Sass And Sex

I’m pushing 40, single and finding joy in it, trying to find the joy and beauty in my own body, and just being a sassy badass with a dirty mind and a great toy collection! This blog is a way for me to let out my naughty side and connect from a distance. While I try not to post anything too "reportable," please leave if you're under 18, as this is definitely NSFW (at least in spirit).

[biwife-jenn]

[217truckdrivinman]

[iamwizzzzz]

[violetsoblue]

[sweetmelody39]

[charc8613]

Could someone please explain to me why in the ACTUAL fuck dating in 2026 is so fucking difficult? I’m smart, funny (except of course when I’m trying to be), financially stable, great career, with pretty eyes and a rack that just won’t quit! If all these guys are “dating with intention” and “looking for someone real,” I’m right fucking here. Jesus H Roosevelt Christ, these douches are too damn much. Sorry that my total package comes with extra weight and an advanced degree that scares you.

Oh wait, actually, NOT SORRY AT ALL!

I might be fat but I’m healthy and strong. I have an incredible and supportive family, a lovely home, a badass career, fantastic friends, my passport at the ready, and a collection of toys that get the job done 100% of the time, which is frankly more than I can say for the men I’ve encountered so far!

So yeah…

Fuck right the hell off with your fatphobic body-shaming BS and your fragile masculinity and enjoy your conversations with bots and dates with women of zero substance. Sucks to be you 🖕🏻✌🏻

[justme--48]

Yup pretty much

[infinitelyhisgirl]

∞

[curseofthebbc-deactivated202507]

The smarter and weirder she is the more brains you have to fuck out.

[justme--48]

I just need to know 😁🤔

[kiddmandu1]

[busyyetbored]

[rinsknifetbd-deactivated2018061]

Girls with thick thighs

Pros:  Extra squishy Super great pillow Looking really good in skirts,dresses, shorts etc. They.Jiggle. Soft Could crush a watermelon literally anything else

Cons: None. They’re perfect

[blxck-coffee-dad]

All the really beautiful fat women on your blog make it feel easier for me to love myself bc I’ve never really seen women with my body type get to be sexual and beautiful without being a weird fetish somehow and I just really appreciate it💖💕

[42ds]

This.

Fat women are more than a fetish. We're sexy, sexual, and just as desirable as any other body type.

It's taken me a really long time to realize that, and this community has been vital in the process.

So my thanks to every one of my followers (and specific thanks to @blxck-coffee-dad on this one) for supporting promoting the fact that fat women are, well, women, just like any other body type.

[stalgivc]

[manincaffeine]

The romanticism of undressing someone and seeing their curves and edges and birthmarks and scars and moles and freckles and kissing every single one of them like you’re thanking their body for existing, for choosing to be seen by you.

[bass-alien]

just want handsy cuddles with a side of making out rn