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great now that it's been a while i wanna say that the way everybody reacted to that anime kpop men controversy was the weirdest, quickest, most biased moral panic i saw in a while and it really made me want to quit this website again. it was uncanny to see bloggers who'd usually (correctly) discourse about the industry dehumanizing idols and expecting them to be products 24/7 turn around and say 'well, if you're gonna list your interests in your stream, you should research every single one and consult a pr agent before opening your mouth'. if you're gonna blindly consume something just because a celebrity mentioned it, feel offended by the content and hold the celebrity personally accountable for your discomfort, the unreasonable and unhealthy end of the idol-fan relationship is you. i saw really intelligent people parroting whatever twt came up with and it underlined yet again why i've become so uncomfortable in here. you can validate a friend's discomfort with a topic while not blowing out of proportion + you need to be able to say "i'm incredibly uncomfortable with x" without feeling genuinely attacked or gaslighted when friends tell you (respectfully) that you're blowing it out of proportion, but honestly i don't feel that about most people i talk to online.

#it was also SO insane as someone who is into anime bc like.#the series in question in mainstream popular - I've seen so many YouTubers and Reddit users rec it while pointing out the. bad aspects