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It's because rape & conquer is a game to men, and a raped daughter reminds them of their "loss" in the game. They shame, or kill, these girls for the same reason they scream at the players when their team loses in any sport: "How dare you make ME look bad? How dare you make US look like losers?"
“errrmm why are you just saying BLACK lives matter when ALL lives matter?!” we hear bullshit like that, and we know it’s just a bigot whining about seeing a minority group form a movement about fighting systemic racism and liberating black people from institutional injustices they’ve faced at the hands of white people for centuries.
but if you say: “feminism is about fighting the patriarchy and liberating females from the oppression they’ve faced at the hands of males for centuries” you get: “noooo!! 😤 feminism is for EVERYBODY 🤗 it’s about EQUALITY 🥰✨ why aren’t you talking about MEN too!? you’re being MEAN!! 😖”
and that’s seen as like…#woke and based for some reason. like do they not realize? do they not see the irony? you’re the “but ALL lives matter—“ people. it’s pretty nasty.
you can't girlboss your way out of the humiliation of performing femininity. miniskirts are supposed to humble you by having you stay alert to them riding up and exposing you. high heels are supposed to humble you by having you move carefully, wary of twisting an ankle (or stumbling and exposing yourself). make-up is supposed to humble you by having you control your feeding and resting habits, lest you smudge it. there's sexualization imbedded in them. they are SUPPOSED to embarrass you, because the ultimate titillation is the assertion of control over you. you can't desex them.
My sincere belief is that allowing men to 1. hold power, and 2. maintain significant numbers is an active disservice to all women.
It is our moral obligation to lessen male numbers, keep them from forming groups and solidarity, and exclude them from holding positions of authority.
i'm so tired of people excusing the fact that women somehow aren't responsible for patriarchy because they are. Yes, men are the main perpetrators but it only keeps happening because women continue to enable this type of behavior. How many times do you see mothers forcing their daughters/teenage girls to 'cover up' so that their male partner doesn't leave them for their daughter? Or what about all the times women force their toddlers into beauty pagents/dance shows where they're completely aware the main audience for this type of show is older men??? Not even to mention women who force beauty standards on their daughters, like making them shave their legs, put on makeup, extreme diets the moment they hit puberty and begin developing like a human being. There's so much more I could mention but that's at the top of my mind.
Obviously you can't deny that these beauty standards were set by men, but so many women participate and enable them. Stop blaming this on 'female socialization' and 'grooming by the patriarchy'. women today have ENDLESS many resources to learn how to not be abusive towards their daughters. These women have the option to get their daughters into a safer environment but they don't.
“i lost everything but i still believe in god” i really hate that about religion. the worst travesties can happen to you and you’re still expected to worship a god who allegedly is in control of everything and therefore let that happen to you. let that sink in. that’s why i fucking hate religion. these stupid ass beliefs ask you to abandon critical thinking and accept things as they are. it’s absolutely fucking disgusting.
and i’m honestly starting to get grossed out having religious friends i can’t lie and i don’t know what to do.
On that note of permission: you don't need to convince men to believe you. You don't need to debate them. They are not the omnipotent judges of what is Correct or Incorrect. Your beliefs do not need to pass through their approval before you're allowed to believe them. This is another part of female socialization, the teaching that we must engage all debate and convince every male to agree with us before our opinions and experiences are valid. You do not need to prove anything to them.
Most of the "relief" I see from women "finding out they're nonbinary" is just their identity giving them enough confidence to not fall victim to societies beauty standards. No, you don't have to identify as some secret third thing to show human traits.
Debunking Myths About Prostitution
Myth 1: Regulation/Legalization makes prostitution safe
If that would be the case it would be safe or safer in countries where it is already legalized but it isn't. Murder rates are higher in countries that have legalized prostitution than in those following the Nordic Model. For most women, proving rape is already difficult; for prostituted women, it is even harder. Since sex is considered their service, Johns face little risk of consequences, allowing violence against them to persist as they know they have nothing to worry about.
Read more in these articles:
MYTH: Regulation makes prostitution safe
MYTH: Legalisation makes prostitution safe
FACT: Prostitution is inherently violent
Myth 2: Johns respect the women they buy sex from
In a society where women are still judged for their sexual behavior and words like 'slut' and 'whore' are widely used as slurs against them, expecting Johns to respect prostituted women is highly naive. Most prostituted women have experienced violence while in prostitution, and numerous studies confirm this.
Check out John forums yourself to see what they really think about prostituted women—it will open your eyes. They don’t speak kindly about them, they don’t respect them, and they dehumanize them.
Read more in these articles:
MYTH: Punters respect the women they buy
The Case for Using John Forums as Evidence Against the Sex Trade
Check put this website for citations of German, Austrian and Swiss sex buyers from the years of legalized sex buying – almost exclusively concerning legal prostitution establishments: https://dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/menu/
Studies:
Violence by clients towards female prostitutes in different work settings: questionnaire survey
Prostitute homicides: a descriptive study
Prostitution in Five Countries: Violence and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
Prostitution and Trafficking in Nine Countries
Prostitution in Vancouver: violence and the colonization of First Nations women
Posttraumatic stress disorders in prostitutes: Results of a study in Hamburg in the context of an international project
Men who pay for sex in Germany and what they teach us about the failure of legal prostitution: a 6-country report on the sex trade from the perspective of the socially invisible 'freiers'
Posttraumatic stress disorder among female street-based sex workers in the greater Sydney area, Australia
Cumulative Violence and PTSD Symptom Severity Among Urban Street-Based Female Sex Workers
Myth 3: The Nordic Model is more dangerous for prostituted women than decriminalization
Murders of prostituted women are lower in countries that have adopted the Nordic Model. Furthermore, in these countries, prostituted women are not punished and can call the police on Johns, who are always held accountable. As a result, Johns are more likely to behave better to avoid being reported.
