Bear

It's getting cold my dear, won't you come inside?

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Hello everyone, welcome to my blog! My name is Bear, I nap more then I should, I wish it was autumn all year round, and I love rainy days ♡

I am a caregiver and I have four (4) little cubs of my own! I am very proud of them and I could not be more grateful. This blog is safe for all age regressors, system littles, and caregivers alike. Weather I am a community caregiver or some kind of babysitter, I am always here. I hope my blog is seen as something familiar. Someplace comfortable and safe.

(By PotatoLord on picrew, please do not repost because the image above is me. thank you) This is what I look like! and some stuff i'm interested in! Favorite bands, drinks, books, and my identities!

Some random things about me

I love reptiles, I really enjoy books which is ironic because I'm dyslexic, I've been learning American Sign Language for six (6) months, I own a bass but can't play it, and I like to scrapbook.

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I learned recently my littlest loves stitch! We’ve been looking around and so far we got slippers, a headband, and socks. She’s also been wanting a magic mixie for over a year and I was finally able to get one! We ended up getting the blue one and she loves it. She either carries it everywhere or keeps it in her pocket. She’s becoming a lot more comfortable being herself.

I’m so proud of her 💙

- Bear

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Hey hey!! It’s Bear and I cannot express how light I feel. Im real, and so are they. I love them and I love all of you. I know this is valuable but you and my family have healed something in me.

We’re going to make it out this. I promise <3

-Bear

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Hello lovely people of the internet, it’s been a long long time. Almost over two years since I left and I’ve learned a lot about myself and my health.

I wanted to start by saying, Thank you so much for the couple months you followed me and put your trust in me. Running this tumblr back In 2022 helped me heal so much and I met so so many lovely people. This account grew faster then I was ever expecting and all the support meant and still means the world to me.

Though I know I don’t need to, I would like to explain why I disappeared. Truth be told, I started slowly acknowledging something I’ve been ignoring for a long time. Sometimes I wake up and I feel like a completely different person. I feel like I’m dreaming and I forget important everyday things. At the time of this account I was obsessed with the idea of helping other abuse survivors to have a place with no judgement and care. I felt close to fatherhood, cold weather, folk music, and many more behaviors that didn’t feel what I knew to be me.

I have different parts in my brain making up one whole system. One of those parts happens to be an older gentleman named Bear. The issue was he wasn’t always present and me, Eli, wasn’t prepared to run this account the way he did. When I didn’t feel in the right “headspace” I quickly got emotionally burnt out and felt uncertain in my advice to people. It just wasn’t ‘my’ calling.

I’m still figuring out who me and my parts are. Coming to terms with this disorder and the causes behind it have been the most difficult mental experience of my life.

My partner has been helping a lot with getting to know other parts of myself and helping me remember more.

So what does this mean for the future? Bear may return soon and this account will be a space for Bear, child alters, and friends along the way. Sadly this account will no longer be a community caregiver account in the age regression community but a space for Bear and the little ones to live their lives and have fun together.

Thank you so much for reading and for everything you’ve done for me and us.

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Oh how I miss the bright sun and the busy bees

-Bear

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Hello friends..!

Hello everyone, it's Bear! Im back and I wanted to apologies for my absence. A lot of stress in my personal life has taken a tool on my mental health. Because of this I have neglected my responsivities as a caregiver and left you and my littles ones in the dark. For awhile logging on to Tumblr made me feel guilty because things just kept pilling and pilling up. I wasn't in the best health and couldn't bring myself to respond to kiddos asking for advice so I would just log right back off.

Though my life hasn't gotten that much easier I miss you all so so much. I want to be able to talk with you and make things for you again. I just have to figure out a way that works for me. I'm going to start by clearing my asks box completely and instead of having it always open, having it open one week then closed the next.

I would love to hear how you guys have been doing! What you been up to, any news in the community I might have missed. Anything.

I miss you

-Bear

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Hey, new follower here! Not to be rude, but I really don't know what your blog is about:"") I'm just following for the cute/kawaii pictures, but do you have a specific aesthetic? Is your blog about a specific topic? Is it about childhood memories and safe for work cute stuff?

Warning! this post may be a bit dark

Hai friend! Thank you so much for joining me on this lovely evening. I guess it is a bit difficult to know what my blog is about since I changed my bio (I'll fix that soon!)

Well, describing my blog is a bit difficult. In a sense I am a caregiver blog. I give advice, I post cute outfit boards targeted towards age regressors and all littles alike, I comfort those who just need a friend, and I tell comforting stories! But being a caregiver isn't all what this blog is about. My goal is to provide a sense of comfort and warmth to kids that never really got to be kids. I, like so many others in this community had a rough up bringing. I never knew when the next bad thing was going to happen, I never had a sense of stability or safety. I know there are more people like me and I just want them to feel less alone. To be able to come to someone and know they won't be judge, that they are safe and will be treated with nothing but love and respect. Though the reason for my blog is a sad one I try to keep the vibes here as cozy as possible!

To answer your other question, the aesthetic im going for is like a warm day at Grandma's house with tea and fresh cookies. Haha something like that.

-Bear

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hello Bear!

i was brave enough to start posting on my blog, but an icky account already interacted with me and now i feel nervous again 😭

Hello dear Zelda. Posting online takes a lot of courage, that was very brave of you. I am so so sorry adult accounts are bothering you. It isn't okay in the slightest. It has become such a huge problem on the age regression side of tumblr. It has nothing to do with sweet babies like you. Some people don't understand how uncomfortable and dangerous it is for kiddos and it is not your responsibility to deal with them. You are all wonderful kiddos just trying to have fun and share your interests with the world. If is isn't too much, Dm the accounts that are bothering you kiddo. Though it might not help, talking and explaining to those adults how unsafe it is has helped them understand in the past. I hope this problem will subside

-Bear

(I am so so sorry i've been absent! I hope you are well my dear)

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The yuckies keep interacting with me Papa, and I was so smol and baby too. I feel so awful, I wish they'd leave me alone. I just wish they'd stop, I tried putting dni banners on every post, even the past ones, and they still wont stop. I dont understand why someone would forcibly expose someone to something like that, especially a minor. Its so gross. Why do they have to make my safe space not safe. I just want to curl up and cry.

