them and provide only the keyholder with an orgasm. This is tough for males to do. All of us have been conditioned to come when we are ready. If you want to train him not to come, you will have to add punishment to your chastity activities. He has to know that an “accident” will result in punishment. Many keyholders spank males immediately after they have an accident. This is no play spanking. A hairbrush or paddle is used to provide a very painful lesson each time he comes without permission. Since his accident removed his interest in sex for a while, the spanking will be pure punishment with no sexual overtones.

If you are inclined to do this training, you can help your male learn with some teaching aids. One good one is the use of condoms. A couple of condoms will reduce his sensitivity and make it easier for him to control himself. Another good one is desensitizing cream. These creams like Oragel contain Novocaine or other anesthetics that actually numb the penis and eliminate any pleasurable sensation from intercourse. If you do use a numbing product on him, wait at least ten minutes after applying it before you let him inside you.  It takes at least that long for the anesthetic to take full effect Also, put a condom on him or the cream left on his penis will put your vagina to sleep. There is nothing wrong with training aids to help him learn to use his penis for your pleasure, not his. By the way, if you numb him too much he will lose his erection and be unable to get one again until the anesthetic wears off.

Summary The main point of enforced chastity is to transfer control of the caged male’s sexual pleasure from him to his keyholder. It is a power exchange. As keyholder you need to maintain his sexual desire throughout his waiting time. He has to be desperate for release in order for him to truly feel sexually controlled. To keep him that way, you will need to stimulate him on a regular basis without providing him the opportunity to orgasm or ejaculate.

An ultimate expression of your power is to replace his scheduled orgasm with a ruined one. This is very frustrating to the male and will imprint strongly that you, in fact, own his pleasure. Since ruined orgasms do reset his physical need for orgasm, if not his mental one, they should not be intentionally given before his scheduled release date.

Sex for you is independent of his pleasure. You should use him to give you orgasms whenever you desire them. If you want intercourse without him ejaculating, you will have to train him to hold back. This can be done through punishment for accidents and with training aids: multiple condoms and/or numbing cream.

Your male has asked you to control his ability to get sexual pleasure. It’s up to you to assert that control and have fun in the process!

From: https://malechastityjournal.com/caging-your-man/sex-and-enforced-chastity/

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Volume 3 of the Practical FLR series was written to shine a light on the spiritual benefits a FLR can bring to the table. It’s about looking at a FLR through a magnifying glass, beyond the fantasy, and beyond the taboo surrounding it. It’s written to help people understand FLR, and to help them be understood by their partners.

It really tries to get to the heart of what D/s is, and what it means in a relationship. How a relationship can have complete harmony because of the lack of power struggle, replaced by power exchange.  Many people know which side of the D/s scale they fall on, and often don’t know how to express it. Others, may need some sorts of catalyst to expose them to it, and once exposed they quickly discover their preferred side of the D/s scale.

It’s often discovered in childhood or teenaged years, where the idea of having power, or giving it up, is a turn on. However in a world designed to pit the opposite sex against each other, it’s often forgotten in the struggle for power, and many relationships end up being based off the idea of possessing the other, and being dependent upon them for happiness. It makes it difficult then, to communicate the desire to submit, or dominate because there’s a lack of trust.

This lack of trust and communication issues, often leads to unhappy and unsatisfying relationships, and furthermore, often sparks depression, and or cheating. Arguments and routine become the normal, and the passion is sucked out of the relationship. It is the suppression of D/s in the first place, that leads to unhealthy emotional states allowing for relationships lacking harmony.  

Being a D or s is more often than not, something an individual cannot change about themselves. It’s something that speaks to them on a level beyond explanation. It’s just who they are. If it’s not who they are, then they’ll find themselves not in alignment with it, not happy with it. However, those who explore that side of themselves often find that it compliments their entire personality, being able to express this side of themselves with another. To be seen that naked, and accepted by another, is the fulfillment they have always sought, even if they’re not fully aware of it.

Destroying the Taboo is about helping people become aware of it, and understand themselves on that level. The more we can know ourselves the more fulfilled we are, and the more we can offer our partners, and the world. When we truly know ourselves, we no longer need validation from others, or need to impress others, we can simply be ourselves, and know its enough. We just have to destroy the taboo to break through the barriers of understanding, so we can live the life of our dreams.

