Oh dream maker, you heart breaker...

Where-ever you're going, I'm going your way.... We're after the same rainbows....[main: tootsiepops-and-caramels] (Mobile Carrd link: https://dismie-self-ships.carrd.co/ )

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Heyyo im gonna (at least) take a break from the tumblr selfship community and just ship within a small group of friends. Ill be occasionally active, Its just really negative here and I dont get attention for anything other than shitty imagines from a year ago that im not proud of so. DM for my discord tag or ask off anon if you really want to stay in contact that bad. ✌

[self-ship-madness]

Welcome to the Candy Shop! 

We’re a small, inclusive community centered around self shipping. We’re generally new, but are looking to make new friends and meet new f/os. We have self roles, a professionally set up and organized server, and an experienced owner! We have a variety of bots for fun and server setup. We are system friendly. Don’t worry about rules yet, we have them during the server screening. That being said, we’re anti-proshipper, so don’t even try. We’re accepting of most F/Os, with only the request that you follow the blacklist.

We hope to see you soon!

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SERVER LINK: https://discord.gg/x5Ye8SYv

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server link TWO cause I thought I made that one not expire but it DID

https://discord.gg/DrRShDnruf

reblog this instead :3;;

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Self Ship Café Promo!

Hello, and welcome to Self Ship Café! A little self ship server with lots of big hearts. The doors are now opening to the public! Although there are a few rules.

A self shipping discord server 💘

we’re decently sized, but its fairly quiet! 💞

we have lots of roles to ensure peoples comfort, including locked gush channels for those who share f/os! 💓

we have a screening process, and that starts with this post: please dm for the server invite. 💗

🎶 RULES BEFORE JOINING: 🎶

 no lgbt+phobes, exclusionists, or the like! also includes ppl who are anti neopronouns/xenogenders 💜 familial and platonic shippers are 200% welcome to join! 💛💛

if youre proship/anti anti dont touch this post or server, or I’ll rip your fucking throat out 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

no adults who selfship with minors either (above goes for you too 💕) 

if youre anti BLM/ACAB youre not welcome ❣️💔

if youre looking to join to start drama or spy for some ulterior motive, leave us alone! (Oi fuck off mate I’ll crush yer skull!) 💚

this is a no nsfw server, as there are minors here! 🖤🤍🖤🤍

If you’re interested, shoot me a DM!

REBLOGS > LIKES! We love making new friends here! And meeting new f/os

[self-ship-madness]

Self Ship Café Promo!

Hello, and welcome to Self Ship Café! A little self ship server with lots of big hearts. The doors are now opening to the public! Although there are a few rules.

A self shipping discord server 💘

we’re decently sized, but its fairly quiet! 💞

we have lots of roles to ensure peoples comfort, including locked gush channels for those who share f/os! 💓

we have a screening process, and that starts with this post: please dm for the server invite. 💗

🎶 RULES BEFORE JOINING: 🎶

 no lgbt+phobes, exclusionists, or the like! also includes ppl who are anti neopronouns/xenogenders 💜 familial and platonic shippers are 200% welcome to join! 💛💛

if youre proship/anti anti dont touch this post or server, or I’ll rip your fucking throat out 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

no adults who selfship with minors either (above goes for you too 💕) 

if youre anti BLM/ACAB youre not welcome ❣️💔

if youre looking to join to start drama or spy for some ulterior motive, leave us alone! (Oi fuck off mate I’ll crush yer skull!) 💚

this is a no nsfw server, as there are minors here! 🖤🤍🖤🤍

If you’re interested, shoot me a DM!

REBLOGS > LIKES! We love making new friends here! And meeting new f/os

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i hid my new blog from search results, dm for a link

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Props if you can find my new self ship blog (mutuals may dm me for the link)

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Might remake my self ship blog n start over. This onell still exist just wont be used. Just thinking about it

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kinning your s/i has some serious perks like:

Getting kin memories of ur wedding

All the more Emotions for your f/o

Everything is their aesthetic now how did this happen

DID I MENTION KIN MEMORIES FROM YOUR WEDDING?

