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[cecilfckingpalmer]

anyone want my new url?

[cecilfckingpalmer]

last chance to message me for my URL?

[cecilfckingpalmer]

Oooh, can I have your new url please?

I followed u on my new blog

[cecilfckingpalmer]

What is your new URL?

following you on the new blog uwu

[cecilfckingpalmer]

if you love me then you'll ask me for my new URL uwu

[cecilfckingpalmer]

guys okay literally I said "alleged" for a reason because it did sound like there was some non-consensual stuff going on in that, yes, potentially-made-up story. then again this story might not also be true. I don't see why this person would lie and it puts a pretty bad spin on everything else, yeah? oh and this story where he flirted with and asked out a 16 y o fan (be sure to read the comments and hear about how he was flirting with two girls he thought were 16, the fan he said "I'll DO you later" to when she tried to get an autograph) uh okay so this is literally my last word on the subject before I remake my blog uwu

[cecilfckingpalmer]

Idk what I believe about that gossip site bc I have a hard time believing an abused person would talk about their abuser's "12 inch cock" or whatever it sounds like a bad fanfic????

it was kind of weird but idk I just wanted to point out the alleged stat rapist thing

[cecilfckingpalmer]

Kay so just real quick I just wanted to mention that any of those people you just listed with Frank, Gerard, Mikey, Brendon ect. they're human and everyone makes mistakes. But I sure as fuck know that all of those guys have done way more good than bad so let's not forget to mention that instead of just making them all out to be shithead assholes. Just something to keep in mind if you're going to be throwing your opinion around.

that was literally my point that even people I admire in hands I'm huge fans of make mistake and do shitty douchebag things does the good they do excuse the bad? no, just like the bad doesn't erase the good. but as fans we need to admit these things and acknowledge when people we love fuck up.

[nauticus]

friendly reminder not to support lindt this easter season, or apparently ever again, because they support autism speaks.

[glitterstimdealer]

Wowwwwwwww

[true-transtrender-deactivated20]

SIGH.

[supervengers-deactivated2014041]

can someone please explain why autism speaks is so bad?

[somethingfishyinspace]

because they’re adamant that autism is a disease that can be “cured”. They don’t have a single autistic person on their board. Autism Speaks produces advertisements, small films, ect. about what a burden autistic people are to a society. They only spend about 4% of their money on “family services.” They create a stereotype that makes it hard for actual autistic people, like myself, be heard and recognized as actually autistic. I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder before they realized that I actually showed signs of Asperger’s. They don’t actually help us. 

That’s the problem with Autism Speaks. 

[bluechirri]

(tw for violence, ableism, abuse, murder, and death)

It goes deeper than not having any autistic board members. Many of the allistics running the organization promote the horrific notion that you’re better off dead than autistic, and their influence and “activism” only supports the ideology resulting in the continued murder of autistic children and adults by their parents and caregivers.

Former Autism Speaks board member Harry Slatkin, whose wife, Laura, continues to serve on the Board of Directors, stated in an interview with Town and Country while still a board member that sometimes he hoped their autistic son David would drown in the backyard pond rather than “suffer like this all his life.” Evidencing a pattern of similarly violent rhetoric, Autism Speaks is also responsible for the 2006 PSA “Autism Every Day" in which their then Vice President states on camera that she considered putting her autistic daughter in the car and driving off a bridge, and that the only reason she refrained from doing so was because her other, non-autistic daughter would have been waiting for her at home—her autistic daughter was in the room as she made these statements. Furthermore, the producer of this PSA explicitly admitted that the film was intentionally staged to portray negative images of autistic people and their families. Only four days following the release of “Autism Every Day,” pathologist Karen McCarron smothered her autistic daughter with a garbage bag. McCarron stated that she murdered Katie because her “autism had not been improving,” had thought about killing Katie, that made an earlier brief attempt at suffocation, wanted to cure Katie, thought killing Katie would make her “complete” in heaven, and wanted to live without autism and thus had to kill Katie. Investigators found that McCarron was obsessed with different treatments for Katie. (See People v. FRANK-McCARRON, 934 NE 2d 76 - Ill: Appellate Court, 3rd Dist. 2010.) Though it is not presently possible to draw a direct connection between Autism Speaks’ PSA and Katie’s murder, this crime and dozens like it only underscore how the kind of rhetoric that Autism Speaks favors only serves to recklessly endanger the lives of autistic people.

