About Me/FAQ
Hi hi! I’m Koala! I’m 27 n use she/they pronouns. I’m a switch who’s almost exclusively submissive but you’ll see both sides if you stick around long enough. I’m a little, pet, brat and soft domme. I’m bi and insufferably in love with @sunshine-sadist . My blog mostly consists of cnc, cg/l, pet play, pain/impact play, praise kink, degradation kink, the occasional monster fucking, some rare domme content and stream of consciousness posts thrown in all over.
I’m always more than happy to get messages and make friends but keep in mind I am not always the best at keeping up with people on here since it takes up a lot of mental energy for me.
I do not tag individual triggers outside of eating disorder mentions. These mentions are never integrated with kink and will only happen in the context of my rants/vents and I will never go into detail, but anything with any form of mention will be tagged with “ed mention”. That being said, some potentially triggering content on my blog that I will not be tagging is: cg/l and dd/lg, cnc (I avoid posts with the word r@pe in them), impact play, bruising, knifeplay (generally this is in the context of text posts but there is the occasional pic involving a knife) and sadism/masochism. All the above are relatively consistent themes on here and if those are triggers for you, it’s best to just avoid my blog.
While this blog rarely contains explicitly political posts (as those tend to go on my main) I and this blog are feminist, anti-racist, anti-colonialism and leftist, and if your blog reflects that you aren’t any of those, I will block you on the spot. I hope you enjoy your time on my blog!💕
FAQ
Why can’t i respond to your message?
Because I blocked you and tumblr doesn’t let you message people who have blocked you.
Why did you block me?/why did you message me then immediately block me?
You got blocked for being under the list of people I ask not to be on my blog. 95% of the time it’s bc you didn’t have an age in your bio but other common reasons are spam liking, interacting with minors, ignoring other peoples dni’s, fetishizing my weight, or being creepy on posts. I’m on a side blog and almost entirely on mobile so messaging is the easiest way to block you from this blog specifically, instead of just from my main blog.
What’s so wrong with spam liking?
Short answer: it’s disrespectful. I put time into making my content (taking pics, editing them, etc) and it’s incredibly frustrating for someone to want to consume that content but not expose it to others since I use my content to grow my platform. Unlike some other platforms, likes on tumblr don’t do anything to boost the exposure of my blog/content so it only serves to save it to a personal collection for your consumption. Also, if you run an active blog, it’s disrespectful and lowkey insulting to spam like as it essentially communicates “I find you attractive enough to consume your content and I want you to know that but I don’t find you attractive enough to make that attraction to you public in any fashion”
Can I show you my dick?
No
Do you want to sext me/send me pics?
No
What’s your snap?
My snap is only for mutuals. This is because I do show my face/include slightly more details on my personal life and would like to keep those things more private rather than just giving out my snap to everyone. I also enjoy having a place to bridge the gap between my blog (and my role as the person running it) and friendships and I’d rather not see my snap turn into another place that I’m just showcasing a portion of myself for consumption like I do here. If you’re a mutual feel free to ask! Even if you can guess it, please give me a heads up bc I do block everyone that I don’t know/can’t identify immediately to avoid it being accessible to non mutuals. (If you’re not sure if you’re a mutual you’re totally welcome to ask since I know it can be confusing with side blogs)
Where did you get your lingerie?
A lot of the lingerie sets I have come from romwe, but more recently it comes from places like aerie, soma, etc but if you want to know about something specifically feel free to ask! I don’t give direct links to fast fashion platforms like romwe/shein for a number of reasons that generally come down to my efforts to shift away from using them as an actively unethical business model. I’m happy to give out direct links to any other place I’m able to find my silly lil outfits though!
Why don’t you want people sexualizing your weight/commenting on your size?
I have an incredibly complicated relationship with my weight. I have a history of an eatíng disorder that has lead to me having a very negative relationship with my body. I am working every day to repair it, and have come a very long way in how I view myself, especially after gaining significant weight in recovery combined with a health condition that I only recently received a diagnosis for. That being said, my history has culminated in me not wanting my weight to be a central part of my identity (in the context of this blog), and more specifically how I am viewed, regardless of what that weight is. On the best of days, it’s disrespectful to the effort I’ve made to fight the mentality that people see the size of my body first and foremost, and on worse days can actively inhibit my recovery and trigger disordered behaviors. My value and attractiveness are not intrinsically linked to my size and I would appreciate if nobody on here would push that linkage, even if it is being done in a positive way. This goes for feeder/feedee blogs, bbw blogs, “curvy” blogs or any variation of the “admirer of the fuller figured female body” blogs.
Will you domme me?
Nope
Why do you kinkshame race play, misogyny kinks, sissies, etc.?
I don’t view any kinks that play an actively harmful role in systemic oppression as kink. I believe when you fetishize people for identities that cause their marginalization in society, it’s impossible to separate what’s going on in the bedroom and what’s going on outside of it, and you don’t have the right to fetishize a community even if it’s only through your partner. This is the short explanation so obviously lacks some of the nuance of this take but I’m happy to further explain it to anyone who asks (this is not an invitation to disagree. If you disagree with this stance I’m not engaging in conversation with you).
~I’ll probably add to this over time so if there’s any other info you’d like to see here/think would be good to include feel free to say so!~
