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@constantqueercrisis
SO weird to me that the default assumption in modern fandom is that you must be attracted to your favorite characters. nah man those are just my funky little guys and gals i want to study them under a microscope. i want to put them in a mason jar and shake it and see what happens
it's december now, and the holiday season is rough on a lot of people. don't forget to check on your friends -- you don't know who might have a debilitating christmas fetish
please check in
The Princess Bride (1987) dir. Rob Reiner
Long time no see Tumblr. Quick guide on coloring deeper skin tones
"Enid, the mark you have left on me is indelible. any time i grow nauseous at the sight of a rainbow or hear a pop song that makes my ears bleed, ill think of you."
The Signals:
if i ever visited the sacred groove, it would be to commit blasphemy and make out with a girl
I'm never going to forgive the church for making me ashamed to be human.
Paris trip 🥹🥹🥹🥹
(Reblogs are allowed, but please don’t repost )
hey uhhh but fr the concept of fallen angels existing but risen demons being an impossibility is kind of a great summary of sin in christianity
holy shit
no, no, come back here and tell me how stupid it is to talk about how the power dynamics inherent to christianity are built upon the rhetoric that failure is unavoidable and there is never enough you can do to make up for it
Sorry if this is a too nsfw question, but what are your thoughts on kink/masturbation? I accidentally discovered I was into both as a late teen and have stayed as far away as possible, knowing I need to keep the Law of Chastity. It's gotten difficult because I've discovered I'm aro and I just feel more and more like I won't ever have a romantic partner, so no opportunity to experience/enjoy that part of mortality. Am I going to unhappy with this for the rest of my life?
I’m now in my 50′s and I’ve observed most everyone finds someone. As my aunt puts it, “Every pot finds a lid.”
I have an ace friend who married and had to negotiate with their partner about the role of sexual activity in their relationship. While sex wasn’t important to my friend, sex was important to their partner. My friend was not sex repulsed, so they collaborated together to find ways to satisfy the partner’s needs in a way that didn’t demean or harm my ace friend.
Regardless of romantic attachment styles, a person can still experience love. Aro people still have social needs, and need emotional support and community.
As an aro person, you can be in a healthy, satisfying relationship without needing romance. Many people do have an emotional need for romance. This is something to discuss with potential partners.
It’s possible for you to enjoy the activities commonly considered romantic even if they don’t prompt romantic feelings in yourself. Because it’s not meeting a need for you, romantic gestures may not be something you’re prone to do spontaneously, but knowing it’s important to your partner/spouse means you can choose to do things to help meet their needs and expectations.
Successful relationships require a lot of collaboration, compromise, learning what your partner needs and them learning what you need.
What behaviors are considered romantic vary by culture. For example, in the United States, romantic partners are more likely to hold hands. In South Korea, friends hold hands (yes, even two male friends), it’s not a romantic behavior. I point this out because regardless of a person’s romantic orientation, most humans are wired to seek physical connection with others in some form. The amount of physical affection enjoyed varies by individual. One problem single queer people have, particularly in the church, is they are touch starved.
I understand that the rest of the world seems obsessed with romance and that can be intimidating as you think about your future possibility for relationships, it’s not a deal breaker. There’s no reason to think you can’t find happiness in a loving relationship with a partner. The main obstacle to finding such a relationship is if you don’t put yourself out there to meet and date people, if you’re willing to do that, I think the chances are very high you’ll be successful in finding someone to love.
You asked for my thoughts on masturbation and kink.
I’ve posted several times about masturbation, here’s 2 posts I think may be helpful in how to view masturbation: #1 and #2.
A friend recently told me their Mission President said it’s a good thing he doesn’t have to send people home for masturbating, otherwise they’d have to shut down the mission. Similarly, if men were considered unworthy for masturbating, ward boundaries would have to be dramatically enlarged in order to find enough men worthy to hold all the callings needed for a ward to function. In other words, it’s a normal, natural behavior a majority of people engage in, whether single or married and regardless of age.
I don’t have much to share about kink other than everyone involved needs to provide consent, they need to be willing to participate and not shamed into it.
"You shouldn't mock spiritual beliefs!"
Like... any of them???
My old Baptist church believes that women can't experience sexual pleasure. I'm gonna mock that belief until I die and I hope people continue mocking them for it after. I will wave a dildo at a pastor, see if I don't.
Some spiritual beliefs are A) straight up provably incorrect, B) bigoted / prejudiced / immoral / harmful, or C) the awful combo of both.
Sure, you shouldn't mock someone for their harmless personal beliefs, but the instant they start hurting people with them I'm breaking out the memes idc
