Done and Done

Self-professed lover of beautiful connections, like two sugars and cream in my coffee, running shoes on a dirt road, and ink to paper. A side blog dedicated to Sam and Caitriona and whatever delicacies they decide to share with us.

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Its Crumb. What a day to take a peek. Sam. IG. Olympian. Thirsty. Not that it comes to a surprise. There are some crazy mother fucking women out there. What the hell are you gals doing?! He doesn't care about any of all this or us.

Uhhhh.... why are you being anonymous? Did you delete?!😱

[caitcrumbcake]

Ha. Delete?! This is better than regular programming TV and presumably this season and last couple seasons of Outlander. Wont be deleting any time soon. I miss season 1. Can we just have that?

BTW whats up with the larger than life tumblr font? What have they done?

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Yes, dork. We can just have S1 and pretend the rest never happened. As for the font.... I have no idea what you’re talking about. You ok? Little early for the sauce.

[caitcrumbcake]

Never too early. Its Friday and Im sick. Finally back in mainland US after 4 years abroad and Im sick. Husband on graveyard this wknd and this broad has travel soccer, cub scouts, and bday parties to deal with. I would complain about not signing up to this mess but I willingly opened myself (pun intended) and delivered.

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Its Crumb. What a day to take a peek. Sam. IG. Olympian. Thirsty. Not that it comes to a surprise. There are some crazy mother fucking women out there. What the hell are you gals doing?! He doesn't care about any of all this or us.

Uhhhh.... why are you being anonymous? Did you delete?!😱

[caitcrumbcake]

Ha. Delete?! This is better than regular programming TV and presumably this season and last couple seasons of Outlander. Wont be deleting any time soon. I miss season 1. Can we just have that?

BTW whats up with the larger than life tumblr font? What have they done?

[caitcrumbcake]

#2ndandcharles knows what’s up

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

First of all… where the fuck you been?!

Second of all…. why GOT not right next to those? 😂

[caitcrumbcake]

I could have saved you the heartache and disappointment that that series was going to have a shitty ending. I was ready to bring out the powerpoint and make a presentation out of it.

Dont mess with George...he will fuck you over.

[caitcrumbcake]

#2ndandcharles knows what's up

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

I don't know anyone who is able to separate their personal lives from the work lives. Actors also use this as their tool for acting. But! I blame Ep 3 on the writing team, producers, and the directors. All of Ep 3 looked as if they made it up as they went & expected the actors to just go w it. The writing was HORRIBLE. Matt & whomever was charge of the writing team should had NEVER let this script come to light. The shots were poorly put together. Yes, C/S acting was off but script sucked!

I really didn’t think 403 sucked that bad. I thought the Roger Bree parts were decent. Not the best ever or awe strickening (is that a word?), but solid.

The Jamie Claire parts just hurt me. That is not my Claire. My Claire hasn’t been around for a very long time, but S4 Claire is the sad sack of a human being teetering on an emotional precipice that was actually me when I found those books at age 39. I do not want to see that. I fought hard to shake off that misery.

Do I take these books too seriously? Fuck yeah I do! They saved me. Pardon the drama, but it’s the truth. Being a woman on the cusp of middle age with kids that no longer needed me to survive and hair that was more gray than not and wrinkles and a body aged who set aside a career to be available for others, I felt that my purpose was over. 40 and dead. I felt invisible. Pointless. Suddenly not the target market for anything besides pee pads and plastic surgery. It’s a sad hard place to dwell.

Those books, through Claire, showed me how much worth I STILL held and that life was not over, I wasn’t meant to just end up going forward. Book Claire taught me to let my hair down and seek joy and authenticity. There is nothing else out there glorifying the life of a woman beyond her youth. So when I say it hurts me to watch show Claire, that is literal. It’s giving me some PTSD and fuck that. I do not ever want to be that sad quiet pitiful woman ever again. I need to -see- that romantic fool Claire all the way. If the show won’t give me that, I’ll just tune out and read the books again.

[misterodamore-deactivated202103]

Beautifully expressed. Thank you for sharing. There’s a reason why these characters and this show are so important to us. They saved so many of us from the realities and hardships of life. It’s why we’re still here trucking along wishing and hoping for it to get better. When we criticise it’s because we care and we see the wasted potential. We don’t want them to fail. We don’t want to let them go.

[t4two2]

We all have our reasons for being drawn into this fandom (many of us for the first fandom experience ever) We loved the books.  We loved the show.  We fell in love with the two leads and got carried away with their bliss. We stumbled onto Tumblr and discovered a warm, funny community that understood our Outlander obsession and fed it. For many of here, Outlander was a huge escape.  

