Captain’s Handbook

Discourse safe space

[captainshandbook]

“ What’s there to Report? It’s just a little cosmetic damage!.. “

📕 • don’t know who I am? I was previously @/anti-willo-sprout. We revamped this blog due to the controversy surrounding qwel and the AWV as a whole. Profile, banner, Dividers + userbox is made by me!

📕 • RED / CAPTAIN . HE / IT , NO THEY . VERY SOURCE CONNECTED FICTIVE IN A C-DID SYSTEM .

📕• I am a genderless trans man. Please refer to me with masc terms.

📕• got some questions? please look at my FAQ before doing so.

📕 • this is a sideblog for any discourse related discussions, yes, any. This blog is specifically made for the purpose of discussing controversial topics without clogging my main up with all the negativity. I will not be linking my main blog to minimize harassment, but if you know my main already, hi! Nice to see you again.

📕• I post whenever I feel like it, however I do take week-long breaks every fortnight for the sake of my mental health as engaging in discourse can get exhausting. This means that during this time asks will be closed and there will be a notice on my most recent posts. I sometimes schedule asks to appear when I come back from my breaks in order to clear up my inbox for a fresh start.

📕 • I have many stances on many things, however my most strongest beliefs are the following:

• Endogenics + their associates are inherently ableist towards pwCDDs wether their intentions are to do so or not (Anti-endo)

• Radqueers are a predatory community, not queer or progressive in any manner. (Anti-Radqueer)

• TransIDs Are inherently transphobic in nature and the label within itself associates with harmful identities such as transnazi + transdisabled wether one supports those harmful labels or not (Anti-TransID)

• Pro/darkship + profic communities foster a predatory and harmful environment to minors, traumatised victims + otherwise vulnerable mentally ill individuals by spreading the rhetoric that fiction does not have any connection or affect on reality and that it’s acceptable to glorify and romanticize real life taboo topics within fiction, which is incorrect and misleading. (Anti-profic + darkship)

• contradictory labels, LIOMOGAI, xenogenders + neopronouns harm nobody if done in entirely good faith. (Radinclus)

• everyone deserves a chance at recovery and redemption, even if they’ve hurt people. By everyone I include those suffering from harmful paraphillic disorders (pro-recovery + Anti-contact)

• Transandrophobia is real and by denying such you are a danger to trans men/amab enby individuals and the overall trans community alike

📕 • If you disagree with these, you are free to block me. No need to send any nasty messages, I won’t entertain them (unless they’re genuinely laughable and embarrassing), i would not think of doing the same thing to you or anyone who disagrees with me, so be a decent human being and do the same.

This being said, this blog specifically has no DNI. I am open to respectful debates and discussion regardless of your beliefs (keyword: respectful. Insults, passive aggression, and/or backhanded comments are not respectful in any way. I will block you if I notice you doing such in a conversation with me and won’t continue.)

Thanks for taking the time to read! Remember to drink water, take any medication if you have any, and stay safe. <3

[lo0ping-the-ro0ms]

I think endos need to learn that dissociation ≠ multiplicity and that their dissociative experiences are real, but not multiplicity. Dissociation without multiplicity can mimick multiplicity.

[captainshandbook]

Someone genuinely accused me of using ChatGPT to talk because I use correct grammar this is hilarious

No babe I’m just neurodivergent

[captainshandbook]

Really not a fan of how much of an increase there’s been with anti-profic + darkship individuals harassing and threatening people who use the labels.

Yes, calling out these people’s communities for their concerning behavior is a good thing! But it draws the line when you start to threaten, doxx, harass and send REAL videos of Gore, rape and violence to these REAL PEOPLE.

a lot of people seem to be very inconsiderate of people in these spaces as well. Whilst the community in nature is dangerous, it still consists of mostly vulnerable and traumatized minors. Many of which tend to have been groomed into these communities. Harassing and threatening minors is always a horrific thing to be doing, and I am in zero support of it. Regardless of the context. I was apart of these communities once, and I was continually threatened and bullied out of spaces for it. It never helped me change — it actually just set me back even further and made it harder to seperate myself from the community.

Harassing these people further drives them to hide into these communities more. It does not help them. It does not make them want to change their ways. It makes them further dependent on their community for support and attention. It doesn’t help them work towards recovery in any form.