Destroying the Taboo

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Steel Heaven (A long and very erotic chastity story)

I stood in the shower, allowing the hot water to caress my body in an attempt to wake myself up. The thought of another long day at work wasn’t helping the situation, but at least it was Friday. “Get through today and enjoy the weekend,” I thought. I stepped out of the shower and immediately realized I had forgotten to bring a towel into the bathroom from the bedroom in my morning fog. I dabbed away the worst of the water with the small hand towel we kept in the bathroom and then hurried, still mostly wet, into the bedroom. Trying to be quiet so as not to wake Jenna, I grabbed a towel to finish drying off. Unfortunately, the thing I had between my legs foiled my plans, as it seemed to be doing quite often lately. “Clack clack clack!” The pad lock on my chastity device knocked against the plastic tube encaging my dick as I was vigorously drying off. “Mmmm…morning babe,” I heard Jenna mutter weakly as she rolled over in bed. Just enough light from the morning sun was coming in through the windows for her to see me. “You should go back to sleep, you have a big exam today. Get your rest,” I said, still keeping my voice down despite the fact that she was awake. In case you couldn’t already tell from the fact that my penis was locked up in a hard plastic tube, Jenna and I had a very unusual sexual relationship. The chastity tube was actually my idea. It was a fetish I’ve had for a very long time, and it actually took some convincing to get her to play along. But once she did, she found that she liked it more than she thought she would. We met a few years ago through some mutual acquaintances and hit it off immediately. Sex was plentiful and I got along better with her than anyone else I had ever known. Once we were comfortable enough with each other, she revealed that she had some bisexual feelings. She had never done anything particularly serious with another girl, but was interested in trying it. Not long after, I revealed my ultimate sexual fetish to her: chastity. I still remember the day I brought her into my fantasy world. I saved up a little money and purchased a simple plastic chastity device online. I marveled at it when it arrived. I was so excited by it that I actually had to masturbate before I could become flaccid in order to get the device on. It was a tight fit, but the chrome finish and pad lock hanging on the front were major turn-ons. I wore it the entire evening until Jenna got home from her bartending shift. I showed her the device and presented her with the key. She was reluctant to take it, but finally relented. She wasn’t as “into” the whole key holder domination thing as I was, and we got off to a slow start. Eventually she started to come around to have some fun with it. I would eat her out in hopes of getting release, but she would often just cuddle up with me and go to sleep afterward. It was frustrating…but exactly what I wanted. Then she started coming up with some more creative ideas. She would join me in the shower and tease me relentlessly with her naked body. She would press her breasts together and encourage me to “fuck her tits” by holding them against the device while my cock strained within it. She’d kiss the tip of the device, and then suck on it, looking up at me with her big blue eyes while I’d be unable to find any relief. It was exactly what I wanted. Whenever she would release me, I’d fuck her like a rabid beast. I think that is where she got the most enjoyment. She’d build up my sexual energy by having me go three or four days without release, then allow me to unleash it on her. After about a year of that, we arrived at that fateful morning. I stood in front of her in my device, towel drying myself after a shower. I knew she was naked under the covers as she turned to look toward me, but I couldn’t let my mind focus on that. The device on my cock was already tight, as today was my 10th day without release, the longest she had ever kept me in it. Four days was the longest I was locked up before this, as it was the longest she could usually go without sex. That was often the determining factor as to when I got released. Jenna climbed out of bed as I started to dress. She pulled her shoulder-length blonde hair into a ponytail using a hair tie she kept around her wrist and stretched her arms high above her head. Her perfect C-cup breasts pushed forward, giving me a great view. She then took a trip to the bathroom without bothering to cover herself up, leaving my poor cock raging within its cage. I put on my boxers and pulled up my pants as she returned to the bedroom. I barely got to zip up my fly as she moved in and pressed her naked self against me. “I have a BIG surprise for you tonight,” she said seductively, moving