Oasis | MetLife Stadium Review | 9.1.2025
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A Fairly Long Review of Oasis at MetLife Stadium, 9.1.2025
It was the tour that even the largest skeptics/fans of the band figured would never happen. About 13 months ago, I caught a weird stirring in the Oasis camp and knew something was up. During my last vacation, I went to Colorado to see Portugal. The Man for a few dates. At a meet-and-greet, I came inches from asking frontman, John Gourley (Noted Oasis fanatic), whether he thought a reunion was in the works, but as I shook his hand in Vale, CO, all I could manage was, āDude, omg, Iāve been ā¦ Fan so longā¦ Thanks, ok, see ya. Have a good set.āĀ
I look back on that opportunity as more of a humorous story now. Possibly a wasted chance to have some fun conversation with an idol, but alas, it never happened. I retained hope, though!Ā
Within two months, my theory became a solid reality as the Brit-pop icons announced a full-fledged tour with two dates near my neck of the woods, at MetLife Stadium. My wife and I have been together sixteen years, and with Oasis being a large part of our relationship generally, I didnāt really have to ask her to grab tickets. We were in!Ā
I nearly crapped my pants. I didnāt think that we were actually going for a while. Surely, Liam or Noel would talk shit on their brother and fellow bandmate, and so many peopleās hopes for a reunion would be gone like a puff of smoke.Ā Ā
A Mistake Which Still Haunts MeĀ Ā
My friends are all sick of hearing this story, but the beauty of explaining it in an article is that I can tell my one interesting Oasis story to fresh eyeballs! Perhaps the irony of said story will get a laugh from someone needing one.Ā
The year was 2005, and just after graduation from high school, an interesting, inter-borough NYC event was announced for October 1st and 2nd. Dubbed āAcross the Narrows,ā the event held various concerts throughout the City with a pretty good lineup at each location. For those who have ever fallen victim to making a deeply gut-wrenching decision, such as picking someone who has a schedule conflict with another favorite artist, this next part will strike a chord.Ā
Both the Pixies and Oasis were booked to headline wildly different locations at times that prevented attendance at both shows. We simply could not have seen both acts; they were too far from each other, and weād never get there relying on the subway. We had the decision of a lifetime ahead of us, and we were only 18! Whatever were we to do?
Like any normal teenagers, we had a deeply over-analytical conversation about the politics of both bands and how this could affect our Across the Narrows experience. Iāll jump to the core arguments, to spare this from being a 4,000-word article.
They were just getting back together after a long hiatus. In addition, they were playing geographically closer to us, making the chance of missing them much lower than Oasis.
A historically more famous band than the Pixies, despite our preferences. The fame led us to believe there was less of a chance they would break up. We also assumed that if the Brothers were bothering to come across the Pond, we stood a good chance of catching them later in the year, or next. Also, the venue they were at was HUGE, so unlike the Pixies, where we were able to yell Frank Blackās words back to him, weād need to fry in the sun for a while in order to get any sort of decent spots. I really have a hard time in the heat, so this only pushed my vote more staunchly in the direction of Kim Deal and Joey Santiago.Ā
SIDE NOTE - Iām not the biggest fan of drummer David Lovering, and itās nothing personal. I just cannot trust a man who pursued Birthday Clowning and Magicianship as a serious job for numerous years following the band's breakup (Look it up, not kidding).
It was quite a glorious day out. In NYC, you always take a chance when buying outdoor tickets to anything. We have weird weather sometimes. Not today, though. It was the kind of beautiful day that glues memories into your brain (EHEM). We knew the Oasis crew would have a good time, and that made us happy. The Pixies were an absolute delight and, in the moment, we regretted nothing.Ā
Over the next four years, I donāt believe the opportunity ever presented itself to us to go see Oasis again. I could be wrong; it was a long, long time ago. But these things happen, and normally you think nothing of them, until 4 years on from then, when we caught word the Brothers Gallagher had a fresh spat and dissolved the band in August of ā09.Ā
FUCK! FUCK, IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED?! THESE PRICKS PULLED THE PLUG?Ā
ā¦. Shit, there goes that dream.Ā
Everyone resigned themselves to never catching Oasis again. Everyone I knew who was a fan gave the opportunity of a reunion less than 0% odds, and I certainly agreed. The most humorous part is that following 2005-06, the Pixies went on a tear where you couldnāt miss them!!! I saw them numerous times from that date on, when the chances of that happening in ā05 were very slim. OH, THE IRONY!!!Ā
Iāll skip 16 years of lamenting my decision, because I truly did. It was one of my lifeās largest regrets, never catching Oasis live.Ā
Reports of the reunion shows in the UK were extremely positive, with news from Cardiff saying the boys were, in fact, somehow, back. And the setlist wasnāt fucking around either. Liam said in Mexico (or was it at the Rose Bowl?) how grateful he was for the turnout because being a fan of the band must be really fucking hard, and they seemed genuinely apologetic for depriving us of the awesome time they knew they were capable of.
