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You are unexplored, unusual, and terrifyingly beautiful. And only a few will know how to love you without breaking you and making you dangerous.

Nikita Gill (via sexual-feelings)

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theslaybymic

Revolutionary period underwear makers Thinx heard your feedback about being more inclusive and are acting accordingly. In addition to raising awareness about trans men and others who get their periods besides women, they’re updating their product line to be more accommodating.

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danieltflynn

this is the first animation I’ve done in a year

deeplystained

If your blog has music that plays automatically, there’s a very good chance that I hate you.

If it’s “Sail” by AWOLNATION, or “Radioactive” by Imagine Dragons, I definitely hate you.

deeplystained

apparently 2012-2013 tumblr was really rough for me

poyzn

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shesgotwhatittakes

While cleaning out my room I found a paper that my therapist gave me some time ago to deal with obsessive and intrusive thoughts. Sorry the paper is a little crinkled and stained, but I figured I’d post it in hopes that it will help someone like it helped me.

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Here it is again with text for anyone who can’t see the picture

That thought isn’t helpful right now.

Now is not the time to think about it. I can think about it later.

This is irrational. I’m going to let it go.

I won’t argue with an irrational thought.

This is not an emergency. I can slow down and think clearly about what I need.

This feels threatening and urgent, but it really isn’t.

I don’t have to be perfect to be OK.

I don’t have to figure out this question. The best thing to do is just drop it.

It’s OK to make mistakes.

I already know from my past experiences that these fears are irrational.

I have to take risks in order to be free. I’m willing to take this risk.

It’s OK that I just had that thought/image, and it doesn’t mean anything. I don’t have to pay attention to it.

I’m ready to move on now.

I can handle being wrong.

I don’t have to suffer like this. I deserve to feel comfortable.

That’s not my responsibility.

That’s not my problem.

I’ve done the best I can.

It’s good practice to let go of this worry. I want to practice.

twloha

“I don’t have to be perfect to be OK.”

huffpost

Why We Need To Talk About White Feminism

Have you ever wondered what White Feminism is? Are you vaguely familiar with the term, but still unclear on what it actually means – and how it affects you?

WATCH the full video to give you a brief, basic introduction to White Feminism, and explain why we need to start talking about it more.

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maleele

Yes

aura218

This is Iron Jawed Angels, about the suffragette movement in America. It’s honest and real and pulls no punches. I think it’s avail online and you should totally watch it.