up close to me and embracing me. She gave me a long kiss on the lips and bucked inward, forcing my cock cage against her stomach. “What kind of surprise?” I asked, knowing there was no way she would let anything slip out. “You’ll just have to wait and see,” she said with a devilish smile. She gave my swollen balls a gentle squeeze through my pants and then went back to bed. Work went by at a snail’s pace. It was a slow and boring day to begin with, but it seemed even longer as my mind raced about what Jenna’s “big surprise” could be. Having to feel my cock locked up all day was a bad enough distraction, but 10 days of it along with the anticipation of this “surprise” was really killing me. Finally, 5 o'clock came around and I sped home as fast as I could. The apartment was locked and Jenna wasn’t home. I didn’t remember her saying that she had to work after class, so I wasn’t sure where she was. When I flicked on the lights, I saw a note on the kitchen table: “Go into the bedroom. Look in the top dresser drawer.” It was in Jenna’s handwriting. Excitedly, I ran to the bedroom. I opened the drawer, and on top of a pile of Jenna’s panties was another note, along with a pair of handcuffs ringed in black fuzz, a red ball gag, and a black blindfold. I read the note: “Send me a text that says ‘I’m ready.” Then strip, put these on, and cuff yourself to the bed. Wait.“ I was so excited to finally try bondage that I nearly dropped the ‘equipment’ in my haste. I pulled my phone out of my pants pocket and sent the text. Then I stripped down until I was only wearing my chastity device. I put the ball gag into my mouth and tightened it behind my head. I carried the blindfold and handcuffs over to the bed and took a seat. I looped the handcuffs around the center bed post so I could find them easily and then pulled the blindfold over my eyes. I couldn’t see or speak in my current state. I laid down on the bed and raised my arms above my head. I found the handcuffs looped around the bedpost and then locked my wrists into them. I tugged at my restraints to test their hold, and sure enough, it was tight. I wasn’t going anywhere. The bed was an old thrift store purchase, practically an antique. The head board and bed posts were solid, heavy oak, so breaking it to escape wasn’t even an option. Bound, gagged, and blindfolded, I laid in bed for probably 10 or 15 minutes until I heard the front door unlock and open. All was quiet for about a minute until I heard the bedroom door creak open. I laid there silently in nervous anticipation, my cock pressing hard against the inside of its little prison. I felt a hand lightly caress my inner thigh. I felt long, feminine fingernails graze my skin and slowly move up my leg. The touching stopped just before it got to my locked-up genitals. I felt my member straining hard to no avail. I heard what I thought was a very faint whisper before a set of lips pressed against my right thigh…then another set against my left thigh. I twitched at the surprise of there apparently being a second person there along with Jenna. Someone else now knew my dark secrets, and I was powerless to do anything about it. All I could do was lay there and enjoy it. The two sets of lips kissed and licked their way up my thighs to my groin, and began going to work on my swollen balls. They hadn’t had a release in over a week, and were swollen as much as I had ever felt them. I could hear deep breathing and the occasional giggle from the two people working them over with their lips and tongues. One of them then moved up to my caged member. I moaned into my gag as it strained against its confines, aroused by the hot breath and sucking of the person doing the work. A tongue worked its way into the slit at the end of the tube and I felt myself shudder as it lightly touched the tip of my engorged penis. Then, the sucking and teasing stopped. I felt two belts being tightened around my ankles and then attached to the legs of the bed down below. Suddenly, something cold and heavy was thrown on my crotch. It felt and sounded like a bag of ice. I tried to tense up but the belts around my ankles and cuffs around my wrists prevented me from going anywhere. Another bag of ice was thrown onto my crotch, and then a third one. “Mmmhmmm!” I groaned into the ball gag. “Shoosh and be a good boy. I promise that you’ll love what we’re about to do,” replied Jenna. Several minutes passed as I began to lose feeling of everything between my legs thanks to the cold ice. I heard a few whispers and murmurs between Jenna and whoever she was with, but couldn’t make out what was being said. Finally, the bags of ice were removed. I felt someone sit on the edge of the bed by my leg and then heard a light tapping sound. “He’s ready,” said Jenna in an excited tone. It was only when she stood back up that I