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DO NOT DM ME. USE ASKS EXCLUSIVELY.

i do not answer DMs ever. use asks, ill reply privately.

if youre here for tits, follow corneille-cornue instead 💖

first off, house rules :

do not follow me if you want to lose weight on purpose

i would prefer men not to follow me, i block easily, but if you behave, i guess you can stay

no dms, only asks.

also ffs dont interact with my posts if your blog is empty (im blocking you anyway)

and now for the actual intro part :

im Corvidae, Crow for short

born in '88, in so called Canada, white, tabarnak

tme, intersex, non binary, demigender, lesbian, demisexual, polyamorous (saturated atm !!!!)

they/them pronouns only, unless i told you otherwise. no masculine terms. (al/ielle, si vous êtes pas trop chiche, s'vous plaît)

i have a spouse whos not here + im dating @spookytransgirl as well 💜💜

autism, adhd, cptsd, ocd, and a lot of other comorbids, you know...

this blog is pro trans, pro sw, pro hoes, pro choice, pro fat, pro self-diagnosis, acab, and no one is free until everyone is free 🍉

this is main, i also run @mouldymp3rotations because i like sharing the music i listen to, and, as seen on top, @corneille-cornue cause i sometimes like being naked on the internet :3

im also on last.fm, sometimes on bluesky. mutuals can add corneillemoisie on discord 💖

now, im not a reliable tagger, but here are some relevant tags i try to keep up with (my own posts should all be tagged accordingly though) :

show of face, if you wanna see my face

forest of rambles, if youre interested in my ramblings

my cats, if you wanna see my cats, Wendy and Storm

answering anons, to keep tracks of anons

a visual kei post (you will see me active in the schwarz stein/hora/kaya tags sometimes !), a music post, a movie post, a tv show post, a goth post, a decor post, a flora post, an art post, a video game post, a fanart post, a handmade post, a fashionable post, a historical post, a corvid post, a bat post, a feline post, a writing post, are all tags that are recuring here

im currently disabled and unable to work, you can help, though ! or directly through ppal or interac transfer at trucydae.theadviling at gmail dot com. thank you for helping !!!

vamplire

Carroll Borland as Luna in Mark of the Vampire (1935)

stlamb

lumpenmole

It's strange to think of it this way, but the first part of covid was likely the best part of my life. Being disabled it was the first time everyone was on the same playing field. I got a remote job. People were not only willing, but eager to hang out remotely or in small groups. I never got sick. I never had to drive. The stimulus finally paid off my credit debt... fuck Biden... Fuck Trump. Fuck the entire Epstein class. I want my village back.

covid-safer-hotties

This is the thing about "back to normal" that makes my blood boil. We showed disabled folks what community care looked like for a few months, then most people started treating anyone trying to perpetuate such practices as freaks. Society accidentally brought disabled people into broader society before purposefully blowing up all the places that new, more inclusive society met. Because community sans profit is bad, right? People will treat zoom or discord calls like a threat instead of a way to hang out with their friends, and all that means is disabled people are even more isolated than before. And that means disabled voices get drowned out in a sea of coughs and crappy, formulaic "content".

thatdiabolicalfeminist

obvs it can be annoying for others when people don't understand something "obvious"

but I do wish people would hold more grace for people who are "stupid"

as my cognitive & memory symptoms get worse I'm seeing myself in these stories more and more

the woman who is visibly confused in public and doesn't see the sign right next to her and asks the same question multiple times because she doesn't understand the answer or is failing to communicate the question she actually means to ask.

the person who enters a building and has to ask if she's found the right place, because she's too overwhelmed to put together the "obvious"

the person who is polite and respectful but who still needs something explained three different ways before she gets it.

and I get the frustration, I really do.

but the next time you see a "total idiot" in public who clearly genuinely has no idea what's going on, please just try to remember that it sucks to be that person too.

and as someone who has no choice about being that person, it sucks to see post after post ripping into people for just being confused in public. Not rude or entitled, just confused.

