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cult-hopper

People who don’t understand the difference between punishment and discipline should, like, never have kids

clown-butch-deactivated20240919

hey op i dont understand the difference could you please explain?

cult-hopper

Yeah ofc!! Sorry for being vague I was just venting and didnt expect reblogs haha

I’m gonna try to explain my point through examples.

Ex 1: toddler screaming and crying in the walmart

Punishment: I’m going to spank you or embarrass you or yell at you! Shut up! I’ll give you something to cry about!

Discipline: stop doing what you’re doing because it isn’t productive and it disturbs others as well as increasing your own upsetnes. I’m going to take you out of the environment that’s upsetting you until you’re calm and we can identify what upset you together so I can explain to you why it’s like that/help you find ways to productively express upsetness as you grow.

Ex 2: your teen is failing, like, all their classes

Punishment: you’re grounded! You’re not allowed to go out with your friends or play games or do anything fun or enjoyable until your work is satisfactory!

Discipline: it’s important to do well in school. You need to communicate with me when you are struggling so I can help you. You also need to learn to manage fun stuff and work as that’s an important life skill in adulthood. I’m going to monitor your work more closely so I can help you find that balance. And if this is a deeper mental or emotional issue, we can seek help for you together.

So basically, discipline is something you teach that requires time, communication, and sternness. Punishment is a single action meant to deliberately cause discomfort in an attempt to implement negative reinforcement. Not good.

skellydun

facts that i know for sure:

I’m gay

It’s too hot outside

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prettyfaeboy

i just want to be a small boy i just want to be a pretty boy

gimmemyskinnythighs

My dash is dead (rip)

Reblog if at least 3 apply:

You have an ed (must, can be self diagnosed)

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You’re LGBTQ+

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I’ll follow everyone who reblogs

drdonewithyourshit

Reblog if you’re three or more

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sottolemille

sweet jesus

fai-ble

i can’t help it okay–

alex-wants-to-live

*realizes that I just ate food that I technically didn’t have to* hahaha I suddenly can’t breathe

transalive

One half of anorexics: For lunch today I had two pieces of lettuce wrapped around five carrots, some beans and two peppers

The other half: For lunch today I had a tENTH of a Snickers bar

fatuglyandhungry

PLEASE READ THIS IF YOU CARE ABOUT THIGH GAPS.

i used to cry when i saw people with thigh gaps. i thought it meant they were skinny.

but some people will never have a thigh gap and here’s why.

i have a thigh gap because my hips are really really wide. i’m 150lbs and 5'2, so i’m “thicc” to say the least.

i have big, muscular and fatty thighs. and i have a small (but you can see it) natural thigh gap.

please, please, PLEASE.

dont chase after a thigh gap if it’s not possible with your bone structure. i am medically overweight with a thigh gap. thigh gaps don’t mean skinny thighs. they mean wide hip bone structure.

reblog this. this needs to be seen my the whole community.