Blasting on Social Media
An apology is just a form of damage control. We are human we all make mistakes; but that doesn't mean the mistakes you've made, doesn't show what kind of person you TRULY are. Being human doesn't give you the right to be a piece of shit. Exploding all over social media and then back tracking with a fake apology doesn't make things right.
To the people who walked away from this pyramid scheme of a community I have nothing but respect for you. I'm sure it was a hard decision to make. You have those members who ONLY support you because you are apart of that group, who will no longer support you. You may receive backlash for stating your opinion or even guilt tripped for leaving because of it, but I truly do believe you will find a better way to grow your stream without being attached to something so toxic.
Communities are about having a safe place to vent, to make friends and network with other people. It's not about being basic bitches, like you're in high school backstabbing and tweeting all about the confidential shit that a person told you in private. I'm not sure how anyone can trust one after that but there's a lot of naive people out in the streaming community.
I get we have things said about us so we get angry. Trust me, there's a reason I am RagingBlonde. We don't stop to think on the repercussions. Hell it's the internet I don't think people believe their are repercussions for their shitty behaviour. I honestly believe this person truly thought what she said was okay, that no matter what her âcommunityâ would stand by her. Sure some did but there was a lot of pissed off people. She had to back track, put out an apology because she needed to do some serious damage control. The same shit Logan Paul had to do after posting a video of someone who committed suicide than laughed about it. He has to do damage control and issue an âapologyâ. Lets not forget that partnered streamer last year who literally slammed and bashed all female gamers. Calling us a bunch of sluts. Stating we shouldn't be gaming and we're ruining the gaming industry. He as well had to issue an apology in order to no longer be suspended from twitch.
A little story & the first time I am ever speaking about this.
I helped create TrueUltimateGamers. Lets be real for a moment; If myself and the other co-creator who walked away had of stayed. TUG would have became one of best damn communities on twitch and still kicking ass today, and the 3rd ORGINAL co-creator wouldn't have put a certain person on blast having TUG be no more.
The problem with that is greed. Unfortunately for what TUG was becoming and what I knew the plan was after the fact I walked. Not only did I walk, I boycotted it. I would not retweet a single fucking tweet with the hashtag #Tugfam because TUG stood against everything I believed in when it came to what a âcommunityâ is. TUG was all about what the streamers can do for THEM. How to get them to grow so big they could eventually start making money off it. It's wasn't about what TUG could do to help support the streamers unless they were kissing the asses of the creators and mods. Like how most communities are ran.
I left in a private manner only to have the co-creators make up a fake story about how it was too stressful on me. I had people ask me and I didn't bother to say anything and I not once bashed them or tried to make people stay clear of that âcommunityâ. You're all grown ass adults. Do your research. I just took my own stance and boycotted and moved on to focus on my own streams, but boy is it ever the start as to why I am Anti Communities and the fake shit they all stand for.
The point I'm trying to make here is true colours eventually come out. People feel because it's social media it's okay to let loose and bash, and create drama.
This all started because a senior mod of this team made a long truthful PUBLIC post as to why he left. I read it, I felt there wasn't anything wrong with what that person has said. The leader of said community even stated she didn't read it, because she has no time for drama. Not only did she have no time for drama she made sure she created a whole bunch of it. Feel free to check a twitter page where you can post your confession's anonymously about this community.
I get it, she's human but what do you think happens to CEO/President's who royally fuck up in their line of business? Are they allowed to be âjust human?â No. They are a leader, they are placed on a higher pedestal whether they fucking like it or not. So maybe this person should work on being a better person, maybe surround herself with less toxic people. I don't like two faced, fake ass people. It is my BIGGEST pet peeve in real life and it's unfortunate that it's everywhere including in streaming communities. This is why I don't hide behind an alias and I speak my mind. Sometimes I am tactful when I do it, other times I'm a horrendous bitch. I know this. But I owe it to myself to be a better person, for myself, for my trainwreckers and for people who read and look up to me. This is why I have not once mentioned the name of this person nor this community.
All I can say is, if you believe in something and someone truly has done wrong towards that thing you believe in. Don't be an idiot, walk away. You don't even have to make an announcement for people to know if you're scared of repercussions, just do it. There are plenty of other communities out there that are less toxic and better. I don't even believe you need to be in a community to grow your stream. You can do it on your own by networking properly. If you are looking for a community feel free to send me an email and I'll send a list of actual communities that aren't toxic.
Twitch as a whole has amazing people, but there is also a lot of shitty people as well. Open your eyes, pay attention to details and have better standards for yourself. Communities are not a quick grab to fame. You still have to grind and work hard for everything you want. Just don't get lost in branding yourself to them and lose yourself.
I would also like to point out I am not an ex member of the community which I spoke about. Never have I joined them, befriended them or anything. I wish everyone the best in this situation no matter what. Do better people, because if you're a leader of one of the biggest communities on twitch and you have a breakdown like this and let your emotions get to you. It's unacceptable.
If anyone ever feels like they need to talk, vent or anything. My DM's are open and my email is available. Don't worry, I'm not about throwing out privacy issues and making your stuff public. ;).