September 1st, 2025, came and felt surreal. With fewer options, my wife sacked-up and drove us out to the venue in New Jersey. We got there very early, but it was extremely fortuitous. A wave of my walking cane left the over-tired parking attendants in a moment of having to make a decision, which they never like to do early. So, after waving us through to basically park wherever we wanted, we aimed for a spot that had easy access to the pop-up shop, which was to be present only in these wee hours, offering merch that you really couldnāt get elsewhere.Ā
With my walking issues, I was happy to ready myself for the Nine Inch Nails show I had tickets for the day after, zooting on my vape cartridge, while she made a mad dash for the store. Because of both her timing and awesomeness, I landed a reversible Oasis bucket hat and an official Adidas Oasis jumper top (that is so F****ng cozy).Ā
We forgot we had bought ADA-esque tickets, and the view was really quite good. MetLife Stadium actually hosts events nicely; I had never been, but the staff was mostly chill and quite helpful. There is one point of contention that occurred later, but it was my own fault, so we will get into that below.
I forgot the name of the first band, but if ever did Oasis find a band that sounded like Oasis to open for them on this leg, it was these gents. I could look up their name, but if I leave that mystery to you, perhaps they gain a new fan when/if you decide to take a look.
The Oasis comparison to the openers is not a dig, necessarily, but by giving off any similarity to what we were there to see, I found myself ālisteningā (but not listening) to them. They were good, tight, and seemed to have a fair amount of songs about getting fucked up in London. Iām sorry to say I donāt remember a note of what I heard. It is not their fault - As 1st act openers, you come, you play, and gratefully get lost in someoneās experience along the way.Ā
Next up were apt openers and fellow band ācontaining brothers on guitar and vocalsā, respectively, Cage the Elephant. Cage the Elephant has eluded me since, like, 2014. I donāt really know why. Iāve seen them a handful of times in those 11 years. My wife is a big fan and has always tried to introduce me to them, but to a resounding negative reaction that has waned in recent years. Truth be told, I donāt know what my beef was. It didnāt take too far into their set for me to finally āget itā and resign myself to being a full-on convert.Ā
Thereās really nothing not to like when I reflect on Cage the Elephant. Weāve got a good ol' catchy, twangy guitar over a solid rhythm section and a guy yelling about, āGod DAMMIT, I am trying ā¦ Iām trying, ok?ā Itās not too far from Oasisā topical lyrics with some southern rock (and typically a sweet fire show that they did not do here) added on top.
Listen, folks, you can always come back from being a hater. Your friends will make fun of you, but if your opinion has changed, well, shit, you have some time to catch up, and you'd do best to get listening, rather than considering the politics of what you enjoy or don't.
It was a really awesome performance from Cage the Elephant, and itās just nice to see Matt Shultz (Singer) looking healthy and coming back to form once again. He had a rough few years in there, but heās finally looking like heās in a good spot again, and who doesnāt love to hear/see that?Ā
Oasis; It's Actually HAPPENING!!
Christ, it took all day for these fuckers to come on! Oh, wait, sorry - Iāve forgotten what time is, youāre good -
Okay, letās start with the most minimal kerfuffle one can have with Security - period, but that doesnāt mean it didnāt SUCK!
Again, it was my fault. I totally brought it on myself by not properly scouting the situation, but if you recall, I was sitting in ADA, and behind me was the wheelchair seating. Obviously, a guard is left for the folks in the wheelchair area at all shows, as they should be. What this meant for me is that not five seconds into Acquiesce, whilst thinking myself unseen from the previous drag taken from my vape cart, I received a friendly grab on my side from a man who just said, āPlease donāt smoke.āĀ It did not take a Rocket Scientist to realize this man was from Security, and he was only going to politely ask once.
He was right! My bad! I nodded a solid yes to him (because I wasnāt going to get kicked from this show, you kidding me?) and begrudgingly shoved my battery into the depths of my right pocket. He then proceeded to watch me like a hawk the rest of the night.
