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[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

Have you ever noticed how straight woman tend to romanticize yaoi, and completely ignore yuri? Yuri is literally so underrepresented in fandoms and as a lesbian it kills me.

Also the obsession straight woman have with gay men is lowkey weird, reminds me of straight men wanting to 'turn lesbiand straight.'

then YOU write more yuri. I never say “yuri is bad”. all I say is that I enjoy yaoi, and therefore I read, write and talk about yaoi on my own blog.

if you like yuri, then YOU read, write and talk about yuri. nobody is stopping you.

I am a cis woman, and I am obsessed with my mlm ship — because that’s my passion and my source of comfort. I write because I love my mlm ship, and because these fictional men make me happy (and no, I don’t want them straight, I want them gay and in love with each other). I am not going to apologize for doing whatever makes ME happy for myself and my own enjoyment. I am not here for a stranger’s approval. sorry if you find it weird I guess? I literally don’t know who you are, and a stranger’s opinion is not something I care about. especially when they come into MY house and start telling me what I should or should not do and enjoy.

I’ll continue reading, writing, enjoying and talking about yoai. and you can’t stop me.

again, fanfiction is not an act of activism. do whatever makes you happy, whatever turns you on, instead of trying to shame others for enjoying the thing they enjoy instead of the thing you enjoy.

[kasmikassim]

The submission here is such a dishonest take.

Writing two men being attracted to each other is NOT the same as "wanting to turn lesbians straight". An equivalent of that would be women trying to "turn gay men straight". Which is literally the opposite of what's happening in yaoi ships.

The mental gymnastics in this makes me wonder if OP just wanted an excuse to bash straight women for... not providing free content that YOU specifically want to consume? These people don't owe you anything, Anon. This just reeks of entitlement.

If you think about it for just a second, it makes a great deal of sense why straight women would be attracted to romance stories between gay men. I suggest you try that, Anon, instead of twisting facts to fit your narrative.

The irony of coming into a blog that fiercely advocates against antis - people that shame other people for what they like in fiction - and then proceeding to shame and name-call other people for what they like in fiction - would be funny, if it weren't so sad.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

this and also another anon said it better than I could

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

as a woman, worshipping yaoi is why I was put on this earth

[diidona]

FRANKENSTEIN (2025) : dir. Guillermo del Toro

[writingdose]

i'm sure you get lots of asks but i'm new to the fanfic/tumblr fandom scene. when you say horrific topics like incest and noncon should exist, do you mean they should exist because it happens irl but it shouldn't be romanticized? because if so i agree. i think we should experience reading and/or writing such things. movies and shows have portrayed such acts for years. but i think the problem lies through the fetishization and romanticization of it.

no. I mean romanticize whatever you want. my stance has always been “write whatever you want, however you want.”

not to mention that you can’t always tell if something romanticizes bad things. two people can read the same fic, one can say “this romanticizes non-con”, the other can say, “no, this doesn’t romanticize anything.” it’s all about each person’s interpretation. it’s all subjective.

that said, if someone wants to romanticize bad things in fiction, then go ahead. it’s their rights and their freedom to create whatever they want, however they want. no censorship means nothing is censored, doesn’t matter how it was written/created.

and if these taboo fantasies are someone’s fetish, then as long as they’re not harming anyone in real life, what turns them on is literally none of your business.

incest and cnc kinks have always been one of the most popular kinks, and most people who are into them can separate fiction from reality.

(and if some of them can’t, their inability to separate fiction, kinks and fantasies from reality is not other people’s problem or responsibility.)

fanfiction is not an act of activism. someone’s kink and what they do in bed with their consenting partner is not an act of activism. kill the moral cop in your head. fanfiction and kinks don’t have to be “morally correct”. it can be whatever turns a person on, however turns a person on, and as long as no one in real life is harmed, what they do and how they do it is no one’s business.

you don’t have to be comfortable with it. you don’t have to like it. you don’t have to understand it. you just have to mind your own business and not shame or harass others over fiction and fantasies. because otherwise it’ll just make you a bully who wants to find a “morally correct” excuse to shame and harass innocent people.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

not the same but this is the type of energy y’all have trying to tell people fanfics that contain dark content, triggering topics or problematic ships are bad and should not exist

actually I may have made something

[heavensghost]

Slip dress with a poem I wrote about my rabbit sewn on

[aloneandforsakenbyfateandbyman]

The Cynic, the Rat and the Fist (1977)

[tindu]

One

P. S. I just wanted a new pfp

[lovelyheart502]

📸 OliverHalfin

[writingdose]

[alchemillaatnight]

actually as a woman I still think misandry makes you an unpleasant person and if you’re just out there saying shit like “all men should die” or “men’s mental health doesn’t matter” then you’re the type of person I want nothing to do with. also this is not what feminism is about btw, you’re not being a strong girl boss with this ideology, you’re just a bully

[curiositysavesthecat]

Do you think people who enjoy dark/taboo fiction deserve to be shamed and harassed?

Yes, I believe they deserve to be shamed and harassed (anti ship by definition)

No, I don’t think they deserve to be shamed or harassed (proship by definition)

Voting ended onJul 11

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[michaelpfps]

﴾ Dark Shadows (2012) ﴿‏

╰┈➤ 🍷 Barnabas Collins (PFP)

[brokenightlight]

[ultimateanna]

Silent Hill 4: The Room - Otherworld

[thankunexts]

SAMARA WEAVING as GRACE MACCAULLAY Ready or Not (2019) | dir. Matt Bettinelli-Olpin & Tyler Gillett

[imaredshirt]

Gihun: Before I joined the Game again, the Front Man sent me letters for months. Taunting me.

Youngil: Wow. Sounds like he was obsessed with you.

Gihun: I know (ᴗ_ ᴗ。)

Youngil: How many times did you read each letter, looking for clues and hints in his probably immaculate handwriting and very expensive paper?

Gihun: Oh, none. I only read the first one and threw the rest away

Youngil: What

Gihun: I wasn't going to give him the satisfaction of knowing he got to me (•̀⤙•́ )

Youngil: But. So you didn't even see if he drew you soft portraits and wrote you thoughtful sonnets and pressed flowers between the pages and dabbed the paper with really really pricey perfume?

Gihun: Didn't even open them

Youngil: Oh

Gihun: What even makes you think he sent me any of that??

Youngil: i--idk ಥ_ಥ