"While the pictures describe the vulnerability of our aging, corporeal selves, they also describe the sensual and sexual pleasures to be had in life, seemingly right next to us, just for the asking—kissing, stroking, touching, embracing, hugging, eating, bathing, enjoying sex.
The formation of female identity is another of the book’s themes. We see it in the Snow-White–red lips of Carucci’s mother, the body-binding panty hose, the hooks of a bra across her mother’s back, the bleach cream erasing the dark hair of Carucci’s stomach, a shaved armpit, the plucking (ouch!) of a nipple hair, and a woman’s upper eyelashes being bent by an eyelash curler branded with the name “Revlon”—branding being a fair description of the activities woman engage in to be considered adequately female."