if you know me no you don't

call me carda 29 they/she/it t4t mostly

[555bunnies]

Hares and rabbits are both equally beautiful creatures

[incisedwound]

second time ive been hit on on the train home from work all gross and sweaty ..... interesting

[incisedwound]

would u hit on her on the train if she smelled like 7 hours in a dish pit y/n

[late2theorgy]

heaven between my legs btw

$3 for the uncensored pics

[cardamomcloves]

man i gotta get the shit beat out of me

[blckgirlacid]

I need my weird alone time or I will explode

[friend-crow]

Genuinely kind people don't get enough credit. People seem to think that being nice is just a personality trait, but it's actually a commitment to treat people well, even when it's hard. It's not just being nice to the people you like.

It's choosing to be kind to people when you're in a bad mood, or when they're being annoying.

It's choosing to be kind to people who your friends don't like.

It's choosing to be kind to people who you don't particularly like.

It's choosing to be kind to people who you envy.

I'm not saying that you can't be a kind person and stand up for yourself, or tell someone to fuck off when they're doing something genuinely harmful, but there are a million petty reasons people use to justify treating people badly.

It is a conscious choice, made over and over, often several times a day, to treat people with kindness and respect, even when they make it hard. So appreciate the consistently kind people in your life, because they work hard to be that way, and they really don't have to.

[friend-crow]

Something that comes up when I discuss kindness with people is that people who I experience as being kind believe that they're just faking it. They don't believe it counts if you're kind to someone who you're secretly annoyed by.

But that's exactly what kindness is. It's making the effort to treat people well when you don't feel like it.

If anything it should count MORE when it's not effortless.

[jimbles-archive]

[doitforadamparrish]

when kafka said ‘you wouldn’t believe the kind of person I could become if you wanted it’ and when brontë said ‘if you ever looked at me with what I know is in you, I would be your slave’ and when Sartre said ‘if I’ve got to suffer it may as well be at your hands’

[danceundersparklinglights]

i’m going to be really honest with you guys i think the tendency to read the absolute worst possible intentions into every action you don’t agree with is getting too automatic and it’s eating you from the inside out

[tomhoppusdelonge]

my tits aren’t being bitten or sucked on atm and I thinks that’s pretty lame

[whimsifae]

the most fun a girl can have is finding parallels, noticing patterns, making connections, contemplating

[miss-nerd-alert]

[meangirlnurse]

there’s a post on tumblr about like. if you could do something to bring people a little relief, why wouldn’t you do it? which has unironically informed my practice as a nursing student and patient care tech

[meangirlnurse]

i’m glad no one made any unpleasant comments on this post that might distract from the message because that would really suck

[clownboybebop]

*street shot of zohran mamdani clad in nasty lil suit and hard hat* five months ago i was elected mayor of new york city. in that time, we have managed to COMPLETELY defeat the Staten Island Minotaur at no additional cost to the new york taxpayer

[csny]

[thesituation]

[lilyblisslys]

girl I’m so fucking bad at masturbating, I get halfway through and then I’m asking the girl I’m imagining if she wants to have the relationship conversation

[cardamomcloves]

y'know what's funny is i technically have a face reveal somewhere on this site from this weekend but i didn't post it

[gaytanic-panic]

[gaytanic-panic]

Looking at the tags and comments on this, I can say that a new divide in the transfem community has replaced the old divide of pre vs postop or transsexual vs transgender

And that divide is, do you react to this post with "lol yeah thats a p average hang out" or "how can i achieve this it seems like a far off dream"