realized the tapping sound came from her flicking my numb balls. Though I couldn’t feel what was going on, I could hear it. The unmistakable sound of Jenna inserting the key into the lock of my chastity device was followed by the “click” of the lock opening. She fumbled briefly with the ring and tube, but then walked away from the bed presumably with the device in hand. I heard the “zip” of a bag opening across the room and the clank of metal. Jenna returned to the side of the bed and sat down. Feeling was starting to return to my nether region as she slid a new ring around the base of my cock. I wanted to resist so that I could enjoy my freedom before being locked up again, but the restraints made sure that I could not. Feeling was starting to return as she slid a metal tube over my cock and heard a loud, metallic “click” when it connected with the ring. I was locked back up and there was nothing I could do about it. She gave the new equipment a few tugs to ensure that it was on tight. More whispers and giggles between the two girls followed. Suddenly, I felt one of them lay down next to me while the other climbed onto me, straddling my stomach. I could feel warmth of an incredibly turned on pussy against my abs. A set of hands reached up and pulled the blindfold from over my eyes… “Hello babe,” Jenna said seductively, leaning in very close to my face as she lifted the blindfold. The gag in my mouth still prevented me from talking. Jenna was wearing only a matching, lacy black bra and panty set. She bent down and kissed me through my gag, running her tongue around it along my forcibly parted lips. She sat back up, gently grinding her hot pussy into my stomach. “This is my friend Tasha, say ‘hi’ to Tasha,” Jenna commanded. The girl lying next to me leaned in and rested her head on my chest. She had raven black hair and was wearing heavy makeup. Out of the corner of my eye, I could see that her arms and shoulders sported a number of tattoos. “Hi handsome,” she said with just a hint of a Russian accent. Her shiny, dark hair and dark brown eyes contrasted Jenna’s blonde hair and blue eyes perfectly. “She works with me at the bar and agreed to help me fulfill a few of our fantasies…” Jenna said with a devilish smile. She raked her nails across my exposed upper chest and bit down hard on her bottom lip. “Lean up for a second, hon,” Jenna asked as she nodded her head toward my crotch. She moved to the side as I lifted my head as far as I could, just enough to see the shiny metal of a new chastity device. “This cost me quite a few nights worth of tips, so you better appreciate it,” she explained as she slid her fingernails along the tube. Full feeling had returned to my cock and it was pressing against the cold metal of the new tube. “It’s made of hardened stainless steel and is held in place by a built-in cylinder lock at the top here. It’s completely unpickable and the steel is virtually indestructible. You’ll never get out of it without the key…” she explained seductively as she held up the key on a thin chain around her neck. “Come up here, Tasha,” Jenna said as she moved back to straddle my right thigh. Tasha moved to straddle my left thigh. Tasha was wearing a tight, black leather bustier that pressed her enormous D-cup breasts forward and crotchless latex pants that clung to her long, trim legs. Her pussy was only barely covered by a black thong. She and Jenna moved towards one another and began making out. They kissed softly and gently at first, but it became harder and more intense as they went. Jenna pulled Tasha close to her so their breasts were forced together. Jenna reached one hand down and began massaging my balls while they continued to make out. If there was ever a moment where I thought it’d be possible for my cock to break out of that cage, it was right then. The steel held firm, however, and all I could do was bite hard into my ball gag for relief. Suddenly, Jenna broke away and spun so her back was toward me. She repositioned herself onto my chest while I felt Tasha follow suit, straddling my hips and groin. They went back to making out as I could feel the warmth of Tasha’s pussy on my dick even through the tube. As they made out, Tasha rubbed her pussy all over my tube and the surrounding area. I could feel the wetness of her yearning pussy leaking through her thong and onto my skin. Jenna bucked up and down on my chest while they made out. Her pussy was radiating warmth and wetness like I had never felt before. Slowly, she slid further up my chest until her panty-concealed pussy was right against my face. I wanted to stick my tongue out to lick it, but the gag made it impossible. I could no longer see the action, but based on Jenna’s position and the noises she was making, she had kissed her way down Tasha’s neck to bountiful breasts. Jenna then leaned