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all im chasing is freedom in all aspects of life

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No one really knows. We are all learning

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BIG payoff

Debt blog

When I first started on this journey, which was when I officially graduated in May of 2015 from a small school in Misery. No that isn’t a typo but okay I meant Missouri. Bolivar, Missouri to be exact lol but most schools give a new graduate about 6 months to find a job and start paying them back. In a perfect world. That would have sufficed but the way life works...things dont go according to plan sometimes (most times). So fast forward to me moving back home from Missouri after 3 years. I remember coming home and working for my pops job. Btw thanks for the opportunity dad.. and then sitting in his office with aggressive head aches (migraines) and my body just going through it because of the stresses of trying to figure out how the hell I would pay off $22,231.76 making only $8 an hour. Btw never take out school loans unless you look at the job outlook post grad. I went through the end of 2015 trying to figure out everything about loans and how I could possibly get help. Big research! Of course I looked into student loan forgiveness programs. Figured out early that there were a lot of scams because as I would find out. It should be free. So I filled out the paperwork for FREE with my loan officers, Great Lakes. I was eventually approved at a rate of pay at $0.00. All I needed to send was my check stubs. It was based on my income at the moment so not making much worked to my favor. They would basically help pay my subsidized loans. That at least stopped some of the interest but hey it was better than nothing.. I recall a time when I went to my good friend Vic’s crib after work one day and just going through it and trying to figure out how to tackle this dilemma. He of course gave me words of encouragement but told me that I live at home so this debt wasn’t too bad so I should try to put as much money as I can into that debt and pay it off quick. He said I should just put the money into the loans with my eyes closed. Btw I’m the type that is a believer but man I was extremely hesitant at first but those words sparked something in my head. I had like a eureka moment. I had about maybe $5000 in my checking account. I could stand to lose a grand so that same day I payed $1200 into one of my loans. I had about 5 loans. 3 subsidized (government helps pay some) and the other 2 were unsubsidized (you’re basically on your own) Not going to lie that was one of the hardest things I might have ever done financially because I’ve never had much money due to school and playing sports in college but I blindly gave the loan sharks my money. Yes that is what I call them haha so that day 3/8/2016 I made the first payment. I would make a commitment to myself to try to pay $1000 a month into one of my loans starting with the Un subsidized ones since they were accruing interest the fastest. It was a long and very stressful situation but my mentality was since I put myself in this hole, I will dig myself out of it by any means. Of course I would end up getting numerous raises working for my pops company as my role increased, which helped tremendously. It took me about 1 year and 8 months to pay it off in full. It was a struggle and that bus ride was strenuous but I’m glad I got it done earlier than later. My last official payment was 11/22/2017. The last month in November I made 2 payments. About $2,500. Yeah I was ready to be free. That experience taught me a lot about myself and what I was willing to do to get rid of those chains called loans. I missed out on potential relationships, going out with friends, traveling often, buying designer clothes and materials, and just experiences I would have had if I wasn’t Mr Penny Hoarder. That experience was one I will never forget but I’m glad I had it. It truly humbled me and made me realize what’s really important. Family and close friends. They really kept me sane through that time and not to sound mushy. I’m extremely thankful for their lives. If anyone reading this has any questions just know there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and I will gladly help.

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Dude is mad funny

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If you know why the number 81 has Kobe and Jalen staring at each other like this then you know why this is utterly hilarious

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Jalen is a great sport! Money JR

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Confessions of a young man that's never been in love

I've always heard about this word called love. Always wondered am I too young for love or will I ever be in love or when will I know when I'm in love? I feel like everybody is infatuated with the word love and most times they don't understand it. It takes a lot of time and hard work to be in love to me but I feel like people think they have been in love before but can they call that love if it isn't there anymore? People think being in love is always being happy but to me they fail to realise that it can be lonesome at times and most days it's just hard. maybe that's why I've never been in love or can't seem to grasp the concept of giving a person my all knowing they could screw me over. Makes sense because I hate taking risks I'm not 100% sure of. I guess that's just my insecurity that hopefully I will get over. I am a hopeless romantic at heart but this cruel world has frozen my heart to sweet words or beautiful looks. I look more for substance but I am human so at times I get superficial

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"You are only as great as you think you are."