Appreciate the CHANGE

Nobody's got it figured out

[auntymurda]

tumblr will never count as social media to me. This shit a secret hideout and we just all happen to see each others thoughts

[uncertainlys]

at least theres still listening to music while staring at the ceiling

[childofeuphoria7]

I need to do this soon again. It's been a while

[theambitiouswoman]

If you hang out with a…

Disciplined person, you’ll start respecting structure

Insecure person, you’ll start second-guessing yourself

Adventurous person, you’ll crave new experiences

Victim minded person, you’ll start blaming instead of growing

Abundant person, you’ll stop thinking in limits

Jealous person, you’ll start resenting your blessings

High value woman, you’ll raise your standards without apologo

Chaotic person, you’ll feel like peace is boring

Healed person, you’ll see how emotionally mature life can be

Procrastinator, you’ll normalize delay over progress

Ambitious person, you’ll start dreaming bigger

Judgmental person, you’ll fear being fully yourself

Playful person, you’ll learn to soften and enjoy the moment

Energy is contagious

Habits are contagious

Mindsets are contagious

Doesn’t matter how x you think you are because if you were, you wouldn’t make decisions or choose people that don’t align

You become who you’re around even when you don’t notice it

[empressarchives]

You really do have to be this picky about who you keep yourself around. The people in your environment can change the trajectory of your life DRASTICALLY, for better or worse.

[childofeuphoria7]

I want to write a poem for you, about you.

I want to string words together so you know I love you too.

I want a symphony to be felt by you through my poem.

I want you to know that you're my home.

I won't write a poem for you about you.

Because what words do I use to compare your presence to the beauty of formed crystals around my blades like morning dew?

How do I materialise what can't even be touched?

Who will listen to a brave girl who believes what she's always felt in her gut?

Would you even care about what comes out of her mouth?

Would you lift her up and make sure that things never go South?

So I didn't write a poem for you about you,

But just know that I really do love you too.

[fromdarzaitoleeza]

Nizar qabbani/ Rumi

[ruinedchildhood]

[cottageaesthetic]

[eastcoast-envy]

Reminder that this blog stands with Palestine and Ukraine, and if you have a problem with that, leave. Innocent people are losing their lives and their homes. Not even children are safe. And if you condone the killing of children... I have nothing to say to you. 🇵🇸🇺🇦

[whateveripostiattract]

I love my brand new home. I feel safe and comfortable living there.

[quotemadness]

It’s better to be your genuine self, and have fewer of the right kinds of people in your life, than it is to surround yourself with those who only accept you as long as you conform to their idea of who you should be.

Zero Dean

[jus4bodhi]

[quotefeeling]

“Whoever you are, or whatever it is that you do, when you really want something, it’s because that desire originated in the soul of the universe. It’s your mission on earth.”

— Paulo Coelho

[quotemadness]

The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life, and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in you too. The people that love you, simply for being you.

Unknown

[willowfey]

what if i just said i want attention. then what. would i get some

[childofeuphoria7]

LOSING OURSELVES IN LOVE

I have come across a theory that was inspired by a friend that has contributed in his own way to the woman I am. You see, this friend of mine was telling me about the issue that they've come across concerning women. His main issue was a trait he found in all the women of his past, including me, he added.

What made his issue interesting to me was how, upon meeting these women, there is no issue, only excitement and joy of having a woman in his life, then after a while the issue shows itself and he becomes annoyed and wants to leave. Fair enough, I guess. However if the same issue recurres in different people, then the real issue is within you. But that's not the point, the point was the theory I came across.

My theory is that, sometimes when we really like someone we lose ourselves and try too hard to give them all of us, to the point of resenting that person because we left nothing of ourselves for ourselves. We forget that a relationship is an addition to who we are and not who are we. We are not defined by relationships, merely reflected by them. Relationships are a great source of water to be used to fill up our cups, they should not be a vacuum.

Each day, wake up and remember yourself. Give to yourself before you give yourself to anyone else. Pour into yourself before doing so for anyone else. Don't unknowingly create resentment towards your partner by forgetting yourself.

[positivelypositivethoughts]

[the-joy-of-knowledge]

My 20s will be my most treasured decade.

I learned to play tennis in my 20s

I learned to put myself first in my 20s

I became more confident in my 20s

I defined my style in my 20s

I am at my healthiest in my 20s

I am more mature in my 20s

I developed 6 hobbies in my 20s

I made my own philosophy in my 20s

I study better in my 20s

I make friends based on shared values in my 20s

I started wearing SPF in my 20s

I have learned the most lessons in my 20s

I practiced balance in my 20s

I started driving in my 20s

I started speaking publicly in my 20s

I learned to bake in my 20s

I learned to stop comparing myself in my 20s

I began reading every week in my 20s

I became more curious in my 20s

I started investing in my 20s

You may learn somethings as a teenager or as 20 something year old, what’s important is that you learn. Growth is a continuous journey. I’m still learning, growing, and becoming.