back, now practically sitting on my face. She unhooked her bra and dropped it off the side of the bed. Tasha moved in right away and began sucking on Jenna’s perfect tits. Jenna couldn’t help but let out a quiet moan of pleasure. She was slowly grinding on my face as Tasha sucked, using my nose, chin, and gag to massage her pussy. I could feel and smell the wetness, wanting badly to get my tongue involved. Tasha’s teasing was also unbearable. She was doing the same slow grinding as Jenna, except over my caged cocked. It was certainly putting the steel of its new prison to the test, as any lesser material may have broken as hard as it was getting. The two girls traded between making out and sucking each other’s breasts for what felt like an eternity. All the while, Jenna’s pussy was over my face, teasing me with what I wanted but could not have. “It’s time…” Jenna said as she jumped off of me and onto the floor. Tasha grinned and put her long, dark hair up into a ponytail. Jenna walked over to a large duffle bag on the floor and dug around for a moment before pulling out exactly what she was looking for: a strap-on dildo. Tasha and I watched as she slid out of her soaking wet panties, briefly exposing her swollen pink pussy lips, before putting on the strap-on. It had black leather straps with a medium-size (probably 5-6 inches) purple dildo on the front. The dildo itself was tapered into the rough shape of a penis, with the “head” pointing upward just slightly. I recognized it from porn as one made for massaging g-spots and prostates while fucking. Jenna hurried back to the bed with the purple dildo bouncing in front of her. She practically tackled Tasha onto the bed to my left and they picked up where they left off, making out and grinding into each other. They stopped briefly as Tasha rolled onto me, her face close to mine. She was straddling me, her pussy once again up against my chastity cage. Jenna moved in behind her and began to unlace Tasha’s bustier. It feel free as Jenna pulled it to the side, dropping it off the edge of the bed. Tasha’s massive breasts were now firmly against my chest. Even from there, they felt heavenly. They were so soft and pillowy…not to mention the largest I had ever seen and felt in person. Tasha’s face was only inches from mine. She winked and made a sexy biting motion as Jenna slid off her thong down below. I could feel as Jenna hung it from my restrained foot. Jenna worked her hands slowly up Tasha’s sides as she positioned herself behind Tasha. Jenna was kneeling between my spread legs right behind Tasha’s ass. Tasha inhaled sharply as Jenna penetrated her. Seeing this was almost too much to bear. I bit hard into my gag as my cock filled every molecule of space within its cage. I felt like my balls were going to explode if I didn’t get release soon. After a few, slow thrusts to get started, Jenna began to fuck Tasha harder from their doggy style position. It was one of our favorite positions whenever we had sex, and now I had to watch Jenna do it to another girl while I could do nothing to relieve my frustration. Jenna got into a good rhythm as Tasha moaned grinded against me. She was pressing her breasts against my chest with each thrust while kissing, biting, and sucking on my neck and shoulders. She ran her fingers through my hair and would occasionally dig in with her fingernails. The combination of pleasure and pain was absolutely thrilling. It seemed like hours passed as I could only lay there in frustration watching and feeling two beautiful women fuck on top of me. Tasha cried out and moaned as she approached orgasm, with Jenna fucking harder and faster. I looked over Tasha’s shoulder to Jenna who was focused on the task at hand. Her blonde hair and ample breasts were bouncing along with each thrust. It almost seemed like she was a natural at fucking women. “I’m going to cum! I’m going to cum!” Tasha cried, her eyes closed and her mouth agape, tears of pleasure flowing down her face, taking much of her makeup along with them. Suddenly, Jenna stopped and pulled out. She helped position and angle Tasha’s waist just above my locked-up cock. I felt a hot liquid explode out of Tasha’s pussy, all over my poor, frustrated dick. “Mmmph!” I moaned into my gag. Tasha was a squirter! Almost as if she had passed out from the pleasure, Tasha rolled off of me to the side as she tried to catch her breath. She was still gasping and moaning from the fucking she just endured. The warmth from her squirted juices only increased my frustration as I could feel it seeping through the openings of my chastity device onto my cock and balls. Jenna had the biggest smile as she just stared at me. She then crawled up toward my face, stopping with her pussy just shy of my neck and the strap-on, still wet and smelling of Tasha’s pussy, pressed against my cheek.

