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boys and men will try to convince you that humans are intrinsically selfish and egotistical because they can’t cope with the fact that women are actually taught from birth to put their community, their friends, their family, everyone on equal (sometimes even higher) footing.

male individualism is completely dependent on the emotional labour of women, and whenever you try to point this out they act like you’re denying basic human facts

bookbeani

peachiiesims

Makeup Brand Lookbook no. 3

Benefit Cosmetics

hair // coat // shoes // beret // choker // earrings

makeup - lipstick | eyeshadow

vampseats

Hello kitty cake in Hiroshima 🎀

untitled4022

Quick facts about ADHD:

Females most commonly have inattentive ADHD (But often go undiagnosed)

Hyperactive ADHD is most commonly found in children and males.

Combination type is thought to be about equal to both male and females, but has most commonly been found in males (as a result of testing being done primarily on boys)

People with ADHD are valid and we should stop referring to ADHD as a quirk or a fun disorder

The term inattentive ADHD has actually been around since 1987!

People with ADHD are on average about 3 years behind developmentally in some areas of the brain, but are expected to catch up to non-ADHD peers in their early 20s

RSD is believed to be linked to a smaller amygdala and thinner prefrontal cortex

Almost 100% of ADHD patients are believed to have experienced symptoms of RSD, but don’t even realize RSD is a thing

About 50% of people in court mandated anger management have previously undiagnosed ADHD

RSD can be internalized or externaized. Internalized makes a patient anxious, depressed, and sometimes even suicidal. An externaized response can be described as an “instantaneous rage”

RSD used to be misdiagnosed as rapidly cycling bipolar disorder.

captainofcute

PSA: don’t go to Douglas J Aveda Institute in Royal Oak

Hey ya’ll, I had the most horrible experience as a customer. And I want to warn you about it so you don’t ever get screw out like 15 hours and $200 not including gas and parking. I went to get my hair bleached and dyed lilac at my local Aveda, because as you might be able to tell from my blog– I love pastels. I had previously tried to bleach my hair myself, so I was advised to give my hair some rest after they bleached it. I was told to come back in 3 weeks, and then they would dye my hair lilac. I wanna note to you at no time did anyone especially not the instructors told me that there was even a possibility that they would not be able to dye my hair lilac. So I came in 3 weeks later and after talking to the instructor the student came back and told me that her instructor had advised that we dye my hair a dark purple, assuring me it would fade to the color I wanted, but it would last much longer. I had no reason to doubt her, so I said sure as long as it would fade to the color I wanted. The actual instructor came over and gave me the same run down about 5 minutes later. Again, I agreed as long as I would get lilac in the end. SPOILER ALERT MY HAIR NEVER FADED TO THAT COLOR, NOR DID IT LAST LONGER. Within about 2-3 days of me washing with purple shampoo my hair turned to an INCREDIBLY desaturated Lavender. When I stood in blue light(LED and Sun Light) it looked about %50 lavender 50% gray, and overall it was muddy. Tustang light a.k.a almost all indoor lighting, I looked a muddy gray. By the end of the week I was straight up gray. But I thought whatever the student said they would fix it for free within a 2 week timespan if I was unhappy. So after work the next Thursday I called in to schedule a repair appointment and went in the very next day. The instructor takes one look at me and goes “your hair is too dark, if you want it fixed, well have to rebeach it”. After some calculations she tells me that it will cost me $102. At which I go hell no I’ve already spent a small fortune. So instead they tell me they’ll do a treatment that will remove the artificial color build up and it will be $30. And I felt like a broken woman so I agree hoping it’ll be the last of it. So they do the treatment and squirt in some toner it my hair, and now I’m a dark blond with some uneven purple spots. The teacher proceedes to stand there and tell me that my hair is too dark and it would have never been able to be lilac in the first place, so she’s just admitted to knowingly wasting more of my money. Then she basically says too bad so sad and sends me to the counter with the student who is visibly uncomfortable because she knows I’m miserable. When I get to the counter it turns out the treatment was on $25, big whoop. I held back tears as I paid and walked out sobbing on the way to my car. Normally this would be the end of the story for me, but within a few hours I’m seething because I don’t even earn $200 in 2 weeks and I’m stuck with hair I HATE. So my mother offers to call Aveda for me and I say please do. After ignoring my mothers calls for awhile the director of the school finally calls back and imply a that I lied and tells my mother they aren’t giving a cent back. So here I am warning you. Do yourself a favor and STAY AWAY FROM AVEDA.

#Aveda #Douglas J #Douglas J.#Douglas J. Aveda #Douglas J Aveda #Aveda Royal oak #Douglas J. Aveda Royal oak #Douglas J Aveda Royal oak #scam warning #review #poor customer service #money dump #scam #beware

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Having anxiety is like having a broken spider-sense that is constantly warning you of non-existent danger.

thewolvenangel

It’s Black Cat Appreciation Day, everyone pls appreciate my baby boy Odd Thomas

vampiretombm

i’m tired of vaguing about it. watching you people post about and idolize bts is the most irritating thing and even more because i’m black. everyone knows they’re racist. it’s fucking known that the leader has said the n word. it’s known they’ve worn cornrows and have been called cool when we’re called dirty and ghetto. it’s known that they’ve appropriated our culture multiple times. not to mention that photoshoot. and it’s even worse because i know y’all act like they’re all pure n shit (which is a whole other type of racist stereotype) and then turn around and call us scary and ghetto. and on top of this? stop using aave. i’m especially tired of being told i sound like a kpop stan because i use language my community created.

((ok to reblog, don’t add on if you aren’t black))

trunkzbriefs

relating to this post:

RM imitating black people

RM saying the n-word

RM in dreads

this fucking mess on suga

mouthing/saying the n word

not specifically related to this post but still mention-able:

holocaust photoshoot (the photoshoot mentioned) (tw: antisemitism)

native american appropriation (theyve also made fun of native american names, but the video has long since been deleted)

trunkzbriefs

also worth mentioning: if you’re nonblack its not your place to “forgive” bts for the things theyve done. you cant forgive them for any of their antiblack shit because guess what? youre not black. be quiet.

#welp glad to know about this

lehappybest

daisyjazzridley

And he goes, “What are you?” Which is fucking rude.

libertybill

!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE HER!!!!!! WHAT A GOOD GURL!!!!💕💖💐🎊🎈 She’s finally in one piece!!! #fairylandminifee #fairylandminifeemio #minifeemio #dollleaves #bjd #abjd #balljointdoll #balljointeddoll #doll #dollstargram #asianballjointeddolls #asianballjointeddoll #lookatmychild #💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

#minifeemio #dollstargram #bjd #balljointeddoll #asianballjointeddoll #fairylandminifeemio #balljointdoll #doll #asianballjointeddolls #fairylandminifee #abjd #lookatmychild #dollleaves #💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

thechickendaddy

The garden is full of little treasures

These were gifts along with a doll purchase, but I’ll never use them, so they need to move on. It isn’t very high quality stuff. I’d take $5 plus shipping for all of it. I’m open to negotiation. The the wig is made of synthetic fiber. The red eyes are made of acrylic I think, and they have jagged backs. The purple eyes are glass and one is lighter than the other. #bjdsales #bjdsale

#bjdsale #bjdsales