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@caraalviento
SOOOOO SICK OF BEING ONLINE MAYBE I AM AN ADDICT TO MY PHONE MAYBE THE BOOMERS WERE RIGHT!!!!!!!!! please god please please please let me go to an art museum let me lay in the sun and read a book or something oh my god I am going to KILL MY SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!! #ketodiet #indiefilm #cottagecore #style
In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.
Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.
Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.
Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different.
Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.
Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty.
Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!
Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!
Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.
Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be.
This one’s a pretty big deal. “Did you come?”
No, but it still felt great
Yes, and it felt really great
Yes, but coming isn’t that big a deal for me
No, can you keep going?
Yes, can you keep going?
No, do you want to watch me get myself off?
Yes, but don’t get a big head about it – I come so easily it doesn’t matter what you do.
No, but I bet I can get you up again
Yes, but I’d rather keep edging because I always get a huge drop after coming and it really puts me off sex for a while
No, thank you, orgasm denial leaves me deliciously horny for days
No, and I’m really frustrated, let’s brainstorm how to change that
All of these are fucking awesome answers. Including the last one. They’re also 100% legitimate answers. Including the last one.
Only the last one is even a little bit “negative,” and, really, how bad, arrogant, or egocentric a lover do you have to be that you’d rather not know when your partner says “here are some great ways to help me come next time, lover?”
If on the other hand you’re going to panic or be unhappy about that last answer then you’re not a bad lover (no shame either way) but your sex life will be less workable. With the result that you’ll continue having, well, the same result.
To be honest, whether you or your partner comes isn’t the most important thing about sex. It’s whether you’re both satisfied afterwards. The only trick being that
You get to decide what “satisfied” means for you
You don’t get to decide what “satisfied” means for your partner(s.)
Asking “did you come” isn’t really the right question. “Does this work for you” is way healthier. That’s the culture we want to look for and encourage.
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P.S. Your partner isn’t a video game. His or her orgasms aren’t a boss fight. The question you want to ask isn’t “did I beat the previous high score” but “would you like to play again.”
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“The very heavens conspire against me!”
How terrible it is to love something that Death can touch
you want anons???? hello friend I adore you miss you terribly 💜
I miss you too whoever you are. reveal yourself and let me love you
Today, I saw a dietician.
I bared my soul and let the light of day shine upon the deepest and most ancient problem in my life.
I have been morbidly obese for as long as I can remember. I never learned how to eat properly, or how to maintain my weight. I let it go on far too long.
I’m an adult now, and have nobody to blame but myself. It’s on me to fix this, and I will. I can’t live like this, I can’t accept what I see in the mirror and it’s kept me from having a healthy romantic life. How could anyone love me when I hate myself?
Today, I took the first step toward changing that. I’m ready now. It ends here.
For anyone who gives a fuck, I’ve lost 115lbs since I posted this
also, we up to 135lbs down nerds. get fucked, obesity.
Today, I saw a dietician.
I bared my soul and let the light of day shine upon the deepest and most ancient problem in my life.
I have been morbidly obese for as long as I can remember. I never learned how to eat properly, or how to maintain my weight. I let it go on far too long.
I’m an adult now, and have nobody to blame but myself. It’s on me to fix this, and I will. I can’t live like this, I can’t accept what I see in the mirror and it’s kept me from having a healthy romantic life. How could anyone love me when I hate myself?
Today, I took the first step toward changing that. I’m ready now. It ends here.
For anyone who gives a fuck, I’ve lost 115lbs since I posted this
let me relax……………will comment later…………………..
i’m done.
being called baby?????? holding hands????!? being KISSED?!!!?!???????
Sleep is literally the most pleasurable thing ever why do I deprive myself of it lmao
