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@codependoncy
everyone get unemployed. i will provide for us.
I love how safe everyone in the comments feels about being entirely dependant on a potentially psychopathic benefactor š
im niceā¦..
Heās literally nice
autistic DPD culture is never feeling like an equal around other adults, always feeling like a little kid who needs to be told what to do
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i think when some of you say "neurodivergent" you just mean adhd and autism
schizophrenia makes you neurodivergent. ocd makes you neurodivergent. ptsd (and c-ptsd) makes you neurodivergent. bpd makes you neurodivergent. npd makes you neurodivergent. anxiety makes you neurodivergent. depression makes you neurodivergent. even the "scary" mental illnesses make you neurodivergent. i'm going to start killing
i want to stop biting my nails so bad :(
when everyone else in the friend group is making the "i'm gonna kms!!! LOLLLLL" jokes whenever there's the slightest inconvenience but the second YOU make a "AUGH i'm gonna kms,," joke it's all "you cant say that!!!!! that's not funny!!! they'll send u to the psych ward!!!!!!" bc ur the active suicide risk of the friendgroup š
āyou were a wonderful experience.ā āyou were⦠everything.ā is such dpd core audio
I will heal from my dependent personality disorder and channel it into loyalty to the people I love, rather than dependency
looking into dpd right now and i canāt seem to get any confirmation on anger with dpd. a lot of sources say anger isnāt shown due to the inherent submissiveness and dependency on others but i want people with dpd to provide actual info/your own experiences with your anger and how it manifests. reach out if you can it would be really helpful!
hi ! person with dpd here !! in my personal experience , i DO feel anger on occasion but i have a tendency to repress it when i do feel it so i donāt show it often . and the only times i get really angry is when iām told i SHOULD be angry - being told āhey , what that person did to you was kind of awfulā makes me realize āOH yeah . that WAS kind of awful . really awful actually . whyād i let that happen ? whyāre they such a bitch ??ā i just tend to simmer rather then explode !! donāt take this as gospel , tho -- many people experience mental disorders and the emotions that come with them in different ways , so i defintely canāt speak for yours or other ppd experiences , but i hope my own personal experience and insight helped !! again , could be totally wrong as i donāt know anything about you or your experiences , BUT if you feel like you experience a lot of dpd symptoms but also experience other symptoms ( such as anger ) that ācontradictā the disorder or donāt fit the disorderās listed symptoms , it is worth mentioning most personality disorders have high comorbidity rates !! ex. a symptom of bpd is a short temper and explosive anger , and despite the fact this might seem ācontradictoryā with dpd given ppl w/ dpd are often characterized as having passive tempers , bpd and dpd actually have a 30% comorbidity rate , which is pretty high !! AGAIN , this is just as an example as i canāt speak for you or your symptoms because iām not you and donāt know you , but i hope this little infodump on pds helped !!!!
MILLON'S SUBTYPES [ DPD EDITION ]
Note: all definitions are taken directly from Millon's writings, which are quite old, with only a few edits and rephrasings to make things more digestible to a modern audience.
š The Disquieted Dependent ā Restlessly perturbed; disconcerted and fretful; feels dread and foreboding; apprehensively vulnerable to abandonment; lonely unless near supportive figures.
ā has avoidant traits
š The Selfless Dependent ā Often merges with and is immersed into another person. They become engulfed, enshrouded, absorbed, and incorporated, into others, willingly giving up their own identity. They will try to become one with or an extension of another person.
ā has self-defeating traits
š The Immature Dependent ā characterized by being socially or psychologically stunted, unversed, and childlike. Act undeveloped, inexperienced, and gullible. Often feel or truly are incapable of assuming adult responsibilities.
ā variant of the "standard" dependent
š The Accommodating Dependent ā appears gracious, neighborly, eager, benevolent, compliant, obliging, and generally agreeable. Tends to deny any and all disturbing feelings. Readily adopts a submissive and inferior role in most situations.
ā has histrionic traits
š The Ineffectual Dependent ā often appear unproductive, gainless, incompetent, and meritless. They typically seek an untroubled life. Often refuses to deal with difficulties. Generally untroubled by shortcomings.
ā has schizoid traits
More of Millon's subtypes:
[ASPD] [AVPD] [BPD] [DPD] [DPPD]
[HPD] [OCPD] [PPD] [NGPD] [NPD]
[SAPD] [SDPD] [STPD] [SZPD] [TPD]
Childepense - Child DPD Archetype
ID: A 5-stripe flag with its stripes angled downward toward the bottom in a V formation. Coming down from the top-center is an arrow, with the top containing a downwards obtuse triangle with an icon inside. The icon is rubber duck, colored a fairly dark yellow. The arrow is a slightly lighter dark yellow, and the triangle inside is light yellow. The stripes, from top to bottom: Dark mint, dark yellow, yellow, mint, dark mint.
Depense are labels that describe one's relation to DPD and their dependent identity. It may be a gender experience, orientation experience, or any other identification: even its own category altogether.
Childepense, or the child dependent archetype, is a dependent identity related to children, considering oneself childlike, and/or being seen as a child. It may feel beloved, chaotic, and curious, but may also have other interpretations.
The modifier symbols are: š£š·
The tulip as a symbol for DPD is representative of how gardens are dependent on their gardeners and often lovingly tended to in turn.
Depense coined by @epikulupu. Also tagging @cupidcoining and @revenant-coining.