So when we criticize aspects of the show, we aren’t “whining”. In many cases we are actually grieving. This feels like a loss.  

Over the course of the past 4 years, all of the things we loved about Outlander have slowly disappeared.  The show has declined.  DG turned out to be a crazy bitch with no social filter.  And the community here has dwindled to a fraction of what it once was.

So, yeah.  I want to see feisty, lusty, middle aged Claire and sexy, protective, horny Jamie. That’s Outlander to me.  And I miss it.

[mommydog67]

For years, in the dawn of the internet, Outlander fans debated the wisdom of the books becoming a TV show, miniseries or movie. Hours and hours of discussion over who would play Jamie and Claire, while we waited for DG to complete the next book. We were right. Fame ruined everything

[caitcrumbcake]

@just-a-wretched-wumman 💕💕💕

You are not pointless....nor will you ever be. #2months

[caitcrumbcake]

@st-teresa-of-avila @iridescentstone

LOL…. this is by far my best work I would say.  Hahahahaha.

[caitcrumbcake]

I got a tumblr notification out of the blue. I just couldnt help myself. Muahahha.

Hope you lovely ladies are well!! Enjoy fab Sam and his lovely and not so lovely hair.

[caitcrumbcake]

Haii beautiful!!

😍😙😗😍😇😛😜😎😙😚😍🙌💪💪👋💕 Gaaahhhh!!! I love you girl!!!

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Do you miss Crumb? Because I know she misses you.

Who is this crumb you speak of? Seems familiar, but….. 🤔.

[caitcrumbcake]

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Me every time @caitcrumbcake drops a hello on me.

[caitcrumbcake]

I’m thirsty today and I needed to take a stoke on some Wretched crack. 

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Do you miss Crumb? Because I know she misses you.

Who is this crumb you speak of? Seems familiar, but….. 🤔.

[caitcrumbcake]

[laird-brochtuarach]

Sam Heughan and Caitriona Balfe’s Very First Outlander Chemistry Test (x)

[caitcrumbcake]

It should have been titled:

Sam Heughan and Caitriona Balfe’s Very First ‘We are Sooo Fucked Moment’.

[callmeder]

Go home, February, you’re drunk.

[caitcrumbcake]

@callmeder

Best. Caption. Ever. 

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Who do you love more, crumb cake or eternity? Does crumbcake send you Valentine's day cards?

I love them equally, duh, but I got no Vday card from the crumb.

[caitcrumbcake]

I’m going to take out my “I flew nearly 8000 miles with three small children and drove five hours out of my way to come see you” card.  That should at least get me out of sending you 3 years worth of V-day cards. 

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Fair point crumby. Care to counter that @fromheretoeternity1121 ? BTW, all of a sudden you show up today?

[caitcrumbcake]

Another point I want to make @just-a-wretched-wumman:

YOU LOATHE VALENTINES DAY.

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Who do you love more, crumb cake or eternity? Does crumbcake send you Valentine's day cards?

I love them equally, duh, but I got no Vday card from the crumb.

[caitcrumbcake]

I’m going to take out my “I flew nearly 8000 miles with three small children and drove five hours out of my way to come see you” card.  That should at least get me out of sending you 3 years worth of V-day cards. 

[just-a-wretched-wumman-deactiva]

Some more: If you could change 3 things about your country, what would you change? //// What fact amazes you every time you think of it? (MUAKS)

Can I just leave instead? There is just nothing about this culture I can relate to anymore. Everyone is a self centered, judgmental, ignorant fucktard and the food is absolute SHIT!

[caitcrumbcake]

Talking about your family again, I see.

Love you babe.  xoxoxo. 

[caitcrumbcake]

Hello everyone...

This is a mass post because I need to know.  Please message me privately.

Has anyone heard from Sinem?  We’ve been emailing back and forth and the last I receive one was a bit after the New Years started.  Obviously, I’m worried and anxious about what was going on at that particular time and since then.  If anyone has an update, please message me. 

Thank you.

Please reblog and share. 

[caitcrumbcake]

[Marie Claire]:  You’re engaged!

[Caitriona]:  Yes, to a wonderful man!  His name is-

[Marie Claire glances over to McGill]: But what about your costar?

[Caitriona]:  Sam is truly supportive.  He’s so over the moon--

[Marie Claire deadpans]:  No, seriously.

[caitcrumbcake]

You all are SALTY as Fuck.

And I love you all for it.  Hahahaha.