And most of all, it gives people like myself in these anti spaces a horrible look. The amount of times I’ve just been blatantly accused of threatening and doxxing people with little to no evidence is insane; all of it just because of these labels alone. It’s disgusting that people have been so desensitized to this treatment that this is what they associate all of us with.

We need to do better. We can’t keep claiming that these people are so horrific and disgusting when there’s people in our community who do the same, if not worse, horrific things.

[captainshandbook]

heylo!! can i interact if i am anti endo but for reasons put neu-endo on my blog? im asking because im scared of offending my friends who are pro endo that i love but cannot convince...

Anybody can interact here if they remain respectful and not here to harass/have any ill intent! I have no DNI on this blog specifically. Your situation with your friends sounds frustrating though :( i hope you can figure something out

[captainshandbook]

NIGEL FARAGE HAS RESIGNED. I REPEAT

NIGEL FARAGE HAS RESIGNED.

[anti-willo-miku]

Hi! This is my take on an anti-endo / “sysmed” flag. I personally use sysmed to describe myself because

A. Endos throw it around like its an insult, but yes, I do view a medical condition as something medical, what about it?

B. I wanted to make a cool flag.

The purple stands for intelligence and wisdom, and the yellow is for healing, trauma recovery and solidarity between the community.

The caduceus is a symbol of medicine (which is why there is a Rod of Asclepius version!) the gears represent systemhood!

Stamps, userboxes and no symbol below!!

[anti-willo-miku]

I dislike false equivilances like these a lot. I am ready for this conversation, although I doubt you are.

IMG ID: A post that reads: “people who say the phrase The Future Is Plural is about "abusing children" are just rehashing "the trans agenda is grooming children" rhetoric but maybe we arent ready for that conversation yet #my post #tw syscourse #sorry i know i maxed out syscourse posts per month on main but i get an extra one on this blog okay.” /END ID

Now, even if we run with the assumption of endogenic systems being valid, the “plural” umbrella still proclaims to include CDD systems. “The future is plural” advocates for several good things when it comes to cdds: acceptance and education. That is where our benefits end.

Within the endogenic plural community there is an underlying idea of wanting more individuals to be plural. This idea stems from how forums like the lancers used to monitor soulbonding, cdd, and spiritual forms for recruitment. Now, it is found in jokes, niche kinks such as forceplural, and pushing people with mild symptoms into some form of plurality. This sentiment bleeds into “the future is plural” idea, in which they desire “more plurals”.

The funny thing about this is I do not think they realize that the haphazard shoving of cdd systems into plurality inadvertently implies that the future is plural means the future has more systems of all kinds, including cdd systems.

Either that, or subconsciously, pwCDDs are not plural to them, despite how much they claim we are. This is why they react so defensively when people point out that certain things in their community, that despite claiming to be for everyone, are designed for or only work in the context of endogenics.

To the pro endo, the future is plural does not include CDD systems. Their future is strictly endogenic, and we are an afterthought. The CDD system will never be prioritized in movements like these, because their community never accounted for people like us. They have built a subculture in which we were treated as lesser, and are now sloppily attempting to include us.

Onto your point about the “trans agenda”. Trans people do not group in a trauma based disorder under the trans umbrella. Plurality does. Your false equivalence fallacy is lame and overused.

[captainshandbook]

I find it funny that because of how many (pro/neu) endos I’ve blocked on main that I cannot see half of my notifications when it comes to my syscourse related posts

If you comment or reblog or send any asks on my posts and I don’t answer that’s probably why. That or you tried to threaten me or something I dunno what do you guys usually do when faced with someone like me

[captainshandbook]

The new theme tastes absolutely delicious its very pretty !! :D

THANK YOU! It was my first time genuinely trying to do more graphic work and it came out incredibly well for me I’d say !! I’ve still got a long way to go though

[captainshandbook]

I love your revamp bro, it looks really clean! Also unrelated but my friend with synesthesia says your dividers sound like clock tower bells

THANK YOU!!! also I giggled at that second part that kinda makes sense

[captainshandbook]

What is it with Non-Scots and getting unreasonably pissed off when you tell them not to refer to you as “ British “? I get that location wise that is what we are, but also at the same time; referring to myself as British would be exactly what colonizers want. They want us to just be brushed under the rug. They want our culture to go unnoticed and overlooked. They want us to just seem like another part of their own land.

Just call us Scottish. For the love of god please just call us Scottish it cannot be that difficult.

