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“And then I felt sad because I realized that once people are broken in certain ways, they can’t ever be fixed, and this is something nobody ever tells you when you are young and it never fails to surprise you as you grow older as you see the people in your life break one by one. You wonder when your turn is going to be, or if it’s already happened.” - Douglas Coupland, Life After God

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The Godfather

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would you get back with your ex seeing you guys are still so close?

Haha big question but nah we had our distance issues and the distance still remains. He said a couple days ago that if I lived closer, he’d pick me over literally anyone else, but i don’t see us living in the same place anytime soon so now I’m just happy with how comfortable our friendship is like giving each other advice, calling almost every night even if it’s just to sleep LOL and just having him be one of my best friends again.

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Your blogs my fave 💕

♥️ Thanks bb 

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I love that so many of your followers have soft spots for their exes, I thought it was more uncommon tbh

I thought it was uncommon to stay friends too but I guess a lot of people try. I haven’t even posted most of the messages I’m getting about this (don’t wanna spam) but yeah it’s nice to hear people attempt to maintain healthy friendships 

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does it bother you when your ex talks about girls hes dating now? i wish i could get over it my ex enough to be friends again :( hes dating someone now and i has to end our friendship because I couldn’t take it

Not at all, he was casually seeing someone a few months ago that hes still close with and he’s got another tinder fling going on now, he tells me everything about them and I’m totally fine hearing about it. I mean in the future it might probably bother me a little if he “upgraded” from me or dated someone really attractive and it made me jealous or something but that’s not the case rn so I’m totally comfortable with hearing about it lol 

But I know the opposite is true where him being friends with me makes the new girl insecure but 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Wait how are y’all able to stay friends with exes LOL I have all mine blocked

LOL I’ve always been able to maintain good friendships with people after. Even if they are angry about something they always come back, but I’m not complaining 🤷🏽‍♀️But def don’t attempt it unless you’re fully comfortable 

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my ex and I broke up 2 years ago and we had like a really huge falling out and he dated someone else for 8months but recently he slid into my DMs again a few months ago and we slowly became friends again. But he says things like “I love you” and “i miss you” and i tell him I miss him too just to be nice but I’m not sure how to put an end to it because it’s getting more frequent

Honestly that stuff can only be ok if you’re both on the same page. My ex says this too and I’m totally ok with it cause your friendship evolved that way since we never had a falling out, but if you’re not, you can’t be repeating it to him and reinforcing that behavior. Make it clear that you don’t like it and you don’t see a future with him

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I just asked you a question but I need some advice, my ex and I broke up last month and stayed friends and hes seeing some new girl now and likes to talk about it with me almost like he’s trying to make me jealous. It doesn’t bother me that he’s seeing her but I wish we could talk about other things as friends. I brought this up one time and he just told me I’m probably jealous. How do I convince him that I’m literally just sick of hearing about it and not actually jealous?

hm I think he might be trying to make you jealous in that case because it’s not hard to just avoid a topic lol. I think you should put things into perspective for him, like say “if I was seeing someone, you wouldn’t want to hear about them 24/7.” Like my ex is seeing someone too and it doesn’t bother me, he doesn’t talk about her much though unless he’s feeling unsure or needs advice on issues he sees with her which I’m ok with so maybe tell him youre fine with giving him advice and stuff (so he knows you’re not jealous) but it’s boring to constantly talk about 1 thing. He’ll naturally try to be less boring because his ego will kick in 

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i thought you were dating someone lol

nope the last person I officially dated was in 2018 LOL but we just besties now 

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wait you’re single? what happened to the nfl player you were dating? i can’t find the pictures you posted of you guys anymore

Noo we were never official, we had a thing for 3 months or so but he was always training in the states and i told him I didn’t want to do the whole distance thing and I guess he felt like I had led him on, but I think he gets it now. The pics were on my other page @canadian and I took them down months ago because he blocked me on social media for a while LOL but now we are cool again 

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