Confessions

We all have secrets, some good, some bad; But it is our secrets that silently hold us together. To submit your confession click the confess button below and leave it anonymously!

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2841. If my mom was half as caring to me as she is her dog, she'd be a good parent.

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2838. I was emotionally abused my whole life by my mother. When I try to talk to someone about her, one of the first things they say is "Look at how she was raised, though." But my cousins weren't abused... and my aunts/ uncles all had the same parents.

[outragevent]

so you can grow stronger or act weaker.

those are your choices.

hell, maybe talk to a therapist.

you are not your cousins.

your mother is not your fucking aunt.

your mother’s “emotional abuse” of you does not excuse your actions, now or in the future. quit making other people’s failures crutches for your own.

[kismetics-deactivated20161114]

Oh my GOD your response to this is actual trash.

[crisgetsfitnfab]

yeah what the actual fuck? stating that you were emotionally abused by your mother and confused that people think it’s because of the way she was raised when people raised by the same parents don’t act the same way is in no shape or form acting weaker or making excuses for your actions. you can have fucking feelings and have a past and talk about it and wonder about it and it may change the way you see some things and may change who you are but to simply say feeling like that is making other people’s failures crutches for your own is rude and insensitive and frankly fucked up. this is a space for people to express their feelings, how dare you make someone feel like any less of a person for wondering about the emotional abuse they endured. 

[marinalikesbutts]

They’re not talking about their actions, when did they state that? No crutches mentioned for them just fact. Do not put “emotional abuse” in fucking quotations, wow. They’re confessing that their mom abused them and OTHERS excuse the MOTHERS actions based off of a childhood that seemingly affected no one else. That is a crutch given to the mother even though she is abusive and taken away from the confessor. This response IS trash. Original commenter should feel bad.

[kismetics-deactivated20161114]

Thank you guys for being supportive and defending me because this is actually my confession to begin with.

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I’m real glad other people jumped in to defend you! I blocked the person, so I’m not positive if they are seeing the notes on this post but I hope they are. Not only did they read the confession wrong, but they made an ass out of themselves. If you ever need anything feel free to message any of the confessaway staff. Okay? Chin up buttercup, we’re here for you. <3

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A note from the staff:

Hi guys, I noticed a pretty rude reblog of one of our submissions. I just want you to know that it’s been taken care of and while we can’t delete his reblog and comment, the user has been blocked. I want you to know we don’t condone rude behavior on submissions and I hope you all feel comfortable still knowing action will be taken.

We love you all, and if you ever need us you know where to find us <3

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2840. The biggest lie I tell all the time is "I'm sorry"-- my abuser forces my to apologize constantly but I'm not sorry at all for standing up for myself.

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2839. Sometimes I don't know if I really want to be in a relationship or if I want to break up. You've changed.

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2838. I was emotionally abused my whole life by my mother. When I try to talk to someone about her, one of the first things they say is "Look at how she was raised, though." But my cousins weren't abused... and my aunts/ uncles all had the same parents.

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2837. Loving and being loved and accepting and believing that someone actually loves you is one the the hardest things in life. I just hope this lasts because I don't ever want to lose you, you handsome human, handsome in every sense of the word. I love you.

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2836. Sometimes at night I get SO anxious and hypervigilant that I feel like I hear a whisper in every noise.

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2835. I feel like if I had never been abused, I wouldn't have this horrible anxiety disorder. I feel like my abuser stole my life from me.

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2834. I hate how over protective my father is and won't accept my boyfriend simply because I'll always be his "little girl" and how my mother won't accept him because he is Muslim and I am catholic. This doesn't give you the right to treat me like shit. You're pushing me away more you asshole. I hate you.

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2833. What is the point of loving a damaged person when in the end it backfires and they're not who they were from the start... Damaged, unconfident, hurt people are the absolute worst when you make them better.

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2832. I honestly don't want to be here anymore. Yet... I just can't kill myself. I feel so useless it's not even necessary for me to do so. I feel so unloved that I don't care how or when I die. I'm stuck in such a terrible situation; I'm severely depressed, I have to spend the rest of my life without the person I love, and I know that she never loved me & I still miss her. That's either how much she means to me or how little I think of myself. Also, I'm going nowhere with my dream. I hate living.

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2831. I'm only 20 but homeless and a full time college student. Somehow I go through every day with enough strength that everyone thinks I'm so put together and successful, and I get good grades, but they don't know how hungry I am or that I have to "shower" in public bathrooms with hand soap. They don't know how humiliated I feel every single day, and I feel like if someone did, if someone understood that it would help so much. I can't wait to be stable some day. I work so hard I just want it to end.

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2830. Spent the New Year's Day violent and lonely, drunk and sad. It's been 10 months now... yet, I just don't feel right. How I wish you had been there by my side instead of somewhere else. I heard from a friend you were gonna move away. To another state or just your new bf's house, it's all the same. I really wish our last words to each other weren't so cruel, I wish this wasn't how life turned out for me. I wish this wasn't how we ended. Wherever you're gonna go, I love you always.

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2829. im not homophobic what so ever but i honestly hate gay ships- it's just not right i don't understand what the pleasure is in it. especially when they ship two individuals that are clearly straight.

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2828. I finally have a boyfriend. He loves me so much and tells me all the time. He's amazing and I have no right to ask for anything more. But I don't know if I'll ever love him back. I mean how do you really know? There's another guy. I can't stop thinking about him. But all my friends hate him. And I hate him but at the same time there's something about him I can't shake. And I hate myself for still talking to him and for thinking about him

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2827. I keep remembering how when we first met, you didn't really know what to get me on my birthday. You got me a small bottle of nutella and it was wrapped in toy story gift wrap. You remembered those things about me. For once, I had such a lovely girl by my side, someone who actually bothered. Now, we haven't spoken in 9 months and you're with someone else. I miss who you were, the girl who wanted me back. Your best days are my worst, I dove too deep while you were wading. You're gone, forever.....