If ur under 18 get the hell out of here, I don't want you here and neither does the law. Please and thank you. I do not consent to minors interacting with my blog. I do not consent to R.adfems and/or other bigots interacting either. Full dni further down.
Everything on this blog is Strictly Fantasy and/or consensual acts between adult individuals.
NOTE: I am absolutely notorious for drafting posts to reblog later and then forgetting. So if you see me reblog a post of yours from months ago if not longer - that's why. I'm so sorry :V
I've queued a bunch recently, so yeah :p
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- DNI List-
No Minors or ageless! Under 18? Don't have your age visible in bio or pinned? Get blocked.
detrans kinks / beliefs [if u detransitioned urself, that's fine as long as u don't force it on others.]
"men dni" type people. I dont trust you. Also I am one?? Fuck off pls n thx
Eating disorder / "thinspo" blogs. Stay away from me, thanks, and also seek help. Please. [I say this as someone who legit nearly died from an eating disorder that still affects me]
Radfems / TERF / SWERF of any sort
Also; Harry Potter / JKR diehards.
General bigotry stuff obviously :V
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- More About Me -
Submissive [and mostly bottom]
Sadistic and Masochistic
Queer as fuck
Kinky to a fault
Polyam + partnered
All-around h0rny boi
- My Partners -
🦊 - A - he/his - nesting partner - not on Tumblr
👺 - E - he/his - partner - not on Tumblr
🔮 - J - they/them - partner - @pet-mouse
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- My Tags -
#WraithPosting.txt -> my text posts
#Mutt.img -> my pics
#Asks.txt -> Asks I've responded to before
- Post types -
#Fandom stuff -> cmon. Its obvious.
#Friends -> posts from/about my friends + mutals
#Gif -> animated images
#Img -> Any and all images
#Info -> Information + resources
#Ppl tag -> irl photos/gifs/vids
#Sillyposting -> silly stuff. Duh.
#Stories -> stuff on the longer side
#Text -> words on a screen lol
#Vid -> all videos
Kinks are tagged by #[kink] stuff
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- My Kinks + Limits -
- Kinks -
Not an exhaustive list, at all - adding to it when I remember stuff I need to add! Alphabetical sorting.
Blood play
Bondage [mostly receiving / light to heavy, mummification/encasement]
Boots [mostly combats or cowboy boots, esp if they have spurs]
CNC [multiple styles, including but not limited to somno, free use, + rape play]
Cockwarming [or toy warming]
Denial, edging, and excessive teasing
Dumbification
Fear play [yay scarousal!!]
Fisting + large insertion [cunt]
Gags [esp stuffer and inflatable gags, or being forced to drool in general]
Hypnosis [wish that was practical for my overactive brain]
Inflatable toys [dildos/plugs]
Intox play [alcohol, weed, some other drugs possibly]
Masks [especially gas masks]
Medical play [unethical science my beloved...]
Needle play
Object insertions
Obsession
Overstimulation
Pet play [mainly pup]
Pump toys [nipple / cunt / cock pumps]
Rough body play [wrestling, fighting, being pinned, etc.]
Sadism + Masochism [either side of it]
Scent/musk [mainly sweat+pits]
Size differences [mostly me being smaller, but both are good]
[many aren't exactly practical to do IRL without specific toys or gear, or need a lot of forethought + planning + that, or just can't be done at all lol]
Bimbofication [aka turn me into a living, breathing caricature of a sex doll]
anytime I'm worried about becoming a boring medium ugly man with testosterone I just think of all the boring medium ugly men my awesome beautiful online mutuals want to fuck and I feel better. and a little scared cause I know the other stuff they want to do to those guys
Thinking about fisting. Stretching someone so wide with my fingers and hands, that I can fit my entire arm inside of them. Thinking about inserting my hand flat, and then curling my fingers into a fist while inside of them. Thinking of sliding one arm in, nice and deep, and then slowly stretching them even further with my other hand, until I can fit both arms inside of them. Thinking about double penetration fisting. One arm in their ass and the other in their cunt. Thinking about fucking them hard like that, making them rest their hand over their stomach so they can feel how it bulges. Thinking about prodding at their cervix with my fingers, finding purchase, and forcing it to open for me. Thinking of slowly forcing my hand into their uterus and massaging it from the inside. Thinking of all the cute noises they would make, how they would beg me to stop or slow down, how they cry out and clench hard around me when I make them cum over and over and over.
Toy recommendation for pussy havers who enjoy front hole penetration & the stretch of knots, but don’t necessarily like a lot of movement or longer shafted toys:
This toy in soft literally revolutionized my sex life
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It’s original purpose is as an anal toy, but it’s the perfect shape to be use vaginally. It presses firmly against my gspot (it makes the slightest clench around it insanely pleasurable), and is the most comfortable toy I’ve every tried, even at the biggest size (my favorite). They have the exact shape and girth to give the sensation of being knotted. But the best part? The slim and narrow base is not only more comfortable than round bases, it makes it literally invisible under clothes. I play with this toy nearly every single day. I take naps with it. Wear it while wearing my strap. While getting sucked off by my sub. They’re hands down my favorite toys I’ve ever purchased.
