MY TRANSPHOBIC FUCKING MOM PMO SO MUCH SOMETIMES, OMFG
I was getting my hair cut and my mom is good friends with my hair dresser, and I friends with said hair dresser's kid. I'm pretty sure she's nonbionary, tho I'm not entirely sure, but they're Trans.
And my hair dresser started saying some shit like "I will physically punch u if u go down her road" and ik she ment it as a joke, but it still angered me so much as someone who is transmasc and it angered me on behalf of that friend, like, ik it's ur step kid, but it's still ur kid.
Then when me and my mom got into the car, my mom started saying some shit like "oh, Trans ppl are so delusional. It's wrong to be Trans. It's evil to be Trans. Ur not having thought like that, right? U know ur a girl? Like, if I said i identify as black, does that make me black? If I said I identify as a boy, does that make me a boy? No, it's wrong", like, bitch???!?!? And then she wants to say some shit like "I'm not transphobic, but being Trans is wrong. Opinion isn't fact" I wanted to THROTTLE that bitch.
Like, while i have shit talked my mom before on here, I do love her bc she is my mom and she does at least try to come from a good place (even tho she's a hypocritical little bitch, but still).
And of course I said no when she asked if I identify as a man. Like, I'm not gonna come out to my mom FUCK NO.
I did correct her tho, that her saying "if I say I identify as black, does that make me black" that that's actually transcultural, but I mean, ig that isn't really important.
Like, she says she isn't transphobic, but she says that being Trans shouldn't be accepted and that my generation is being "desensitized" to accept this kinda stuff, like, woman, my generation is trying to get Trans ppl the same fucking rights as non-trans ppl and is trying to get lgbtqia in general the same rights as regular human beings bc they've been oppressed for so long and abused. Motherfucker, this is a GOOD THING.
And the funny thing is, she's friends with my sister-in-law's mom and her mom's partner. THEYRE FUCKING LESBIANS. But then again, they're those pick me lesbians who say theyre "not like other gays" if u know what im talking abt, so ig they dont fuckin count.
I love her and I OH SO FUCKING DESPERATELY want her to accept the community, but OMFG, THAT BITCH NEEDS A DAMN REALITY CHECK SHE PMO SOOOOOOOOO MUUUUUUUUUUCH
And that's the sad thing is bc her saying this only reminds me of how much she's gonna reject me when she finds out I'm transmasc, bc she's gonna find out eventually.
And I really don't wanna lose my relationship with her bci do love her,but apart of me wonders if it's best that I distance myself and leave her estranged in the future bc the more I hear her say things like this, the more I honestly wanna run from home.
