Chronic Illness Fighter

25 year old | Wife + Mamá | suffering from fibromyalgia | endometriosis | secondary infertility ;

[chronicillnessfighter]

When someone who has no idea what endometriosis is & has the nerve to tell you “I’m sorry... but everything happens for a reason” “At least you have a boy & a girl”

One That’s hurtful. Two words hurt. Three. We have been trying our hardest for a baby. & suffering through secondary infertility..

If you don’t know what to say don’t say anything at all.

You don’t understand all the hurt, all the pain, & all the tears I’ve cried... crying why me... crying because the pain is unbearable. Crying because I can’t believe this is my reality... Crying because it’s all mentally, physically, & emotionally draining.

My husband trying to be strong for the both of us. My husband holding me while I cry myself until my eyes are all red, swollen & puffy... my husband telling me everything will be okay, it’s just an obstacle that we can get through...

Please be kind, please be thoughtful, if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all. You don’t know what anyone is going through 😭😭💔💔

[chronicillnessfighter]

When someone who has no idea what endometriosis is & has the nerve to tell you “I’m sorry... but everything happens for a reason” “At least you have a boy & a girl”

One That’s hurtful. Two words hurt. Three. We have been trying our hardest for a baby. & suffering through secondary infertility..

If you don’t know what to say don’t say anything at all.

You don’t understand all the hurt, all the pain, & all the tears I’ve cried... crying why me... crying because the pain is unbearable. Crying because I can’t believe this is my reality... Crying because it’s all mentally, physically, & emotionally draining.

My husband trying to be strong for the both of us. My husband holding me while I cry myself until my eyes are all red, swollen & puffy... my husband telling me everything will be okay, it’s just an obstacle that we can get through...

Please be kind, please be thoughtful, if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all. You don’t know what anyone is going through 😭😭💔💔

[chronicillnessfighter]

When someone who has no idea what endometriosis is & has the nerve to tell you “I’m sorry... but everything happens for a reason” “At least you have a boy & a girl”

One That’s hurtful. Two words hurt. Three. We have been trying our hardest for a baby. & suffering through secondary infertility..

If you don’t know what to say don’t say anything at all.

You don’t understand all the hurt, all the pain, & all the tears I’ve cried... crying why me... crying because the pain is unbearable. Crying because I can’t believe this is my reality... Crying because it’s all mentally, physically, & emotionally draining.

My husband trying to be strong for the both of us. My husband holding me while I cry myself until my eyes are all red, swollen & puffy... my husband telling me everything will be okay, it’s just an obstacle that we can get through...

Please be kind, please be thoughtful, if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all. You don’t know what anyone is going through 😭😭💔💔

[chronicillnessfighter]

When someone who has no idea what endometriosis is & has the nerve to tell you “I’m sorry... but everything happens for a reason” “At least you have a boy & a girl”

One That’s hurtful. Two words hurt. Three. We have been trying our hardest for a baby. & suffering through secondary infertility..

If you don’t know what to say don’t say anything at all.

You don’t understand all the hurt, all the pain, & all the tears I’ve cried... crying why me... crying because the pain is unbearable. Crying because I can’t believe this is my reality... Crying because it’s all mentally, physically, & emotionally draining.

My husband trying to be strong for the both of us. My husband holding me while I cry myself until my eyes are all red, swollen & puffy... my husband telling me everything will be okay, it’s just an obstacle that we can get through...

Please be kind, please be thoughtful, if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all. You don’t know what anyone is going through 😭😭💔💔

[chronicillnessfighter]

I’m 1 in 10 with #endometriosis for years I would sit & wonder why intercourse was painful, I had lower back pain, painful periods ——— so painful I would rather have a baby it is so unbearable where I want to just lay in the fetal position crying, having extreme fatigue, pelvic/ lower back pain, abdominal pain, blood clots that are big & some that are small. Extremely bloated & it felt like I pulled a muscle & where it was tugging it hurt so bad. One day I decided to make a doctors appointment with my OBGYN & the doctor & student doctor explained its endometriosis. I have heard of endometriosis, I knew the signs & symptoms. But I never thought it would be me the dr was diagnosing it will. I have more tests & surgery to do. In some sense I’m relieved that I have answers... but also heart broken that we are dealing with secondary infertility. My husband has literally been my rock. When I want to vent, cry, you name it. He’s so positive & even though sometimes it’s hard for me to stay positive. He levels me out. All I want to do is expand our family & we can’t... I wouldn’t be able to go through this if he wasn’t by my side. I love him so much. & even though this may be an obstacle we can get through anything.. unless you have gone through any of this please don’t say “at least you have your girl and boy” “it happens for a reason” I wanted to expand our family. 😭 my husband constantly reminds me “god doesn’t put us in situations we can’t handle” & he’s right. Endometriosis doesn’t define me.