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Aye, I've got my toes dipped into alotta Ponds right now so here's a fun little post to help navigate it all.
A fun link to my lil blog dedicated to whumpee/whumper story More Ingredients for My Soup
The Lil side blog thats me just reblogging things I find on Tumblr and really like
And well that's really it cause I have yet to make my side blogs for other stories but it's on my list a things to do.
Out of Touch
Out of Touch Thursday
OUT OF TOUCH THURSDAY
but im out of my head when you’re not around…
happy birthday.
this is the only out of touch thursday you can reblog this
@rabbitkinglune777
Ok so slightly Long explanation but i took these screenshots and didnt have the courage to direct tag/post ya. Then my phone was broke and I couldn't upload these screenshots, then when it was fixed I couldn't find your tumblr but now I found ya again so here's this!
A little while ago you were top 3 post in the transgender tag for some of your art and it was so cool to see! It actually happened a few times but I only have the one screenshot, sorry^^"
Im really glad youre back, but more importanlty feeling better and good to be back! And I can't lie, I'm so excited to see more of your art!!
Brought to you by the same person who ordered the original 'congrats on the autism' cake (im marrying them, the biggest flex of my life), I now bring you the post-top surgery cake they ordered me
this is the official top surgery manifestation post. Like to charge, reblog to cast (or do neither and you will still get whichever gender affirming surgeries your heart desires, I am manifesting it for you free of charge 🏳️⚧️🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵✨️)
Why should all citizens get a certain amount of free food from the government to supplement what they can buy on their own? That’s the sort of stupid commie thing they do in *checks notes* the ancient Roman republic.
it's sad to me that cis people never apply their "loved one with a wanted-pregnancy" script to medical transition. like cis people often indicate they don't know how to react to hearing about medical transition, but a huge portion of that social script is directly applicable.
tell someone "congratulations!" tell them "I'm so happy for you. I know you've been trying for a really long time." ask them "do you need help with anything?" throw them a party with loved ones where you all give them some gifts in acknowledgement of how expensive it is. celebrate how far along they are. take photos with them so they have a record of being loved while their body changes. allow them to voice fears and doubts and anxieties about how it'll go, and reassure them that they'll get through the intense medical procedure coming up & you'll be there for support no matter what. let them tell you about the gross parts and laugh together. really listen to them when they talk about how amazing and profound it is that the human body can do this. share in their excitement for beginning a new stage of their life.
If there are complications, comfort them and help them navigate what's next. If they lose access suddenly due to finances or criminalization, treat it like a miscarriage and hold them while they grieve.
going to be real: it's extremely disheartening that skinny and perfectly smoothed bodies can be drawn in skimpy or revealing clothes/clothing styles that absolutely fucking serve but fat people or people with imperfections...are expected to cover themselves up or it's "fetish" content
I've made many posts Abt this in the past but the whole concept of accusing art depicting fat characters (god forbid they are non white and disabled) in revealing clothes as thinly veiled fetish art is so fucking fatphobic and reactionary in the same sense. I'm sorry I wanna draw and wear clothes that show off my tummy.
and with the fetish thing: fetishes aren't inherently evil or a moral failing so it's just more puritanical garbage.
you're not a good ally for telling me or characters that represent me and other fat people to "cover up" or accuse our bodies of being inherently sexual I think you're a massive jackass 😭
chew on that. gnaw on this. bite into it. gnash your teeth on that. chomp on this
Is this bout the ticket the cop gave you?
Hey let's remember that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor was arrested for sharing insider trade information and not for his participation in raping and trafficking women and girls.
All those "official Epstien arrests" counters need to remember he wasn't arrested for RAPING AND TRAFFICING GIRLS AND WOMEN, but was arrested bc he gave Epstein info that would help him make better investment choices.
This wasn't about the victims. This was about the monarchy having their investment secrets revealed.
I can't tell you the joy I felt reading that someone was finally arrested from their connection to Epstein in the files. But I can tell you of the despair upon finding out that it wasn't even in relation to his raping and trafficking but rather him helping Jeff make more money from investments.
i'm very brave. created a character in a setting that allows for animal companions. and didn't give her an animal companion. i know, i know, it's hard, but true change is possible
Why deny yourself a friend?
We were trying to find a way to watch the halftime show to try to support Bad Bunny and Green Day but didn't realize we were an hour late
My roommate has an ad blocker and clicked on the most popular search on YouTube and it turned out to be some Fox Live shit but it was playing a fucking ai trump ad for Bitcoin. I shoulda tooken pictures of the fucking shit that was playing bevause it was trump standing at a podium talking bout how to put your bitcoin wallet into this website and double your bticoin.
Patheodox was looking at it and clicked on the website and this is what showed up
I didn't realize they had an ad block and told him to get off the fox channel. I had also turned the TV on in the big room bc I was sure that Fox wouldn't show Bad Bunny so I kept stepping out the room. Before closing the channel they watched the end of the ad and then the next ad which was about AI. When I came back the window was closed and He went to Google it. Th en went back to look at it and the channel was fucking DELETED
The search history shows YouTube with a (169) by it and that was the channel we were watching. Can't find it now.