(source article)

Autism Speaks also publicly supports the Judge Rotenberg Center, a group home for autistic and neurodivergent students that uses “treatments” like food and sleep deprivation and electric shock to try and train the residents into acting neurotypical. The center has changed states three times in an attempt to bypass regulation against abusive treatment, and their practices have resulted in the deaths of more than one student.

It’s not just an issue of Autism Speaks making it harder for us to get proper diagnoses and treatment. Autism Speaks is actively killing us.

[bijinkaitou-deactivated20221106]

Well shit.

I was eyeing up their strawberries and cream lindor the other day but this is more important than delicious chocolate.

[lookninjas]

I’m reblogging this so it doesn’t get lost in the wilds of my dash, with a note that I’m still looking into contact info for Lindt (beyond the e-mail form on their website), because  it helps to be able to tell people just why you’re boycotting their products.  Anything I find, I’ll add.

[lookninjas]

So I have yet to find any e-mail addresses for the corporate officers of Lindt, so I’m going with plan B:  their facebook page.  I’m going to post a polite note on their wall explaining why I will no longer be buying their products (and then I’m going to get hate messages from several hundred chocolate fans but anyway).  If anyone wants to back me up, that would be swell of you.

[cecilfckingpalmer]

what I'm trying to say is it's a bitter pill to swallow but the people you look up to aren't perfect and oftentimes way less perfect than you think

[cecilfckingpalmer]

- Gerard Way once told a woman he'd punch her in the face for seven bucks and a Dr Pepper - Mikey Way cheated on his wife - Frank Iero has said some straight up racist things - Pete Wentz punched a guy who criticized his wife and hoodie - he's also said and written some heinously misogynistic stuff - Davey Havok is kind of a huge asshole - Brendon Urie has said some dumb shit - Trent Reznor has also punched photographers - Billie Joe Armstrong told Steve Jobs to die - Amanda Palmer was unintentionally ableist and then responded to criticism in the worst way possible - and did that rape-y Katy Perry schtick? need I go on?

[cecilfckingpalmer]

I seriously love tumblr ahahaha - trans person makes a vagueish post saying "fuck" a cis dude who's winning awards for playing the stereotype of a trans woman - fans of said person take over that post and reblog it talking about how they want to fuck him in the sexual sense - stahp

[cecilfckingpalmer]

I'm done talking about him; it was like 5 AM and maybe I cited something I shouldn't have but idc there's other stories out there to corroborate his overstepping sexual boundaries and aside from that he's just kind of a greasy douche in general? and also I will literally attack every cis man on the planet who doesn't recognize his privilege and work against the system that enables it because otherwise they're passively or actively feeding into a system that oppresses me and kills my trans sisters on a daily basis (◕‿◕✿)

[cecilfckingpalmer]

listen okay nobody is perfect and you can be someone’s fan despite the heinous shit they’ve said and done!!!!!! but pls just acknowledge that shit okay

[actuallyilikedthaturlbetter]

What you don’t know is what everyone else knows: people cherry picked the alleged rape survivor’s quotes:

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[cecilfckingpalmer]

hey I read the whole post, yeah? and it was still statutory rape. I don't care if she initially consented. she was seventeen; he must have been 35 or older. that is not cool. and even tho she consented he made her uncomfortable throughout and that's not okay. even if she still wants others to have sex with him, if he didn't listen to her when she told him to stop or slow down, then that is seriously not okay. literally she was 17 okay even if she consented it was statutory rape and unless someone is like "I'm the OP lol it wasn't true" with convincing evidence I'm going to believe it hence why I said alleged when I wrote my post???

[cecilfckingpalmer]

staaaaahp reblogging my fucking jared leto post okay

[cecilfckingpalmer]

my OC ships: - Leah & Siri (Siah?) - Michael & Cordiel (Micord?) - Jacqui & Gerard (Gerarqui?) - Fallon & Gabriel (Fabriel/Gallon) - Pen & Sam & Linden - Hikaru & Iago* (Hiago?) - Emi & Airi (Aimi?) - Mads & Asce (Mace?) ofc not counting the parent OTPs (like the parents of my OCs) (*iago isn't my OC, he's Ven's)

[cecilfckingpalmer]

ugh I ship Fabriel so hard (the alternate ship name is Gallon okay)