It was clear that one more puff meant I was gone, which, for an Oasis show, a band famous for a chorus that goes, āWhere were you while we were getting high?ā I had played this one poorly, for how I usually like to watch my live music.
It didnāt really make much of a difference. Music has that power to hit you in the dopamine just the same, and I was ready for a transcendental experience.
In case youāve forgotten, 2025 has been a shitty year for a fuck-ton of people. I was no different, having lost my Dad in March and still cleaning up the literal and bureaucratic mess that awaits an only child in September with, seemingly, no end in sight for QUITE some time. We were nearly 6 months into trying to handle his affairs, and my impatience with the bullshit towards the matter was waning.Ā
During the Oasis set, I found myself with newfound appreciation for Cast No Shadow, thanks to Pops. Before he had a heart attack in a random condominium in South Carolina, I hadnāt talked with my Dad for six years. That fact is fine with me. He was a fine father when I was young. He went kind of a lot of crazy before he moved to a State he hated, only hitting me up occasionally for money, then really losing it before he died. It was better that we were estranged. No regrets there. At the same time, fucker was my dad, and while I was a kid, he was a good guy. He didnāt deserve the hand he got dealt.Ā
That hit hard during the chant of, āAs they took his soul, they stole his pride.ā The guy died with $156 in his bank account. He also made a complete mess of the place because life had driven him crazy. I think thereās a corollary one can draw here. They took his soul, and when that wasnāt enough, because it never is, when heās on the ground, getting kicked and bleeding, youāre getting in shots, just to get them in, and that is where they also stole his pride.Ā
I hadnāt felt for the guy in years. Put up a facade and didnāt really care what happened in his corner, so long as he stayed in it. This man on stage, thirty years my Fatherās junior, though, saw right through me in the second deck. He saw me and said, āI hear yaā man. Sometimes they come in and take some. Sometimes they take it all. But, usually, they keep pickinā, vultures that they are.ā And, for the first time, he helped me piece that together. Thank you, Oasis, and Liam. I wonāt forget the experience soon.Ā Ā
In addition, my best friend, while growing up, Rob, was the one who (somehow) was the larger Oasis fan between the two of us. We roomed in our first year of college, where I remember long nights of learning Oasis songs on guitar just to drunkenly yell the lyrics as loud as we could while everyone scurried to class.Ā
Rob and I became estranged for a number of reasons, just like my Dad and I. Rob also had a weird, undiagnosed (?) seizure disorder. A couple of years ago, he just upped and died in his sleep. I donāt have further details, but, yeah - The dude was 37, and now he - Wasnāt.Ā
I had bets on whether Iād cry or not during the show, with Oasis being such an emotionally moving batch of chaps and all. The odds were strongly in favor of crying. Only a few times did I find myself doing so, Iām happy to report.Ā
With some chips on my shoulders, I needed to get them wiped off. They were fucking my head up. Thereās a line in Some Might Say where Liam talks about āItchinā in the kitchen once again.ā This was a favorite of Robās. One he would belt extra hard if we were trying to look cool in front of people at parties.Ā
As a parting gift to him, I did the same, and for a second, we were 15 again, naively wondering what this weird British man was talking about.
In High School, Robās favorite debate to pose to unsuspecting people was, āWhere were you while we were getting high?ā He meant it philosophically, in the same way the song did - I know where I was and what I was doing and am okay with my actions in that timeframe - What were you up to?āĀ
There was a flash of a moment, where I was mouth agape at the big screens, where I could see more of what the Brothers did throughout the show, as Liam finished the outro to Champagne Supernova and did a finger-snap of some kind, right as the firework closing act let off into the sky. It was pretty easy to understand the symbolism present here, so Iāll just say my kudos to Rob and wish him well wherever he is. At least he gave me this to enjoy.Ā
I didnāt expect the emotional rollercoaster I experienced when seeing Oasis, but I guess I have been a fan for a good 25 years now, so you often forget the impact that something that has existed that long for you has. Emotional things aside, this was arguably one of the greatest rock shows of a crazy number of rock shows attended in my lifetime. I wish Iād had the money to follow them on this tour, but just the one performance was so tight, loud, and fear-assuaging, Iām happy sitting on my couch watching pictures of Liam wearing a giant sombrero on his head while playing a giant Mexican colosseum. Iāll definitely be around for every possible one the next time we get together, though, chaps! Stay brilliant.Ā Ā Ā
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