“Not a word, you hear?” Jenna whispered to me. I nodded in agreement. She reached down and unhooked my gag, tossing it off the side of the bed. She lifted the strap-on, allowing her pussy, which was exposed beneath, to press against my lips. “I hope you’ve had fun so far…” Jenna said, eyes closed and hips bucking to rub her pussy over my lips. “Mmm!” I moaned excitedly into her pussy as I continued to lick. “I found the kinky forums you go to online. You were still signed into my computer from that day you forgot yours at work. You forgot to clear the browsing history so I looked at all of your posts and, well, learned a LOT about the things you like. The chastity was one thing, but wow! To be bound…forced to watch…I thought we could have some fun with it,” Jenna explained through quiet gasps as I hit all of the spots in her pussy with my tongue that I knew she liked. “But if we were going to do what you liked to do, I was going to get a few things too. You know I always wanted to fuck a girl, and as you can see, I really enjoyed it. I also wanted to be part of a threesome, and now I’ve done that as well,” she continued. She repositioned herself on my face and began stroking the strap-on as if it were an actual cock. “Tasha is a new bartender and we hit it off right away. I found out she was bi-sexual, and then we planned this night. I couldn’t wait to fuck her, and her being a squirter was just icing on the cake. She didn’t believe me when I told her I had you all locked up in a little chastity cage, but wanted to see it. I think we made her night as well,” Jenna said as she looked over at Tasha, still writhing around in ecstasy. I began working my tongue extra hard and sucking on her clit. She had to stop talking for a second as she gasped from the pleasure. “…you’re so eager, I’m glad you’re ok with all of this,” she said with a smile. She brought her hands up to her exposed breasts and began kneading them in her hands and playing with her nipples. “I didn’t expect to cum just yet, but…ah…I won’t…ah…complain…” She was close, so I went into overdrive with my mouth. Her juices were dripping down over my cheeks and chin. Jenna’s eyes closed tight and she pinched her nipples hard as an orgasm tore through her body. “Hunnnn…” She moaned as she arched her back. Her eyes shot back open as she gasped for breath. “Now you’re the only one left…” Jenna said, breathing heavily. “I’m not sure if you’ll like this, but we’re going to try it out.” She winked and moved back away from my face. “I…” I tried to speak but was silenced with a quick slap across my exposed balls. “Quiet!” Jenna reprimanded. I swallowed hard as I knew where Jenna was going. She unhooked the belts around my ankles and motioned for me to lift my legs, bringing my knees toward my shoulders. Jenna began massaging my balls and looked up at me with a smirk. The entire area was still soaked with Tasha’s hot juices. I closed my eyes and gritted my teeth as Jenna positioned the tip of her strap-on dick just outside my defenseless ass hole. Hopefully, Tasha’s leftover juices would provide enough lubrication… Jenna was gentle at first as she pushed slowly forward, the strap-on penetrating my virgin ass. While it was common with others interested in chastity, I had never thought of being ass fucked before. The strap-on stretched me to my limits. The feeling was an odd mix of pressure pleasure. “Gooooood boy, taking it all in like that…” Jenna teased. “Now we go a little faster…” Just as she said, she began speeding up. Each time, it felt like I was going to be torn in half but the pain was mixed with a strange sensation of pleasure. Soon, Jenna was fucking just as wildly as she had with Tasha. I grunted between each thrust, experiencing a wide range of emotions as I could do nothing but lay there and take it. “This…is so…much fun…” Jenna said between vigorous thrusts. “I might…invest in…a two-way…dildo so…we can…both…be pleasured…” My grunts and moans were getting deeper and heavier. I’m not sure if I could handle doing this again. “Haha!” Jenna giggled. “Look…at all that…precum…” She paused the fucking momentarily, giving me a few seconds of relief. “If you cum like this, it’s the only way you’ll ever get to cum again!” I wanted to protest, but she went right back to fucking my ass with every ounce of vigor she could muster. I focused on her bouncing breasts and the intense look on her cute face to distract myself as much as I could. Just as she realized, the precum was a sign that I was close to erupting. I hoped she was kidding about only letting me cum this way from now on… “Jenna…Jenna…I…Uh…” I tried to beg her to stop, but it wasn’t happening. “Shut up and take it!” she commanded, increasing the intensity of her thrusting. “No no no no NGNNNN!” I groaned as I felt something like an orgasm in my nether region. It wasn’t as powerful as an actual orgasm, and didn’t come with the feeling of relief that an actual orgasm would bring, but I could feel a mountain of cum erupting from me nonetheless. “Hahahaha!” Jenna laughed, running a finger along my spiraled steel chastity tube to collect some of the cum. She lifted her hand up to show me and a string of cum followed it. “You are such a little sissy! Oh my god!” She exclaimed excitedly. She wiped her finger on my thigh and then unhooked the strap on. She tossed it off the side of the bed and crawled up in between me and Tasha, who was lying next to us enjoying the situation. I was panting to catch my breath, with my asshole feeling like it was on fire. While I felt the 10-days’ worth of cum erupt out of me, I didn’t feel the relief a normal orgasm would have brought. It was both disappointing and a great turn on simultaneously. Jenna brought one of her legs up and put it across my stomach. I could feel her still-hot pussy against my side. “I think this was a success,” she started. “I think we’ll keep doing this. Tasha is on board, and you will be too. I think we need to buy some more toys. You won’t get out of the cage other than to clean it sometimes. And I’ll just keep right on fucking you, it’s so much fun.” I tried to bring my arms down, forgetting momentarily about the handcuffs. I wanted to hold Jenna close, because as terrified as I was, I was also in heaven…

