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if you see this please answer, i would love to get as much honest feedback as possible. (going to be up for a week, reblog’s are appreciated lots <3)

1. would you watch a youtube channel / tiktoks of someone who posts motivational rants / vents from experience, but also ties astrology into it as well?

2. sprinkled in with fun breaks like “how to do your makeup based on (rising sign, venus sign ect) and then explain the difference between the “theories” behind it? look books based on different aspects as well?

think older sister who gives advice, but also hangs out casually, kinda like what this blog is like for me :)

Poll:

1 only

2 only

both 1 & 2 interest me

Voting ended onApr 19, 2025

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thanks for voting on this, sending a virtual kiss to everyone who did *MWAH*

i got my lighting system + microphone out of storage, and already have the first handful of sit down talks / rants planned. i am out of town until mid may but plan on filming & editing as soon as i am back home, and should be uploading things come late may early june <3

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Unfortunately you can always tell when someone doesnt read. Like yeah that thought is def a non-reader thought. You should have kept that one to yourself buddy.

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When i find out someone is talking behind my back i am not even insulted by what they said, but rather insulted that they think i am insecure where i would dictate my self of sense and worth on their opinion??

Like ur opinion of me is none of my business.

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Day and age of Ozempic and every celebrity walking around with their bones sticking out, it is important to me you know this is not normal. It is not normal to see your ribs and sternum. It is not normal to tell yourself you are “strong and healthy” while weltering away.

I would even go as far as stating the facts; of course our patriarch standards want women to be weak. They want us to be bones. They trick you into thinking its keeping up with the jones, but really its for their own advantage. If you cant see this, you have been fooled to.

You should have some fat on you. You should have muscles. You shouldn’t be nothing more than pale flesh over bones. This is not normal.

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A week before I turned 26 I packed up my daughter and I’s entire life into 2 XL suitcases and moved back to California. It’s never “too late” to decide you want something different.

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Btw its literally never “too late” for anything. Thats made up. You get to decide your life, nobody else. The time will pass anyway.

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This is going to be extremely vulnerable but when animal crossing was released i had a discord / group-chat that was somewhat successful, a sense of community. As updates came out we would connect again, and play.

Tale as old as time, we get adult responsibilities and our lives just happen. Its been years, and with the new update… i feel so sad. The option of a dream island to play with friends and all i can think about is how i do not have anyone to play with.

And not in a sad self loafing “woes me” way. Just, lonely i guess. Its weird to think when this game came out vs comparing to today and how heavy my heart feels thinking of everyone i dont speak to anymore.

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Emily in Paris is now Emily in Rome with an eating disorder :/

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Stay away from people with no sense of self or identity because they will attempt to (key word here) take as much from you, and away from you as possible.

They don’t know who they are and admire that you know who you are, so why not try and “fake it till you make it!” By attempting to be more like you too?

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Girl whatever go look at the moon

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I live life by a six month rule. If I do not talk to someone in six months, they do not know me, and I do not know them.

So much can change in six months. It’s unrealistic to pretend like you know anything about anyone, if you have not been an active participant in their life.

Why would I have beef with, or care what someone is saying about me, if we haven’t spoken in over half a year, or longer? You do not know me, my life, or what I have been doing or will do.

In six months you can change every aspect of your life, so if someone is gossiping about you, cursing your name, or running a smear campaign… let them. They always end up embarrassing themselves with one sided beef, and are being a fool speaking about a version of you who doesn’t exist anymore. No reaction, is a reaction!

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Noooo dont spiral out of control over the things you want to but cant change youre too sexy ;)

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I always feel like I am going fucking insane and then its just an eclipse happening smh

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I think being a little or even a lot fat in a day and age of weight loss drugs and eating disorders being “in” and “trendy” is very chic and hot and punk rock

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I think its actually very normal and cute that women like to look at, and fantasize about owning nice, high quality, expensive things. I think misogyny teaches us to feel ashamed for craving expensive things, or that something is inherently wrong with you if you tend to have an expensive taste. Like yeah I saw this cute necklace. Yeah I saw the price tag. No I am not a materialistic gold digging bitch for liking it. Does that mean I need to own it?? No.

Need and wants are different. Just because I want something solely because I like it, doesn’t mean I see it as a need too.

I hate that there are woman who subject themselves to feeling shame towards liking and wanting to look at nice things for the sake of making themselves smaller and “not materialistic”

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You will be going through the most traumatic shit imaginable and ppl will get mad that you arent devoting all your time and attention to them. Like I am sorry but not this entitlement is not “protecting your peace” you are actually a huge asshole for thinking everyone has to perform for you 24/7 and the moment that someone goes off script you run to tarnish their reputation? What is with this mindset???

I have had this happen twice to me where I will be going through something and communicate that I am distant because I am processing something traumatic and instead of being met with empathy, I am met with this gasping how “DARE you not pay attention to me! Fake friend! Secret hater!” Smear campaign.

I want to shake you by the shoulders and say GROW UP!! I fear apart of life and apart of being human is understanding that sometimes people just need space. Not because they hate you. Not because they secretly dont want to be your friend. But because they need to process. How can i talk or tell you what is happening or how i am feeling if even i dont know or have the answer? I just wish that this weirdo mentality of “secret haters” and “secret animosity” was instead replaced with “hey they are distant and i know they said xyz is happening, hope they are good”.

Like we need to be kinder and more empathetic, not selfish and cruel.