Creating a friendship bond to someone isn’t easy as you say. During my learnings in my class discussion, I learned that: 1. Don’t become friends with people that you think you will later dislike - Do not be friends with people who are only “available when they are in a good mood and then abandon us when we needed them.” Be aware of these people. 2. Do not be friends with people easily - For instance, you met a super cute person in a party, would you call that person as your friend knowing that you just met that person couple minutes ago? Not at all right? To be able to make a bond with that person, test them and know them. This way, knowing them will make the attachment stronger. 3. It is better to create friendship in adulthood - I’m not saying to be friends with people older than you to be able to get in a club or get a drink. Since our similarities will eventually change as we grow, bonds during our youth will not be stable compared to the bonds we make during our adulthood. I read in “The Good life” by Cicero, that adulthood is when we start experiencing our responsibility as a person. Being friends with matured people makes a stronger bond than being friends with the youth. These are the things that Cicero said about making a bond to others
