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Okay so my name is Jaci, to those of you that do not know. I am a 21 year old female and have been struggling with kidney failure for 2 years now. Most people do not this about me because I think I am disgusting for it. My father, the only person I believe that honestly cared about me died 2 years ago of cancer. About around the same time I started having kidney failure. He was cremated and gave his ashes to me (why me) in his will. He was to be spread out on his family's home in Ireland (I've been there 3 times and can not afford to go back now) His urn has been sitting in my home for 2 years now. And it depresses me out sooo much sometimes. 1. because my mother and sister(twin, yes my twin) hates me for it. To make it worse it's mothers day. I know if I call my mom she will just be silent then hang up. Anyway they both hate me because while my dad was sick I didn't have the strength to go visit them. And they are upset that he gave me the urn. On to the next story.
Because of my kidney failure I have to go through dialysis 2 times a week. If you don't know what that is, you're lucky. It's the worst most disgusting thing ever. They basically take my blood, clean it through a machine, then put my blood back in me. One of my kidneys is completely dead or near death. I have this tube in my stomach all the damn time. This is why I feel gross. I feel ugly and disgusting. Dialysis makes me soo weak, tired, and depressed. Then I have to come home and know/see my dad's urn. Next story.
I have a eating disorder. And it comes whenever I'm feeling extra depressed like now. I basically eat healthy. Good right? No. I take it to the extreme. No meat, no soda, no juice, no milk, no salt, no pepper, no seasonings. When I cook my veggies I barely cook it. So it's not like I'm anorexic. I'm not. I don't care how much I eat. I care that what I'm eating is.... pure? Clean? I guess I don't know. It's just not good for you. My body isn't getting all the nutrients I need.
I'm literally always in pain. Advil? Tylonel? Please. It seriously feels like someone is running me over back and forth with their car. The pain is so intense sometimes. And it's not that pain where it hurts then goes away. No. I'm in pain every second of the day, every day. I feel a bit better when I get dialysis. Sometimes my belly even extends. It's just too much for me. And my eating disorder doesn't help this at all. And of course, I mainly get this disorder when my kidneys piss me off. Pain is not the only problem with this. My body is really just shutting down. But I'm waiting for a kidney. I've been waiting for 2 fucking long years. And I have no one to talk to that knows about this. Only my sister, mom, and dad knew. So I feel really alone.
I've attempted suicide a few times. It's just hard to live with all this pressure. Feeling alone. Knowing your mother truly hates you. At this point in this post I am crying my eyes out because I'm telling you all my deepest secrets. I really feel that should go take a whole bunch of meds and then drink every single aclholhic drink I have. Wouldn't that be a perfect mother's day present to my mom. I be she wouldn't shed a damn tear.