[2bdenied]

Oh my god I almost came from reading this

[femdomtraining]

30 Days to Female Dominance.

Female Dominance in 30 days.

Let’s face it.  You need this.  Dominant women get what they want, and people get out of the way of them when they go after it.  Either that, or they help them achieve it.  Dominance is a beautiful word, and you are a beautiful dominant inner goddess waiting to be released.

In the past, you let people walk all over you, including your husband.  You let friends, family, and others take advantage of your good nature.

In this article, we are going to teach you how to become a powerful, assertive, dominant woman that gets what she wants, when and how she wants its.

Sounds good right?

You bet it is.

However, this isn’t going to happen by reading this article once.

Bookmark this and register at femdomtraining.ca for more training in becoming more dominant.

You have years of patterns, behaviours, and reactions that all have formed part of you.

In this training session, we are going to unravel the pieces that do not work for you, and replace them with a strong, dominant woman who gets what she wants….

So listen to me very carefully right now.  This is an absolute must.  If you are going to learn how to become dominant, one of your first lessons is that you must learn self discipline.

The first discipline that is imperative for you to follow, is that you need to read this article every day for the next 30 days.

You have taken decades of your life to get to where you are right now and I am not about to be able to change you in 1 day.  However, if you give me 30 days in a row WITHOUT MISSING 1 DAY of reading this, you will change dramatically.  You can expect to find:

New found confidence and self discipline.

A 100% compliant obedient husband.

An incredible feeling of self worth and peace.

So let’s get started.

The dominant nature inside of you has always been there.  Every woman has it.  Few tap into it.

You and you alone are responsible for the way people treat you.  So, you will be re-training the people in your life to make sure that you are treated as the dominant goddess you are.

If you are to train people on how to treat you, it is not their say in what you do to train them.  It is yours, and yours alone.

Here are some proven methods to train your man so that he is 100% compliant and obedient to your will.  Always start with your man in training, because when you train him, others will follow.  To be dominant, one just needs to break another dominant person to their will, and everything else just starts to fall in place.

Pull your man aside at your earliest convenience, and have this discussion with him.

Let him know that for the next 30 days you will be training to be a dominant woman, and that his assistance in this is absolutely vital for your success.

You will require a few things of him.

Here is a list of things that you will require of him.

For the next 30 days while you are training, your husband is not allowed to cum.  There are no exceptions, and no feeling sorry for him, no matter how much he begs or pleads. NO orgasms for your man.  Period.

He is to do everything he is asked without hesitation, questions, or talking back on all matters inside and out of the bedroom.  Failure to comply will result in an extreme spanking.

He is to wear a chastity device of some kind for the full 30 days.  It will be taken off only for tease and deny sessions or penetrating sex, without any release for him.

Let him know too, that at the end of your dominance training for you to be a successful dominant, that you will require him to eat his own cum.  You will require him to shoot his load on you, and lick it off your body, and then profess to you that he surrenders his will, decisions, cock, mind, body and soul to you as his loving dominant wife.

These are your requirements for him.

Here is what you need to do over the course of these next 30 days.

1. Read this article everyday.

2.  Make him do things that he does not like to do in and out of the bedroom to push his understanding of what true submission is.

3.  Cum as often as you can by his hands, mouth, tongue, or toys.

As you start to do these things on a daily basis, your dominance will grow.

This is a REAL BOOTCAMP for your man, and it should not be pleasant for him, except for the new bedroom games you will be playing with him this month.

Aside from him doing ALL AND ANYTHING you ask for this entire month in the way of chores, in the bedroom, he will do anything you ask.  This is your chance to learn what true domination is.  This is how you awaken your desires, and unleash your inner goddess.

Your man has become your complete boy toy, with no restrictions on how you use him.

To complete training in the next 30 days, the end goal of this 30 days is to make your man eat his own cum.

Most men will gag, or hate the thought of eating their own cum, and your husband is likely no exception.  At the end of the 30 days, you are going to make him lick up every drop of his massive load off of your body, and profess to you, that he is yours eternally as your slave in and out of the bedroom.

He will do this out of sheer lust of not cumming for 30 days, and the training you will be doing all month long.

Each day, you will make him need to cum even more with teasing.  You will hint to him at times when he is very close to cuming, and desperate to cum, that the time is not right now.  Let him know that when the 30 days is up, he will be allowed to cum, but only if he eats his cum off of your body.  Constantly bring this up over the next 30 days.  You are planting suggestions in his head, so he will be able to follow through with what you ask.