It's such a disappointment that tearing someone's throat out with your teeth kills them. Sex would be so much more fun if we could maul each other and come back from it.
in the mood to be cruelly examined 😳 someone forcing my cunt open with a speculum so far my eyes start to water, while my legs are helplessly bound in place. stroking and prodding inside my wide open hole, teasing and bullying my cervix, rubbing my little dick to watch how much wetter I keep getting. once I'm undeniably needy and slick they open the speculum to the maximum width just to watch me wince as they ruin what used to be my tight pussy. then they can mock how turned on I am while they explain that they're only just getting started, they haven't even touched my asshole yet
Put on this special collar that lets me block your climax with the push of a button. It's okay, I can take it off at any point. Isn't it fun to chase and chase and chase that finish just for me to press the remote and block it right before the peak? And with these controls, I can ruin it so it fizzles achingly into nothing, or I can stall out the edge into a long plateau, or I can just turn it into a brutal edge so you can try again once you catch your breath! Isn't this great? Aren't you having such a good time? I know I am. Maybe you should try again, I might let you finish. I wonder what happens if I block it once you've already started cumming? Doesn't that sound fun?
What was that? You can't remove it? You want me to take it off you? Well, I said I could remove it, but I didn't say I would. Let's just play a little longer, I promise you'll learn to love it! Why don't I plan on removing it tomorrow? Let's talk about it then, okay? Just go on and try again for me. Watching you get close over and over is really getting me off and I want to cum again.
I really want to play with someone who’s a total pervert for gagging subs.
I want to see someone get visibly aroused at my muffled speaking, rendering me mute simply by shoving my own underwear in my mouth. My hands are tied so I can’t take them out myself. I try to spit them out but this only earns me a second pair of underwear pushed in my slutty mouth. Now my jaw is completely stretched open, and I can barely make any noise at all.
To secure these panties they make a quick cleave gag over top of the cloth with a bandana.
They look pretty happy with their work so they grab some cling wrap and start to wrap allll the way around my head, covering the cloth forced into my mouth, and then layering over once, twice, three times.
I breathe deeply and feel the wrap cling to my face, the humidity and heat helping it bond.
“MMMMHMM” I moan, my ability to breathe starting to be limited, only taking short breaths.
They laugh a little to themselves and grab my nose, pinching my nostrils closed. Now I can’t breathe at all.
My eyes shoot open and plead with them, completely at their mercy for one of my most basic needs.
They’re counting out loud now “five, six, seven, eight, nine, ohh cmon this isn’t so bad, stop shaking your head or I’ll start counting over again! Ten, eleven, good doll, twelve—-”
I start shaking my head uncontrollably, panicked because I’m completely out of breath. They finally release their hold on my nose and I’m immediately gasping for air, my poor nostrils doing all they can to get my brain the oxygen it needs. I can feel my face is completely flushed, it feels hot and is definitely pink.
I start to cry when I see them pull out duct tape from their backpack. This is total sadistic torture but it makes me wet to know how much they’re getting out of this.
I try to wiggle away but they hold me with a steel grip, starting to wind the duct tape around my gagged mouth once, twice, three times, four, five, and they only stop at six because I’m screaming through my layered muffled gag.
The hot tears are still pouring down my face, the crying making it even harder to breathe. My head feels very light and I’m dizzy, actually feeling grateful to be bound or else I’d have collapsed already.
The gag pervert starts touching themselves over their underwear in front of me, very clearly at the sight of my predicament and stress.
After making a proper mess in their undergarments, they place it right over my head like a hood. Of course they put the wet, sticky, pungent crotch part right over my nose and face, even rubbing it in with a rough hand.
With the humiliating addition of the underwear, they now must secure it of course!!
They decide to bring back the cling wrap, slowly wrapping my entire head until it’s encased in clear plastic. I start to panic again, the plastic suctioned to my nostrils as I try as hard as possible to breathe. They notice and touch themselves for a minute at my expense, before relenting and poking two small holes where my nostrils are. I continue to cry, but now out of relief.
I’m begging for air, help, to stop, anything, but it’s to no avail. They love to hear my increasingly muffled protests, it makes them want to gag my slutty mouth even more.
Finally, they decide to wrap the rest of my head with duct tape over the cling wrap. I’m panting, fighting for the smallest breaths, and then I feel them put a small strip of tape over my small air holes. I thrash again after a minute, completely out of instinct. I can barely hear them laugh as they remove the tape, giving me life saving air again. I don’t enjoy it long however, feeling the tape return and the airflow disappear. How cruel can they be?
