I hate hate hate hate how many people view the ace community as "coaches not players" and "freaky people who don't fuck (or maybe they do because aces can have sex too!!!!1!!!1!!!!) but write the filthiest smut".
I hate how I tell people I'm asexual and their reaction is "oh so you're just freaky but you don't act on it".
I'm asexual. I lack a sexuality. I lack desire, drive, libido, and attraction, although I acknowledge that only lack of attraction is necessary for asexuality. I do not want anything to do with sex, fictional or otherwise. I'm not a fucking "coach", I am not a sexual creature.
I hate how asexuality has become sexualized.
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