[rakyats-archive]

i want to add briefly to the important narrative of being inclusive for lgbt and poc in the community by saying this:

lgbt rights includes poc rights. it includes black rights, and latinx rights, asian rights, native rights, etc. so much of what pride is was built by poc. sexuality and gender is often deeply rooted in poc heritage as well. 

i love my fellow gay and trans self shippers. i love you. but being lgbt does not mean somebody is free of toxicity including racism. i see it rampant even within the queer community. i see microaggressions and vague distasteful comments, jokes, even fetishizing poc characters. i see how many of the self shippers who don’t get any attention even within our corner of the community are poc. 

i’ve personally been attacked or had problems with almost entirely white mlm shippers among us. yall need to do better. you can share posts and denounce racism all you want but it doesn’t mean anything until you put that mentality into action. i’m tired of it. not for my own sake, but for everyone who has made my eyes well up and wish i could do more to include them and make their experience here happy as a person of color.

lgbtq+ white self shippers… please do better by us.

[futuremoji]

Your fifth most recent emoji is what your soulmate thinks about you

[captainhoyw]

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a picrew edit !

!!!!!!!!! ⚠️ DO NOT START A PICREW CHAIN WITH THIS PICREW, THERE ARE NOT MANY SKINTONE OPTIONS. DM ME FOR A LINK BUT PLEASE DONT START A CHAIN. THANK YOU! ⚠️ !!!!!!!!!!!

[thevampireconnoisseur]

Imagine it’s the morning after your wedding with your f/o. You wake up, your heart skipping a beat as you see your f/o lying by your side. You lean in and give them a kiss on the cheek, and they smile and say “Good morning.”

“You’re awake!” you say, surprised. 

“Yes,” your f/o replies.

“Then why won’t you open your eyes?” you ask. 

Your f/o reaches out and takes your hand in theirs, intertwining your fingers. “Because a part of me is afraid that if I open my eyes, it would have all been a wonderful dream. I can’t believe I’m married to you. I love you so much, more than words could ever possibly say.”

Your heart swells and you lean in to give them another kiss, this time on the forehead. “Open your eyes,” you tell them. “I promise it’s real.” 

“Are you sure?” your f/o asks, but they’re smiling. You squeeze their hand. “Promise,” you say again.

Your f/o opens their eyes, and when they see you their grin grows even bigger. They cup your cheek with the hand that’s not holding yours, and lean in so the two of you are forehead to forehead, nose to nose. 

“You’re real,” they say softly. “Yesterday was real.” 

You nod, too happy for words, and your f/o shifts to kiss you on the lips. “I love you,” your f/o whispers to you when the kiss ends. 

“I love you too,” you reply softly, and the two of you kiss again. 

[disneymarina]

ask meme: hit me with your best shot of making me blush with your headcanon with my f/os

[achesspiece]

A vampire guy: *flashes his fangs at me*

me: 

[mask-knife-is-buggys-wife]

Hot take? If ya racist you don't deserve your f/o.

[tohmq-deactivated20221107]

i seem to be drawn to late-night concepts because hear me out: imagine going on walks with your f/o in the middle of the night.

maybe you wake up to a text from them, saying to meet them outside your house. uncertain, you pull on some shoes and go out to see them. the sky is dark, dotted by constellations and relatively uninterrupted by the light of the surrounding streets. there’s a chill breeze—quite the contrast from the typical hot summer days, but a welcome one nonetheless. maybe you ask them why they dragged you out here while you were supposed to be asleep.

“just wanted to see you is all,” they reply, grinning.

and how could you resist that smile of theirs?

there’s no particular destination in mind. it’s just the two of you enjoying the serene atmosphere of a sleeping town. maybe you notice the cold a little too much, and so does your f/o. wordlessly, they hand you the jacket or sweater they wore. it smells like them. if makes you feel safe.

maybe you take their hand, intertwining your fingers, too. you both continue to walk, either talking about everything under the moon or enjoying the silence until the sky’s edges begin to brighten. they drop you home before the street lights turn off. maybe you’d end up sleeping in a tad longer, but you know that night you spent with them is more than worth it.

[bauliya]

i think villains in general provide better, more epic romances because they're allowed to go to extremes. they're allowed to put their love over the greater good. they're allowed to be selfish. the best a hero can offer you is number two, because their duty comes first. villains, though. villains will burn down the world for a last kiss goodbye.