Sorry for venting, my mama is asleep and Im very upset.

Hello little one, thank you for talking to me about this. I am so so sorry adult accounts keep interacting with you. That's not fair and it isn't right. There are some not so nice people in this world and some break boundaries they have no right or justifiable reason to break. None of it is your fault, you deserve a safe environment where you can just be a kid and play. Is there a friend you trust that could possibly be a mod for your account? So they could be the one to block and delete those nasty accounts for you.

I'll go threw your account personally and contact any nsfw accounts I see interacting with you. Though it may not help I will do what I can to try to keep them away. I've got your back luv bug. Keep your chin up! ♡♡♡♡

-Bear

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hi Bear,

i am really stressed and scared! my mom is in the hospital and i have had to be home alone most of the day🥺 i am sick with a chronic illness and i also have my period rn, so i feel very icky but i gotta fend for myself, and i'm worried about my mom! it's been a rlly hard day😭 i hope my mom can come home tomorrow but idk yet if she can🥺 i've been trying to distract myself but it's hard, especially at nighttime when my anxiety gets worse anyway :c do you have any advice about how i could try to feel better?

Oh dear, you poor baby. That is a lot to deal with for anyone. I am so sorry things are very stressful for you right now. I hope your mom makes a fast recovery!

It can be really difficult to distract yourself from something so worrying and being sick on top of having to fend for yourself must be exhausting. I know it sounds silly but deep breaths. Focus on your breathing and try to clear your mind even if it's just for a minute. Also stick with familiar things. Stay close to your favorite shows, foods, youtubers, music, anything and everything that brings you comfort. Keeping famiiar at a time like this can help prevent more stress. Stress not only effects the mind but your body as well so please try to keep yourself fed and get the sleep you need if you can.

And the most important thing, please do no isolate yourself. Talk with your friends, check in with family, video call, play social games. You don't have to face the stressful things in life alone.

If you need anything else please tell me. I'd love an update if you're comfortable. I hope all ends well and you and your lovely mother feel better soon.

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🐘Cloudy skies and cozy babies❄

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Hello, Bear! I'm not sure if you've been asked this before but what is/are some of your favourite books? Thank you!

Hello wonderful friend! I am so happy you asked this! I love talking about books :>

So my favorite book is called "The Little Prince" by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. It is a story about never losing touch with your inner child and childhood dreams. It was written in the 40s so it's a difficult read but totally worth it! There is also a movie on Netflix with the same name!

My next favorite book is "Solitaire" By Alice Oseman. This book got me through some of the worst times of my life. The main character is very mentally ill and it's a story about her learning to connect with people. That she really isn't a horrible person that she thinks she is and deserves love just like everyone else. It is a really sad read but it does such a good job at explaining how mental illness can affect the person that has it and the people around them.

Those mare my favorite novels but as a bonus my favorite comic book is the Scott Pilgrim series!

Thank you again for the question!

-Bear

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Hi! Please ignore this if you don't want to answer!

I was wondering if you had any tips or suggestions for finding a caregiver/someone to talk with when little on Tumblr (or somewhere else). I can't seem to be little without talking with someone but I have no idea how to even start!

Thank you! Please feel free to ingore!

Hello luv bug! That is a toughie but I will try my best to answer!

There are only a handful of daycare/community caregiver blogs on Tumblr but I found more daycare accounts over on Instagram!

As far as your own caregiver I would advise finding one around your big age. Try avoid searching things like "looking for a little" Or "little needed" because you may run into some yucky stuff. Instead keep an eye on the "sfw caregiver" tag and see if anyone is looking for a kiddo! Another option could be making a google forum where caregivers can fill out some information about themselves and learn a bit about you. Make sure to get to know them before asking them to be your CG just incase they aren't the right fit.

Please, Please, please be careful my darling. Though I have met so many amazing carers there are always bad apples and some people may have ill intentions. If they ever give you a bad feeling don't ignore it. Trust your gut and be safe.

I hope this helped! Don't be afraid to send another ask if you have anymore questions! Much love friend!

-Bear

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Hihi! It's Freddie who asked for da sharkie moodboard!

Thank you lots 'n lots for making it!! It so perfect n made me very very happy!!

Wanna say I'm very proud of you for closing requests when you needed to, that very brave n I hope you okay! 💕💞✨

Hello my dear, I am very happy you liked your board. It made me realize how much I love lemon sharks!

Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. I really appreciate you kiddo. I hope you have been eating well and getting all the rest you need💙🌔💕

-Bear

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☁Some fluffy friends to keep you warm this chilly afternoon💙

(This includes but not limited to; k!nk of any kind, harm blogs, ED blogs even if pro recovery, gore blogs, and any form of nsfw)

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I am glad you’re able to set a boundary for the requests thing :) good job! Also I love the new winter theme :0

Thank you, thank you, thank you, friend! I really appreciate that.

It wasn't an easy decision and I put it off for awhile. When I did post about it I felt rather sick. I started to think I made the wrong choice but the news was taken mostly well! I was all worried for nothing (as usual haha ( ´ ▽ ` ; )

Also, thank you! I am so excited to do more winter themed things!

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Little preschool Elmo❤