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heresylog

I don’t care if you make fun of Catholicism as long as it’s accurate! The best humour has its roots in the truth.

synebluetoo

“You can be mean to me but there are RULES about it” is the most Catholic thing I’ve ever seen.

heresylog

I walked into that one

wordx

I'll block the entire world if I have to. Nobody getting on my nerves this year.

lsleofskye

recaption

edmiar

Friendly reminder of unhealthy red flags when dating:

ALWAYS REMEMBER: - your aesthetics are yours. ✔ - your friends are yours. ✔ - your hobbies are yours. ✔ - your past is yours. ✔ - your identity is yours. ✔ - your emotions are yours. ✔

UNHEALTHY BEHAVIOUR / DYNAMICS: If your partner requires their approval on all your clothing. 🚫 If you partner forces you to wear only a certain way all the time. 🚫

If your partner requires to know all your friends that you are going out with if not they get mad you had fun with them. 🚫 If your partner forces to attend with you everywhere if not they get mad you went out. 🚫

If your partner don’t respect your you time with your hobbies. 🚫 If your partner mocks at your hobbies. 🚫

If your partner uses your past to manipulate you, or invalidate you. 🚫 If your partner uses their past to manipulate you. 🚫

If your partner invalidates or reassigns your identity be it ethnic, religious, lgbt or other. 🚫 If your partner is just into you because they fetishize your identity be it ethnic, religious, lgbt or other. 🚫

If your partner blames you of their constant bad temper. 🚫 If your partner mocks at your feelings. 🚫

Reason enough to talk the issue, distance or break up.

Such is toxic behaviour that uses to escalate to worst dynamics in which you won’t be happy nor grow.

If you can’t be yourself, talk freely, if you don’t communicate fairly and clear, what’s the point of keep dating that person? If you have to stop being friends with your partner soon the fundation (as honesty, respect, …) disappears.

Usually those behaviour are not noticeable at the beginning because both are so into each other they don’t notice how bad those behaviour may feel in the long run.

#oof