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A lot of men don't realize that when women speak to them, we are speaking down to them. Whether a woman is consciously aware of it or not, she knows she is speaking to a lesser creature who does not think rationally and who is prone to emotional outbursts. So she speaks to him like a baby, and he thinks that the women's dumbed-down speech is proof of their inferiority, when in fact they are only speaking to a reflection of their own lack of intellctual capacity.

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Female socialization is a process of psychologically constraining and breaking girls—otherwise known as "grooming"—to create a class of compliant victims. Across history, this breaking has including so-called "beauty practices" like female genital mutilation and foot binding, as well as the ever-popular child sexual abuse. Femininity is really just the traumatized psyche displaying acquiescence. In its essence, it is ritualized submission.

-Lierre Keith, "The Girls and the Grasses" in Female Erasure

jetix

2026-04-03

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Whoops, looks like you expected something from me. Oh well, you fucked up

itmous83

hi. adachi rei.

#utau #kasane teto #adachi rei

pussyt0es-deactivated20201216

reblog if you enjoy flippantly dehumanizing men and putting women on a pedastal with absolutely no criteria

jo--2004

Via @vvevveve

flamefrostfury

"Feminists treat femininity as something weak or bad or inferior! That's misogyny!"

Darling, you're completely missing the point.

It's not "evil feminazis treat femininity as inferior". Patriarchy collected 'inferior' attributes — more precisely, 'attributes which are usually related to being submissive rather than being dominant, being passive rather than being assertive, being a slaver rather than being a master, and therefore useful tools for controlling and belittling others' — and labeled them as feminine.

Skirts, high heels, long hair, and wearing makeup are not inherently feminine. Being petite or slender or curvy isn't inherently feminine. Being quiet and gentle and docile isn't inherently feminine. These things are the reins that help men control and domesticate women as they like. 'Feminine' clothes and makeups restrain women from physically using their body freely; 'feminine' body requires women to go through various things which are dangerously unhealthy or completely unnecessary; women being quiet, submissive and passive make them easier targets for men to control; etc etc. These kinds of 'femininity' are the signs of a slave.

And misogynists say that feminists who criticize these things are misogynistic for talking bad about femininity and tomboys who don't want these things are actually trans or non-bi or genderfluid or whatever other bullshit for refusing femininity.

Fuck it, really.

Those things don't define being female. Not wanting those things doesn't mean we refuse to be female or secretly want to be male. That means we want to be human. Not a collective concept of frilly clothes and makeups and slender, hairless body and submission but fucking human.

This is why Korean radical feminists started 'off the corset' movement which now evolved into 6b4t. Lipstick feminists and choice feminists still have a long way to follow.

#radical feminism #gender abolition