Read more in these articles:
MYTH: The Nordic Model is more dangerous for sex workers than decriminalisation
FACT: Decriminalising prostitution increases human trafficking
FACT: Buying sex makes men more prone to violence against women
Myths and misinformation about the Nordic Model (Booklet - PDF)
Myth 4: Legalizing Prostitution Reduces the Stigma
If that were the case, it would have happened in countries where prostitution is legalized, but that has never occurred. I live in Germany, where it has been allowed since 1927 and widely recognized and regulated legally since 2002, yet the stigma remains almost as high as it was decades ago.
Read more in this article:
MYTH: Legalising Prostitution Reduces the Stigma
Myth 5: Prostitution is the oldest profession
Evidence shows that hunting, farming, and toolmaking date back to around 10,000-12,000 years ago, long before prostitution, which became documented in ancient civilizations like Mesopotamia (around 2,000 BCE). Therefore, basic survival activities came first.
Read more in this article:
MYTH: Prostitution is the oldest profession
Myth 6: If you make prostitution or buying sex illegal Prostitution will go underground.
The argument that criminalizing the purchase of sex will drive it “underground” is not based on any evidence. On the contrary, in Sweden and Norway—where the purchase of sex has been criminalized—the number of men buying sex has declined. Therefore, prostitution on the whole has declined.
Germany where Prostitution is legalized has a legal market and an illegal market, and both have grown. According to the Federal Statistical Office, there were about 32,300 registered prostitutes in Germany at the end of 2024. However researchers assume that the number of unregistered prostitutes ranges from 200,000 to 400,000 at the low end to up to 1 million.
“Underground” is another word for “indoor,” “out of sight,” or “below the law.” Because the very nature of prostitution requires that it be visible to the clients who are seeking women for purchase, it is not possible for it to go so far underground that it can no longer be detected. If the men who purchase sex are able to find the prostituted women, then trained police can surely locate the activity and arrest the johns.
Every time women adapt in order to overcome the strength disparity between us and men as a way to defend ourselves in a worst case scenario or avoid danger altogether... That adaptation comes to be seen as a sign of cowardice by men.
Poison being a "woman's weapon" in a disparaging sense. Self defense laws expecting people to act in ways that are only really accessible to men and women who choose to strike at a later time being demonized. Gossiping to turn the community against him and seek refuge that way (plus making sure no other woman is blindsided by his behavior) being seen as trashy.
More modernly, leaving someone over text being considered a terrible and inconsiderate thing. I remember this being a plot point in so many cartoons and tv series for tweens growing up. It's so insidious to brainwash girls into believing they owe someone, usually a guy, a "dignified breakup" when that has so often gotten women killed. I dunno, men trying to socially punish women for not playing their honor games when they've never acted honorably towards us has been pissing me off as of late.
If you're able to understand why it's bad and dehumanizing to call any other marginalized group an animal-based insult, then you are fully capable of understanding why using "bitch" as an insult is sexist.
awww you can’t donate your sperm??🥺 I’m sorry that must be so hard. As a woman I have never faced any discrimination regarding reproductive health.
There's no way that sperm banks won't take sperm from a man under 5'9". I'm sorry, I just don't believe that. That's ridiculous and fake.
I just looked it up and the Internet says you have to be at least 5'5" and a normal BMI. I don't think I've met many adult men under 5'5". He's exaggerating because he's desperate to be a victim, ew.
Even if the requirement was as exaggerated as he claimed, surrogates also have extremely strict guidelines while also having to put significantly more work into it. Also height genetics are not strictly hereditary, there will always be short people even if on average humanity is getting taller. Saying this as a miniature gnome 🙂↕️🔺
also you can just have sex and impregnate a woman who loves you. most humans aren’t born via sperm bank
ok anyways what do u think of lesboys? i can't even find one definition for them (whether they're transmascs identifying as lesbians despite saying they're men, lesbian transfemmes still kind of identifying as a male, intersex people who aren't xx but are attracted exlusively to women, or multigender people who only experience attraction to women) but I keep seeing posts saying that they're valid and I'm confused-
from my understanding, it refers to female homosexuals who identify as non-binary or as boys or as transmasc. I really don't care if masculine lesbians want to playfully refer to themselves as boys, that's nothing new. and they are female homosexuals, so yes they are valid as lesbians. but I don't like when women who don't identify as women but still identify as lesbians try to police and compel other lesbian's speech. for example, not letting us say that lesbians are women, or that women get periods, or saying that lesbians are attracted to women. so it doesn't strike me as particularly problematic yet, but I'm sure we'll get there. and if women are calling themselves lesboys, it's only a matter of time til the "butch transbians" start calling themselves that too.