Trust me when I say, that if you have him locked up for 30 days, he will do anything you want for him to cum, so this is what you want him to do.  The reasons you want him to do this, is so that you truly do dominate him.  It is all pretend until you make him do things he simply does not want to do under any circumstances.  Well, you are bending the circumstances so that YOU can make him do anything.  That is the purpose of domination.

IN this 30 days you will also fuck him regularly in the ass with a strap on, when you please.  If he protests, or is not in the mood, all the better.  This is when you do it the most.  Fuck him hard, and long until he begs for you to stop, and then a little longer after that.

This is an important part of submission training.  Each time you fuck him in the ass, he will feel humility, submission, and it works great coupled with orgasm denial to make him listen and respond to anything you say.

Make him do very degrading things during the month.

Here are some suggestions.

He should have a buttplug in as often as possible.  In fact, the only time he should have it out is when you are fucking his ass.  Somewhere in between always plugged and

sometimes plugged is likely the right place to be.  I am just a more dominant woman, and believe that my man should be plugged virtually 24/7.  It serves as a reminder to him that I am his boss.  If you try this, have 0 compassion when he begs you to take it out.  Say no.  Eventually, he will get used to it.  Use a metal one.  They are better for longterm use.

You should always make him get on his knees and suck your strap on for lube before you fuck him.

He will hate this, and you will feel very powerful with his inability to argue with you, or protest.

If he does, of course you know what happens.  He gets spanked extremely hard.

When he is in the kneeling position, and you enter your strap on into his mouth, grab the back of his head and slowly start fucking his face.  Think of the times when you were doing this for him.   Realize now, that you want him to feel true submission.

Start fucking his face hard. Make him gag on it.  Plug his nose with one hand, and fuck hard with your body and watch him gag.  This is great humility training.  It should be your goal to do this EVERYTIME you put on the strap on.  It goes hand in hand.  You need lube, and he is to provide it.

If all this humiliation becomes too much for him, and he wants to quit.  PERFECT.  You are doing a great job. If he doesn’t protest, find more humiliating things for him to do.  You are not doing your job right, if you he doesn’t want to quit at some point.  When he does  you tell him, that if he fails to do what you ask, that you will forget about all this femdom stuff, and he is to never bring it up again.

The part that most women do not understand in female dominance when they first get started, is that it is as real as you want to make it.  If you are just indulging in your husbands fantasies, and not really taking control by pushing your man into doing uncomfortable things, then you are really again, just being controlled by him.

In order for female dominance to become real, you must make it real, by forcing him to do things that he does not want to do.  You will either be done with all of this, or you will have the breakthrough, where you truly have brought your man to his knees in full servitude to you for the rest of your life.

Consider it like breaking a horse in.  Or training a dog.  Men are no different.  They can be trained to submit to your will on all matters but you do have to “break him in”.

What sounds better to you?

Indulging your mans fantasies….. or taking control of your man, your life, and your reality.

I know what I choose.  Join me, and make your man your bitch.

Take him, break him, mold him, and have a relationship with him, that few ever get to experience.

A relationship that puts you on a pedestal, with him serving you as you wish.

A relationship, where chores are the mans job, (unless you want to help), orgasms are an obligation for the men to give, and a privilege for him to be granted rarely for exceptional servitude.

This is your world now.  You are dominant, and your man is your submissive.  He asked for this, but he didn’t realize what it meant.  Too bad.  Either you take him now, or your window of opportunity will pass you by.

Do you want to be the passive, obligatory, serving wife, indulging your man’s fantasies, or do you want to be the dominant goddess that has all of her own fantasies fulfilled.

Make your man your bitch.  That is the secret to life for all womankind.

Now, that this article is almost over, you want to remember everything that we have discussed here.

You are now the dominant goddess of the house.

What you say goes, is what goes.

There are no exceptions.  What you want is what you get.

Be disciplined with yourself, and do not do things that contradict your dominance.

Your temple is your body and mind.  You and you alone can take your body and mind to places it has never been without the aid of alcohol or drugs.

Dominant women get a buzz off of dominating their men.  This is a high for you. You are now addicted to dominating your man.  You control him in every facet of your life and are free to explore boundaries limited only by consent, in which you can bend and manipulate to your favour.

Now, be a sweetheart, or a good sissy, and share this with as many women as you can.  The world needs more of us sweetie.  Help the cause.

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