Okay kids I'm not doing this on my main blog because I'm not getting this shit involved with my real life.
This post is going to be very obviously OOC from my Droog RP Character, but this has to be said, and I'm not sitting around and watching Sergey lie to people any longer.
I'm not sure entirely where to start with this. So I'll try to start from the beginning. When I found out about the extent his lies have gone to, to the point of contradicting himself in the things he has told my friends and I, over the time we have known him, and the extent he begs for money and donations shamelessly, constantly, for months on end, I am not going to sit here and let this happen any longer. I was willing to stay out of it so long as it was about people's feelings, I could lie to myself and say it wasn't my place to step in. I didn't want to do this to be vicious. I didn't want to do this to hurt anyone, or to even hurt him, since that seemed back-handed and cruel.
But now it's about money, it's about lying publicly, about things he told us, and I am not going to stay silent any longer.
Sergey is manipulative, pure and simple. In his conversations with people, he lies about everything.
Let me tell you a small list of things he has told me in the past:
-He claimed to be a stripper
-He claims he has cosplayed this that and the next thing, but refuses to show a single image of his cosplays and will change the conversation if you ask to see them or say that he has no access to his cosplays
-He has claimed that he had many snakes, including a python
-He has claimed that he has had foxes, two of them, as pets
-He will openly explain to everyone he meets within hours of meeting them that his mother and his brother were murdered by his father who broke out of a Russian prison in order to find him.***
-He claims that he is 7'5''. To make this one clear he claimed to be taller than Andre the Giant.Ā
-He claims that he is extremely underweight.
-He claimed that had done meth, smoked weed, and done heroin at one point.
-He claimed once that he had robbed a convenience store because he was broke.
-He claimed he had an AK-47 under his bed.
-He claimed that he went to Perdue University and studied Engineering. And that he was ill, and unable to attend, and had to contest his scholarship and -visa- and thus his -right to remain in the United States lest he be deported back to Russia-.
And in terms of emotional manipulation and lying:
He claimed repeatedly while we spoke, throughout weeks and months, of times when he would attempt suicide, and be taken to the hospital, detoxed/stomach pumped, and then discharged.
While claiming he had no money for insurance.
Also, when someone repeatedly shows they are a danger to themselves, through repeated hospital visits, they are admitted for a specific amount of time. The only time this ever happened was when a friend of ours literally called the cops on him.
He will threaten suicide for many things. If people stop talking to him. If things don't go his way. He claims a hash of mental disorders and some of them he may have, I am not saying that he does or does not. I am not making claims about him saying that I know what is and is not true of his mental state.Ā
I don't know what's a lie and what's the truth in the grand scheme of all of the things Sergey has said to me and my friends. There were over 5 of us in a skype chat who he lied to on a daily basis, all of us were emotionally manipulated.
Let me tell you about the signs of emotional manipulation.
Sergey has done all of these to all of my friends.
If you have had it bad, he has had it worse.
If you are upset, he will ignore it and out-upset you.
He will claim he never said any of the things he has said, and outright lie publicly, like he is doing now, and gaslight you into thinking you are wrong.
I am currently compiling screenshots. But I will end this with the explanation of how much shame I feel at having associated with this person. I sent him pizzas. I tried my best to help him. A friend of ours sent him over 800$ to pay his rent once. We were dedicated loyal friends to someone who we thought needed our help.
This has been going on for well over a year; a cycle of having no job, or being fired, having not enough money for food or his pets or internet, begging for money, for food, for support. But when the time comes around that he was supposed to have been kicked out, there is no mention or explanation of how he is fine, how nothing happened.
My relationship with him ended one night when he told me his ex was going to send me a message that would "ruin everything." I told him to calm down, that nothing could make me genuinely angry at another person. He closed skype and refused to reply to me over the phone.
At which point I received this in my ask box:
Naturally my first reaction was to contact this person, who I had met before.
They were offline on all messengers that I had for them (three). I went to bed. The next morning I managed to find Tristis online.
I asked her about the truth and requested she give it to me. She was very forthcoming. I asked her why she sent the ask last night.
"What ask?" She said.
So Sergey told me that his ex, who was not online at the time, was going to send me an ask. And then I received it.You may come to your own conclusions.
If you do not believe me, and you want to continue sending someone you don't know your money, online, I cannot stop you. If you want to call me names, call me a liar, you cannot phase me. I am stronger than words and stronger than insults and I have held silent about Sergey's lies for too long. I am a trusting, open person and when someone tells me things about themselves I believe them, but not this. This is too much.
I have many friends who were involved in the months I was in a relationship with Sergey. They were there for all of his lies, all of his manipulation, all of his ups and downs.Ā
If you have questions for me, ask them. I am the proof. I am standing here in my kitchen shaking with rage and trying not to vomit, and I am the proof.Ā
