okay well this meme just did a better job of describing my sexuality in four panels than i have in paragraphs of text
something not enough allosexuals (especially cishets) understand about asexuals is that many of us are actually massive perverts 😇

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okay well this meme just did a better job of describing my sexuality in four panels than i have in paragraphs of text
something not enough allosexuals (especially cishets) understand about asexuals is that many of us are actually massive perverts 😇
was thinking about infighting and like. they all see us the same. from the wildest queerest fagdyke to a cis gay guy. we are the same to them. the weird queers are not like. ruining your precious community. we're a part of it
@ exclusionists:
We are all Faggots in the eyes of the Fash. Stand United or Die Separately.
truly few things are more sneer-worthy to me than a gay deeply invested in respectability and assimilation
drew another of what my gf calls "your funky little dudes"
(i don't spend a ton of time thinking about what my drawings "mean," but it is kinda wild how after a big loss all your art is at least a little about grief)
Jess Vosseteig
i'm trying really hard to keep my heart open to tumblr but it still kinda feels to me like this site isn't, like, super condusive to having conversations? maybe i just need to adjust to different platforms being different but it's something i find myself missing
Intimacy
Sometimes there are quiet moments where I want to reach out and take more pieces of you for myself. I can feel that you want that too. It's not just an unspoken want, but something that is sewed into the way we've operated for so long now that it comes naturally.
It is in those moments where I feel like I'm holding you more powerfully and completely than I do even when you obey beautifully. So it is in those moments when I do not take what is freely surrendered, yet. Instead I just say "I love you", and know that it is felt, internalized, repeated.
how do i tell tumblr i'm not really interested in Heterosexual Content
literally how did i even survive without unfettered access to my gf's soundproof headphones??? absolute game changer
Men and masculinity are not inherently bad or untrustworthy things and I don't mean that in a 'misandry is real and a problem' way, I mean that in a 'I think some of you might have contracted minor TERF poisoning' way
do any bad bitches want to clicker train me
Rocky Horror is turning 50 next month and people still act like being gay was invented by Ellen in 1997
But honestly! Renowned French poet Théophile de Viau wrote the poetic ode to King James titled “The Duke of Buckingham,” containing the immortal lines “One man fucks Monsieur le Grand de Bellegarde/Another fucks the Comte de Tonnerre/And it is well known that the King of England/Fucks the Duke of Buckingham” exactly 400 years ago and people still act like being gay was invented by Oscar Wilde in 1890
Niankhkhnum and Khnumhotep were buried together in the 25th century BC and people still act like being gay was invented by renowned French poet Théophile de Viau 400 years ago
Gilgamesh and Enkidu “loved each other like man and wife” in 2700 BC and ppl STILL act like being gay was invented by Niankhkhnum and Khnumhotep in the 25th century BC
seriously have been thinking about this all night long. call me autistic but the fact that 90% of workplaces the point is not to get your work done and then be done doing it but to instead perform an elaborate social dance in which you find something to do even when you're done doing everything you need to do in order to show your fellow workers that you, too, are Working . because you are at Work . disgusting why cant we all agree that if there is no work immediately to be done. we just dont do anything
"why do people conflate top/bottom and Dom/sub" because we haven't socially destigmatized kink. that's literally it.
if you say you're topping your boyfriend when you push him around in the bedroom you're being cool and quirky and using slang to describe your antics. if you do the same thing and say you're domming him you must be a seriously freaky person. that's why people use top to mean Dom and bottom to mean sub. they know even if we allow the nice clean gays with their fun bedroom terms into our society, we should never ever be like Those People who spend significant amounts of time and energy learning how to have the kind of sex so many of us clumsily imitate in our bedrooms.
"researching kink is forbidden. talking about kink is forbidden. slapping your partner and choking them is normal because I saw it in porn and my buddies say they do it. don't go to seminars on how to manage the risk of those activities or you're a sex-obsessed freak. I'm the normal one, the one whose partner chokes me with their belt and doesn't know what aftercare is. I'm a bottom."
the problem is that kink activities are socially acceptable and even expected, but having any awareness of the terminology or safe ways to play surrounding them is heavily stigmatized. kink anti-intellectualism is rampant among people of every political orientation because of how badly our society has poisoned us. so we can't even say Dom or sub to refer to ourselves. it's a symptom of that problem.
one of the sexiest things a hypnotist can do is gradually turn a regular conversation into an induction, so slowly that you don't notice until your eyes are fluttering and you're nodding along with everything they say and desperately trying to remember exactly when their voice got so compelling, sending you into a spiral of confusion that just puts you even more firmly under their control.
does anyone want to lay on the floor with me and be weird