I refuse to have conversations with white people about my relationship w my family so I’m not putting details out here for comment but rest assured the first four days were really pleasant but I woke up this morning and wanted to kms so honestly I timed my move to the hotel portion of my stay perfectly
It’s not even the misgendering at this point alright that’s not helping, it just happens that everyone here is the oldest in their generation + therefore culturally the one with the most responsibility and say in everything so on one hand everybody is so kind and thoughtful and on the other hand I literally cannot get out of the car without someone giving me an opinion on how I should do it