Obvs I'm not saying people shouldn't vent or laugh online at anonymous strangers who will never see it. Especially when they ARE rude or entitled!

I just feel like I'm seeing a lot more posts about "stupid people" recently and half the time "being stupid" was the only thing they did to piss ppl off and...

Idk sometimes it just comes across as really mean.

If you knew that "stupid" person was confused bc they're disabled, would you be just as mean?

If not, please consider: why on earth would you expect to always know when a stranger in public is disabled?

People are generally trying their best. Even those who aren't disabled—u don't know what their day is like!

Do you think YOU could think clearly on the worst day of your life?

Have you ever been so upset you barely know what's going on? Ever had to run errands while coming off anaesthesia or while a loved one is dying or while your scary newly-ex is blowing up your phone with threats or god, even just when you'd been up all night and feel like shit?

Giving people grace when and how you can is an incredibly rewarding practice. I want us all to be given that grace when we most need it.

decompositie

Bats and Brugmansia by Erica Peebus Her website where she sells this print.

maybemayii

Jacob Anderson talking about the icons that shaped his Louis — Grace Jones & Eartha Kitt (Part ll)

gacougnol

Yasuhiro Yoshioka

From "The Garden of Sodom"

Photobook 1971

d-7th

I have 3 days left to pay a $400 bill and I barely make $30 a day if I’m lucky

storyweavingspider

Hey, my friend Thorn really needs some help and I’d appreciate it if you could at least reblog this if you can’t donate. I’d like them to get more than that $400 because they been goin through it in a way that’s racked up debt beyond that, and they can’t catch a fucking break ever.

So if you’ve ever wanted to toss money my way for anything I’ve written/done, toss it to them right now rn instead. And if you can’t? Reblog this so someone else can.

lumberjackloverboy-moved

for my fellow psychotics who struggle with thinking someone is in their house, a method I’ve found that really works are these guys:

i put them on my front door and anytime it opens they ring. that way if i think someone has broken in or i see someone who isn’t there i can think back to if the bells have rung, and if they haven’t i can assure myself it’s not real. obviously it’s not fool proof, like if you are prone to auditory hallucinations, but it has really helped me calm down in time to avoid major psychotic breaks. it’s a real lifesaver

nonpsychotics encouraged to rb

obscuredesireofbourgeoisie

Kyo of Dir en grey x Ba-tsu Club collab (the ties were the collab items but all clothing items featured in the photoshoot are by Ba-tsu) photoshoot and interview featured in Zipper September 1999, Volume 74.

mouldymp3rotations

0426-031

You know, I thought the playlist format was a good idea to go through all I'm downloading, and is also giving me regular content to put on this blog rather than me having to kind of wing it every time. Win/win situation, really. This month i listened to one album/ep a year, counting down from 2025 to 1963, all genre, no repeated artists.

Now, a couple new things :

Youtube is asking me to login to "prove I'm not a bot" and I'm not gonna do that, so there will only be a preview of the songs in posts if tumblr lets me upload them. Otherwise, previews always were available on the mega download link for individual files ♪

I'm going to slowly start x-posting these on ko-fi, cause I figured it made sense, considering the work I put into this 🤔 DO NOT WORRY I am NEVER going to paywall my little project, but I will put a link for tips on each post.

But, as usual : Song titles link to individual mp3 file preview and download

All 5 songs can also be downloaded together in a zip file from the link at the bottom

So there's all I listened to, and here↓ are my highlights :3

The Jimi Hendrix Experience - Spanish Castle Magic

So like, on paper I knew that blues had led to metal, but I was missing the link between blues and 70's metal. I think I found it, now ! I'm really glad I listened this, it really was missing to my culture ! Little Miss Lover, Wait Until Tomorrow, and If 6 Was 9 are also very much so worth listening~

Spanish Castle Magic was on the Axis: Bold As Love album, from 1967 (thought that was my entry for '68 cause I guess I downloaded the american edition lol)