[antiendosoap]

reminder that “cleanqueer” implies that queers are dirty

[captainshandbook]

For the love of god, please can we as a community stop spreading blatant misinformation like this. We all claim that people like Radqueers and endos are ignorant and don’t listen/read anything we have to say yet there’s people on our side who do shit like this. It makes us seem incredibly hypocritical. You do not have to like or use any blankqueer labels but it gets to a point when you’re just saying shit for the sake of it

Im not even cleanqueer nor do I use any blankqueer labels before anybody comes with the pitchforks. This just pissed me off a little.

[captainshandbook]

Radqueers exploit and take advantage of vulnerable people such as disordered paraphiles to enable a safe space for predators and otherwise harmful individuals.

Now, many of those who are anti-radqueer are probably saying; “ Red, we already know this! What are you talking about?? “

But, for those who are confused or just wanna hear me out, I’ll continue.

First of all, I’ll be explaining the definitions of a paraphillia and a paraphillic disorder, and the differences between the two. CW for mentions of harmful paraphillias such as pedophillia, zoophillia + necrophillia, fictional taboo content, and sexual abuse/trauma under the cut. View at your own risk, and stay safe <3

Now that I’ve given a heads up, let me go over these two definitions.

Paraphillia - a paraphillia, by definition, is an intense, atypical sexual and/or romantic attraction towards things that are typically considered non-sexual in nature. (a prime example of this is objectophillia; more known as objectum) Paraphillias have the potential to develop into paraphillic disorders, but this is not always the outcome.

Paraphillic disorder - Similar to a paraphillia, A paraphilic disorder is a mental disorder involving atypical sexual arousal + attraction that causes distress, harm, or involves non-consenting individuals ( such as underage children, animals, corpses, etc. ). This is typically caused by factors such as trauma and/or sexual abuse, but not always.

Not all paraphiles have a paraphillic disorder; however, all disordered paraphillic individuals have a paraphillia in some form.

Now that you know this, let’s race back to my first statement above.

Radqueers. You all know them, you probably don’t love them. I hope you don’t. Their community is disgusting, you can easily see that if you even scrolled through the tags for a good few seconds.

Radqueers as a community are well known for being heavily accepting of paraphillias + those with paraphillic disorders, and framing themselves as a pro mental health space that helps rehabilitate paraphillic disorders and help them recover, when that really isn’t the case. Many of their arguments and talking points revolve around pro mental health and recovery, but are used in a way that twists their narrative.

For example, many Radqueers argue that disordered and non disordered paraphiles cannot choose their attractions, and shouldn’t be villainized for such. Which is a correct argument, they just use it in incredibly bad faith.

Those with paraphillic disorders cannot choose their attractions, no, but they can choose how to control and manage it. And with Radqueers convincing these people that it’s okay to engage in your desire under the guise of “ thought crimes aren’t real “ , that can cause harm and further worsen their desire altogether.

It’s similar to a porn addiction. The more you engage in that content, the bigger your desire grows. You start craving more intense kicks. You start craving and craving more and more intense things until it gets to its worst possible point. This exact logic can be applied to paraphillic disorders.

The rhetoric they spread in regards of Those who suffer from paraphillic disorders puts vulnerable people in danger. Both non-consenting groups such as animals + children and those suffering from the disorder altogether. Radqueers are and always will be predatory so long as their community continues to thrive.

If you are a disordered paraphile within the radqueer community, I pray on your recovery. You can get better, become a better person, even if it seems hopeless to do so. You deserve a second chance when you get the opportunity. Im rooting for you in the long run. Your first step however is to get out of that community as soon as you can.

[anti-willo-dee-johnson]

“the future is plural” = “we want people to mistake their non-CDD mental disorders, neurodivergence and things that are just literally normal as plurality, and harass the systems who tell us the truth”

[captainshandbook]

Im shaking is this real and truthful information

[captainshandbook]

gently nudges your face...

Our shelly and vee alters say hi ! Our shelly squeaked in glee when she saw an anti endo sprout LOL Sorry for all the bullshit you get man. 🪲 (host).

[this ask was sent prior to the blog revamp, I apologise]

SO SORRY I TOOK TOO LONG TO SAY THIS HII!! I’m glad to see a lot of anti endo DW fictives, I’ve seen far too many people being problematic in the community,,.,

Don’t worry about any bullshit I get from others, that’s on them for wasting their time insulting a random person online when that time could’ve been better spent on something more meaningful. It doesn’t affect me in any way lolol