Hot Take: The ABDL community is severely lacking in consent education and it shows... It's not just the men either.
Honorifics require consent. (baby, babygirl, good girl, mommy, daddy).
Babytalking to someone requires consent.
Unsolicited pics in my DMs is disgusting and violating consent.
We are part of the BDSM/kink community, and we need to get our shit together. We like to say they look down on us as a kink, but some of that (not all of it) comes from us not understanding what consent truly is.
This is my largest beef with this community. I've seen so many people who used to post, just disappear. All because of others who don't understand the above-mentioned things, or just lack basic respect.
Please remember we are all normal people on the other side of that screen. Let's make abdl a kink we can brag about being into, as silly as that is 🤭