Was this a huge fucking bitcoin scandal just now? This website looks fake af and the video was very clearly AI of Trump. His voice wasn't even right.
Patheodox swears the channel said Fox News Live and had 256k views.
Roommate and me talking bout transitioning
Me: I know I want a penis. Like I'm going to get a phalloplasty for sure
Patheodox: you could take from your leg, or your arm but then you'll be a visible trans man
Me: *remembers a post bout wanting young trans to see old trans alive* thats fine! I can show off my scars!!
Me: *old man voice and holding out my arm* yea back before they had yer cool surgeries I had to take from my arm. That's what this is *points at imaginary scar* they took it and made it my dick!
Me As Imaginary grandchild: grandpa please stop talking about your dick we get it
Patheodox: *old man voice* sometimes, she gets a feather and tickles the tip and my arm starts twitchin!! *starts jerking arm round*
Me: *losing my shit and jerks arm round with them*
Me: *finally calms down and jokes* you'd do numblrs on tumblr
Patheodox: numblrs on tumblrs haha numblrs on tumber hehe
tips for polyamory starters
try to spec your wifes into different roles. a good idea is at least one tank wife, one healer wife, and two to three dps wives.
People talking abt autism like its a set of quirky silly traits and not an often debilitating neurological disorder genuinely drives me up a wall, especially as someone who's support needs are higher.
"I want a gf with autism :3" ok are you prepared to help them with hygiene tasks? Are you gonna help them with laundry and cleaning their room? Are you gonna be patient with them when they're using AAC? Will you comfort them through meltdowns? Or do you just want a gf who talks to you about dinosaurs and has a cute "neurodivergent aesthetic"?
The minimization of autistic struggles to just "socially awkward sometimes" ends up making higher support needs autistics feel real isolated, because it's obvious that when you romanticize neurodivergence, you're not talking about us.
Are you prepared to be told the same thing about 5 or 6 times? Will you be patient with them? What about if their hyperfixation isn't something as conventional as "kids interest/hobby" but something more like drywalling or clay art. Are you ready to have 15 different clay figures of the Same Thing? (Also very telling that they typically assign "kids" things as the only thing Autistic people can hyperfixate on).
How about boundaries? Certain noises you can't make, pitches they can't listen to or sound arrangements that make their brain feel like it's exploding. Then there's stuff with lighting, too much glare or not enough light so everything is hard to make out proper, weird colored lights and flashing lights. You have to be prepared to never share certain foods, maybe only have certain restaurants you can go to because others don't have food that's a right texture/flavor. Are you ready to help them when noises become too much, even your own voice? What about when it's Too Quiet and they stimming vocally with random noises, will you join in or tell em to stop "it's weird." Surely you are equipped to handle an Autistic person who just bought a new outfit that's actually really overstimulating, but they didn't find that out until they wore it out and about and are now getting more worked up?
As OP mentioned, what about meltdowns? Are you planning to Movie Hug and Kiss Them when it happens? Or are you going to talk to the partner BEFORE any meltdowns occurs so you know how to help when they do? This could be a physical thing, but plenty of Autistic people need Sounds to help them calm down and others need to literally just crash tf out. Are you prepared to be any of those levels of support? What if they can't be touched or talked to during a meltdown? You gonna give em the space or try to insert yourself because you're the Partner and "Partners help", despite the fact that you're making worse.
Then you have communication. What if they don't talk frequently or never shut up? What if they're mute? What if they become mute? Are you ready to thoroughly deconstruct instructions for tasks so they can understand? Can you calmly repeat yourself and respectively listen as you try to find out why they aren't understanding something? Are you willing to try explaining it a few ways until they do get it?
Not to mention that most Autistics have Autistic Friends. But since they aren't the Cahsers Partner, their friends are less respected bc the Chaser doesn't actually understand autism, they just want a manic pixie girl
Sorry for such a long addition, the ball started rolling and it got away from me. I wanted to bring out examples and these were just the top of my head. There were so many that it felt like it helped OPs point, especially considering the fact that that's not even everything to do with being an Autistic person. Buddy I didn't even cover anything medical or even the whole "sense of justice" thing that so many people misunderstand aswell.
by the way, it’s alright to be trans even if you’re “doing good at your gender.” even if you’re not suffering. if you think you would be happier, more fulfilled, more at peace with yourself? go for it.
The saying goes measure by euphoria, not dysphoria
A while back i went to Spencers to see if I could find this binder one of my mates was talkin bout but unfortunately I was deterred do to a group of like 4 to 5 Guys walkin round and getting immediately worried that they were going to Start Shit because I live in a red state.
But yesterday I went to a little store and there was a trans woman there and she looked so happy and now I wish I looked harder for that binder because I could have had one Bad Interaction but walked away with the ability to enjoy a flat chest for a long time.
Me: Well, I think it’s wrong to say that children are disgusting and repulsive. They are human beings who deserve respect.
Someone: But have you considered that they [something that applies to many disabled adults]
Me: … :) So. I think human beings with those traits still deserve equal love and respect. Actually.
