If a girl was a fox and hated men

20s, She/Her (they/them'ing or using dudebro terms to refer to me is an auto-block), TMA. Vocal Transfeminist. I am a post-op, plural, neurodivergent, and disabled trans woman. I am also a perisex white USAmerican, and trying my best not to be a problem about it. Let me know when I fuck up, because I know I will. I am always open to being told I'm wrong if you aren't an ass about it, and I try to do better every day. I'm trigger-happy with the block-button because this is my blog for me to cultivate as I will. I cast Shut The Fuck Up TWERFs at instant speed and pass priority.

[sexboobomb]

UPDATE: I'm putting this here because I keep getting asks about it- I did find Mae but I will not be elaborating or sharing any further details of any sort to preserve her privacy.

If you have a problem with me saying "I hate men" as a blanket statement, then you are part of the reason I say that. If you really are "not like most men" then you should understand the nuance.

I will not debate people on transmisogyny or my use of TMA/TME. If you seem well-intentioned but ill-informed I’m willing to help you learn more, and if you seem like a dick I’ll block you and be done with it. More “allies” have absolutely got to learn to sit down and shut up when trans women talk about our experiences with oppression, and I will not budge on this to even the slightest degree. TMA/TME as terms are neither intersexist nor exorsexist, and if you think they are it is because you are either misunderstanding the terms and their use-cases, or you are simply using intersex and/or non-binary people as a cudgel to hurt trans women with.

Misandry is not real and neither is transandrophobia/transmisandry/whatever you want to try calling it. If you are peddling these terms you are spreading misogyny and transmisogyny whether you mean to or not. If this makes you mad, block me, move on, and hopefully go research the subject on your own time. If this confuses you, feel free to ask. I never turn away genuine curiosity.

"Good faith identities" is a dogwhistle for transmisogyny. If you, as a TME individual, are calling yourself a femboy, lesboy, transfem, or anything else along those lines, then you are treating transfemininity like your own personal aesthetic to play with when it suits you. It is functionally no different from a radqueer trying to claim they are transrace. Transfemininity is not some special third gender for you to stick in your wardrobe.

This blog is very firmly pro-paraphilia. No, I don’t fucking care which ones. They’re all fine as long as you aren’t causing harm. Some of yall desperately need to learn the difference between what constitutes material harm and what just "feels icky".

I will block creeps, bigots, assholes, or anyone who gives me those vibes even if not explicitly clear. TERFs and other transmisogynists are blocked on-sight, even if they never directly interact with me.

If you think I have wrongly blocked you, that's too bad and you're gonna have to deal with it. For you it might be a minor annoyance, but as a trans woman on this site it is a very real matter of safety for me.

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[foone]

the five trauma reactions: fight, flight, freeze, fawn, and mating

[virtualgirladvance]

id like if we could keep the alliteration going but i dont know if anyone has made an f word for mating

[bean-face]

They haven't sorry

[virtualgirladvance]

thats fucked up

[godpup]

wait why did the transmisogynist detector flag you as a transmisogynist? probably for the transmisogyny

[bitchautism]

shocking considering such great posts as this ☝️

[magic-the-girlbossing]

Nigel Farage 'unaware Parliamentary investigation would restart' after by-election - report

As it turns out, Nigel Farage might have wasted most of his summer by spending it fighting with a man wearing a bin on his bonce.

endlessly amused that Farage seems to think he's a Magic: The Gathering card

[magic-the-girlbossing]

blunder of the century: Farage plays Ephemerate into non-targeted removal

[aliceinchains]

[goomythestrategist]

mahiro be like "i totally don't want to be a girl" immediately after chugging her estrogen

[kalina-c]

Still not over the fact that Studio Bind reinterpreted this scene to give it more reverence

[spinejackel]

I recently found my “gold” hammer after misplacing it. It’s my favorite tool ever because it looks like a regular hammer trying to be fancy,

but then you twist both halves and unscrew it to find a flat-head screwdriver in the middle.

BUT, if you twist the very end and unscrew that

you find a phillips screwdriver.

BUT DON’T THINK THAT’S ALL THERE IS! THERE’S MORE!! unscrew the very end again to find a smaller flat-head screwdriver!

BUT THAT’S STILL NOT THE END!!

unscrew the end of this screwdriver to find a final, teeny tiny, flat-head screwdriver

look at how cute it is!

it’s like a matryoshka doll of tools.

[sexboobomb]

My parents had one of these! Was always the coolest thing to me as a kid. It got lost many years ago when we moved, but I still think about it sometimes

[donjuaninhell]

I swear, some of you people somehow manage to possess all of the three most unfortunate character traits someone can have: a) kinda stupid, b) obnoxiously contrarian, c) deeply annoying.

[tockthewatchdog]

stuff you say when you don’t give a fuck about women quite frankly

[cardassiangoodreads]

Hence the not-uncommon adage that the washing machine did even more for women's liberation than the birth control pill

[fthgurdy]

Re: the last post, the article mentions that some places use clams to test the toxicity of the water. It’s like that in Warsaw- we get our water from the river, and the main water pump has 8 clams that have triggers attached to their shells. If the water gets too toxic, they close, and the triggers shut off the city water supply automatically.  

The clams are just better at measuring the water quality than any man-made sensors.

Edit: check out this documentary trailer : https://vimeo.com/408820791

[zvaigzdelasas]

God Bless Our Troops

[looksmokin]

They hot glued a spring to a clam and gave it full control over the water supply

[sindri42]

No of course not, that would be ridiculous.

They hot glued springs to eight clams and gave them collective control over the water supply.

[strangetikigod]

No of course not, hot glue would kill the clams.

The used silicone adhesive to attach springs to eight clams and gave them collective control over the water supply.

[emily84]

[sleepyjump]

hour 3 of therapy: and sometimes, doc, i feel like i'm up against the dive rocket launcher without an angry pumpkin to handle any of it. how am i supposed to be the architect and/or builder of my future when-

therapist, through gritted teeth: and once again, that's the end of your time. please put that 20 dollar bill away. i already told you you can't extend the meter. it doesn't work like parking.

me: i PROMISE i'm almost at the part where i intend to harm myself or others

the visibly erect therapist, one hand on The Button and the other mysteriously absent: f-f-fine. okay. fifteen,, fifteen more m-minutes. but if you keep fucking edging me like this i'm gonna mark your gender dysphoria as Cured

[sexboobomb]

I deserve an award for blocking shithead transmisogynists and ableists instead of going 10 replies deep arguing with them actually. Someone give me $509

[talontarget]

jkr is literally posting upskirt photos to her social media. when will it finally get through to harry potter fans that their support makes her feel confident and correct enough to do things like this

[demilypyro]

seeing people unironically talk about maintaining the egg prime directive in current year

[demilypyro]

don't worry about it girlie go back to sleep

[meow-moment]

i do not minmax i do not play competitively i do not optimize my build i do not grind i do not topscore i do not give a shit about leaderboards. i play to have fun and if im not having fun i go do something else

[theknightlywolfe]

Reminder:

Police are using sonic weapons against protesters that can cause permanent hearing loss

LRADs, a sound-producing device used to control crowds, can inflict permanent damage on subjects

[animentality]

[energyprison]