candy ottersz

hii its me ryan. very radqueer ! antis dni

[candyotters]

my intro ..

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~ { me } ~

name ~ Ryan / Thing pronouns ~ he / they / it / maim / rot sexuality labels ~ omnisexual , demisexual

~ { other stuff } ~ paraphilias ~ necro , autobiasto , myso , object

CisIDs (that i feel like specifying) ~ autistic , system , harmed , harmful , medicated , omniphile , radqueer , zombie

TransIDs ~ nullrace , trisharmful , trisanorexia , scary , f/cultist , unreal , antiphile

~ { boundaries for those who care } ~

>> Antis are not welcome by any means. Fuck off!! i do doubt you respect radqueer/profic boundaries though

>> Please ask before you DM!!

>> Do not share my posts/account with malicious intent.

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[candyotters]

sprouts humble abode ! ( 🍓🧁 )

𖦹 ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤRadqueer + Proship Dandys World Server https://discord.gg/CqvVnX8CFB Fun roles, Run hosting, Tons of channels, Brand new Server! 𖦹

[antisocial-pd-culture-is]

aspd culture is not being afraid to immediately let go of friends if they make you / someone else you’re closer to mad

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[antisocial-pd-culture-is]

ASPD culture (and maybe BPD?) is constantly wanting to hurt, push away, and break up with your exception because you cant accept that you actually deserve anything of that sort of affection and etc because of everyone in your life convincing you that youre genuinely the most abusive, horrible, rude, unhumane, demon ever and also because youre more used to being alone and hurting people so they'll leave you alone.

(Ps: This is more personal but mine actually understands or is actively trying to understand how my disorders/brain works and doesnt let me leave or push her away, i hate her sometimes but i know deep down shes the only person i ever actually loved at all.)

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[bunnyphile-deactivated20260418]

Paraphilic attractions are not the problem with abusive behavior, all attractions are morally neutral and being a pedophile does not mean you are a child abuser; being a zoophile does not mean you are an animal rapist; being a necrophile does not mean you desecrate corpses. People treat the attractions like the issue and not the willingness to abuse, which extends across all attractions ever. Gay people rape each other, and straight people rape each other. It doesn’t mean that being gay or straight makes you more likely to sexually abuse others, being willing to rape and abuse makes you more likely to.

[pokephilliacrq]

you can't "recover" from being radqueer, it's lit becoming less accepting of others

[inanimate-archive]

Random person: yea I'm gonna go eat a hot dog!

That one zoophile friend u try to ignore: a hot🤤... Dog...? 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

[rq-little-babyy]

most anti-transid beings aren't as anti-transid as they think...

beings who dye their hair are transhaircolor

beings who change their name are transname

beings who learn different languages are transdialect

beings who wish to recover from disabilities are transabled

willogenic systems are transplural

adoptive families are transfamily

transids aren't just transrace and transage, they're anything that falls into the category of changing your identity. and yes, transgender is a transid.

[radiomyth]

Life is better when you don't dedicate 99% of your time arguing about what you can or can't identify as or transition towards. Let's just be whoever we wanna. Ok?

[insert-a-creative-username-here]

Stop reporting jirais

stop reporting rqs

stop reporting paras

these communities are safe spaces and you are ruining that

[candyotters]

HIII!!!! it’s bibi/yurilover from discord!! (˶ˆᗜˆ˵)

you’re so cool… wowwieee

yayyayyay im soo aweosme!!!!!!!!! hello yurilover you stuid queer

also to any of my other moots seeing this ims orry i have been so inactiveee..,, depression and life stuff ok

[derotettix]

the circus trio again!!! but apter, shaper, brighter, newer

[slipknotqueer]

WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO BE PUT ON THE BOTTOM

[queercentipede]

right bru put me at the bottom

[candyotters]

do they seriously think we are that bad lmao

[kkradqueer]

hot take

if you are a radqueer and say shit like “Antis are people” “Antis are valid” “Antis can int” I’m gonna automatically assume you aren’t a radqueer and r just trying t o water down the term and giving genuinely awful people access to community and 9/10 will be blocked by yours truly.

-Alfred

[candyotters]

RYAN !! it ' s matty !! glad to see ure okay , i didnt realize candyotters was your TUMBLR user not your discord user , idk if thisll send from the right account but if you wanna moot again my rq account is puppyonplushie and my main is still the same ^_^ hello bro

OMG ITS YOU!!!! YAY!!! mmy discord IS candyotters. like the period is part of it not that im ending the sentence,, but its so good to hear from you yayy!! hello bro

[snuffed-pup]

"oh wah wah your gonna end up grooming someone bc your proship"

The only time I ever "groomed" someone was when antis made me think all proshippers dated children. I've never seen a proshipper talk about irl children, you know what I've seen antis talk about? Sending gore, and actual csam to proshippers. Tracing over a half naked babies bodies to prove "darkshipping is pedophillia!!" And not even getting their point right. I've seen antis talk in extreme detail how they were going to assault people in my community, I've seen them doxx people, some have been called out for real rape/grooming, I've seen antis harm real children, they've explained in great detail that they have fantasized darkship tropes irl with proshippers to "show how wrong it is" and I was groomed by antishippers, I was harmed by antishippers. I've been loved by proshippers, Ive been more accepted in the proship community than I have been in my own house, you know why? The proship community Is built on anti-harassment in fiction, and that influences how they act in situations. Proshippers are more likely to be the kindest people you'll meet because they don't harass anyone over what they like in fiction.

[altar-bred]

in my eyes, being radqueer asks you to prioritize human autonomy before anything. if someone else tells you a facet of their identity, it is simply not your place to question another's life and expression.