If I could tell young girls one thing, it would be that it’s not your responsibility or job to care and worry about a man once you’ve respectfully declined to return his feelings. Not to sound bitter but speaking from personal experience, it astounds me how men act so differently when they invest into a woman emotionally and that when a woman respectfully declines to return their feelings you come face to face with a manipulative person who makes you feel guilty for expressing your true feelings. Not saying all men act that way but I am so tired of women being guilted when they turn a man down and being treated horribly just because someone can’t understand the meaning of no.