As they spread my legs and undress me, I can feel them penetrate me as they continue to play with my air supply, and I realize this will be the rest of the night. Or the rest of my life. Either way, it’s not my choice, but theirs.
gangrape that's more like a stray animal emergency rescue mission than rape. i'm thinking "careful careful careful eeeasy" and "he's just scared, poor thing" and "it's okay buddy it's okay we've got you"
The ones that you could be walking deep in a forest one night and all of a sudden i feel a piercing pain in my neck, the spider's forelegs gripping my body like a crushing vice of organic hydraulic systems as i feel venom, wayy too much for my little human body to handle, pumped deep into my muscles and veins, forcing my body to go completely limp and pliable as I'm dragged off to the spider's web, unable to do anything about it
Feeling the spider twirl me around with its legs and wrapping me slowly in tight sticky silk, each twirl tightening the webbing, as I'm too numb to feel pain anymore but with my little cognitive power left i know it's crushing me, clinging to my body like a second skin as the spider forces my legs apart with its pedipalps and stuffs an ovipositor deep inside me and dumping too many eggs to count, stretching my tummy before the spider finishes wrapping me up fully and just forgetting about me in it's web while I'm gagged, blindfolded, and completely useless
And maybe if I'm lucky, the spider could be away long enough for some different insects to have their fun... >////<
Anyway. I think an understated component of the art of submission is mid-scene communication.
I don't mean safewords or expressions of consent or whatever, as important as they may be. I mean the subtler stuff. The little noises and movements, the stimming and staring, the touching and grabbing. How do you communicate your desires? How do you communicate your needs? How do you communicate your enjoyment?
With one partner of mine, I think my favorite thing ever is when it starts hitting the bed beside it out of frustrated arousal. I've seen three subs now that have conditioned themselves to sort of tie their wrists together in mental bondage when they're really down bad and it makes every dom that's seen it go crazy. I've seen subs that drool and stare and subs that just start desperately grabbing and fighting. I've known subs to go nonverbal and make unnoises and even seen subs that start crying. Of course, there's even just watching your word choice simplify or hearing you struggle to speak.
In every case, the most important part, to me, is that something happens and that it's visible and measurable for the dom. Clear, explicit feedback doesn't need to be words. It doesn't need to look like how someone else looks. It should, I think, look like you. And if yours is weird enough, you shouldn't try to change it, you just at most just tell your dom about it. But I think the most important part is that you let it out and that it's impulsive and genuine and from the heart.
Generally, it's hard for a lot of subs to fully "let go" and just start making noises. Of course it's partially your dom's job to help you get there. But I think it's a skill that can be practiced and something you can actively work on even outside of scenes.
Prev yeah you make a really good point and I should've been clearer about that.
I think for the most part the desperate attempt to differentiate between "fake" and "real" responses is a harmful impulse.
Are you familiar with the difference between volitional and spontaneous laughter? Two friends of mine can hear the difference easily, but I've known plenty of people to get mad about it. But volitional laughter is just as important and useful a piece of communication as everything else. If you were to refuse to engage in volitional laughter, you'd be the one in the wrong.
Similarly, I think we must recognize that volitional noises and responses. The responses that you didn't have to give but chose to give. Are also important and useful communicative tools. They're cues and tools and really valuable to your dom. It's a noise you made, therefore it's real.
Further, uh. I think part of the way you train yourself to make spontaneous noises more is to let the volitional ones out. Let yourself be loud. Let yourself scream and moan and never force yourself to be quieter.
And also, like, yeah. Do ask for feedback. Communicating after the scene about it will make all of this so much better and easier.
So like, yeah. Really good tags. Thank you for adding them.
[ID: tags that read as follows: "it’s a skill. i have an ongoing ‘argument’ about ‘faking’ responses in a scene - i don’t think it’s faking to deliberately push past your instinct to suffer quietly (or pleasure) - and if you never make noises before you reach subspace or some other threshold of submission, it’s that much harder to do it naturally. not just noises. stick your butt our when you want to get hit again it’s fun it’s cute. ask your top or don for feedback. make a study of yourself. it’s not just the job of your top or domme to understand how you submit"
You know what's really fucking mean is giving you slow, gentle, teasing oral while I forcefully breed your ass with an uncomfortably big dildo, tracing you with the tip of my tongue, kissing your thighs and tummy while I probe you so hard your hole flexes and you can't stop yourself from whining like a dumb, perverted toy. My tongue teasing away at you, making sure you're hyper aware of the contrast between the sweet, slow teasing of my mouth on you, and the harsh, painful dildo thrusting away inside your vunerable hole
OK FUN FACT i also thought this picture was hilarious when i encountered it a few months ago, so i was curious how it ended up on wikipedia
it turns out the uploader is in fact the woman in the photo (she's uploaded a few other pictures of herself to other articles) and she ran an extremely web 1.0 site on the topic of bondage
this was apparently a long-standing fantasy of hers and she did an entire video plus accompanying photoshoot about it, which was run in a bondage magazine in the 90s and did in fact take place on an abandoned train track. they committed to the bit hard enough that there's even a shot of the sinister villain looming over her with a big document labeled DEED and a pen
the best part is that according to this page, there were two "villains" involved (the woman's two partners, apparently), and the other one was dressed as a gorilla. sadly there are no images of the gorilla kidnapper because that sounds like. even funnier.
anyway i thought this whole thing was kinda cute, lol
Clip-on earring, bought for a very different purpose.
*he/him*
("Adventures in diy" tips: if you copy me on this, be aware that these may have exposed hinges. Don't close them too tightly until you have a proven exit strategy)
